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Hockey Playa

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My new philosophy summed up is "F*ck it""!. For me the thought that i was going to die someday and nothing really matters, was enough to motivate me. It is cliche but you only live once, so there's no point in inhibitions. I said "f*ck it" with a girl i was trying to get with, and it worked out. I know there are much more philosophical view on this subject, but i don't like writing long posts. The next you are debating with yourself, just say F*ck it.
 

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We should go more with our instinct and on what we truly want. Going with Fu** it you you pass the what if's and maybe's phases that make you do nothing in the end.
I think it's a good tip.
 

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Glad you came to that realization Bro! In the book The 50th Law, the last chapter is titled "Confront Your Mortality," and says essentially the same thing. We all have one life, and if you live your life to the fullest by pursuing your goals--and approaching life more fearlessly in general--when your time comes, you'll have no regrets because you lived life YOUR way. What's sadder than hearing an older person say "I wish I had did (fill in the blank) when I was younger"?

Knowing that we all have only a finite amount of time on earth should motivate us to make the most of our time, and when we begin to, things such as getting turned down by some girl seems utterly trivial (which it always is!).

JG
 

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Hi.... I am new one out here...Just joined the forum and opened up this thread.... I want to know that what discussion is being done out here... And what are we supposed to post in here... I shall be grateful on your assistance... Looking forward for positive response and Thanking in advance!!
 

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Dust 2 Dust said:
Elaborate please, what happened?
There's no need to elaborate. If you follow that rule, you'll see for yourself. Just say F*ck it!
 

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One rule I preach and live by is:


Regret is much tougher to deal with than rejection. One you remember for weeks, months, maybe even years. The other, you forget in a week.


Here is another one.

Decide you want it more than you are afraid of it.


And last one.

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover. - Mark Twain.


~B-Smooth
 

Alex DeLarge

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Dust 2 Dust said:
Elaborate please, what happened?
When you say "fvck it", you have no expectations. You want something and you just go for it. You realize the consequences do not matter because you only live one life, therefore are uninhibited by them. What's the point in passing up something you desire due to some BS like "what if she says no?" when you could die tomorrow? It's all about living in the moment and not thinking about the past or the future.

Think about the movie "Fight Club".. In the beginning of the film, Tyler Durden is everything he does not want to be because he chooses to be, but cannot yet see it. He only lives to that standard to appease his friends and acquaintances in society. During the rising action of the film, Tyler loses everything he once had.. This is when he starts to feel the feeling of "True Life" essentially true liberty.

Now think about this in comparison to the AFC. The AFC is everything he does not want to be because he chooses to be. The AFC sits in his room or with 2-4 friends on the weekend when they are horny young men that want to get laid. They choose to say "Wow, that guy at that party hooking up with that girl is a jerk! I don't want to be around people like that, let's play D&D" When they go home 2 hours later and beat off to that same jerk-type fvcking their favorite pornstar's brains out. The AFC is nothing but a closet jerk who cannot express his true sexual desires for fear of judgement.. Much like Tyler Durden chooses not to express his disdain for conspicuous consumption for fear of judgement.

Tyler gets fed up, says "fvck it", and starts living.
An AFC gets fed up, says "fvck it", and starts living.

By saying "fvck it" you have set up a blitzkrieg attack upon your ego to live out your true desires regardless of consequence and judgement. You live in the moment.

.. And no offense to anyone that may play D&D. I used to play myself. :)
 

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Hockey Playa said:
"F*ck it""!.

This is the only strategy anyone ever needs to get with girls. You
apply it enough times to enough girls, eventually you'll get 1 or 2 if you suck and get a
whole lot if you're good. But regardless, you'll score.
 
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