Just want some opinions

[ABM]

okay here it goes, i've been a long time DJ yet i havent come upon this particular incident.

This girl that i've liked for a while has been real depressed about god knows what lately(i think shes lonely) and she was telling to me about it today. I told her well, i know how to make it all go away. her: hows that? Me:just trust me, i can...

So tonight i was wondering if it would be a good idea to show up at her house with some roses and maybe a teddy bear.

I guess i'm not really doin this bc i want to get down her pants, but because i care about her. I'm just wondering if you guys think this will help the me and her situation.(which right now is pretty much just friends, kinda talkin) She truely is one of the good ones.

 

[LilKid]

long time dj...roses and teddybears?

*laughs quietly*

 

[ABM]

ok i said i didnt want to get in her pants you dousche. Have some sympathy for the depressed girl. What do you have in mind that would be better?

did it ever occur to you that i know this girl and i know what would work best? part of the whole DJ experience is being aware of what works on different girls.

 

[NewMan]

Drop the flowers and teddy - thats lame.

Take her out and spend the moeny having fun.

Shot pool, darts, whatever.

 

[Hot Ice]

Originally posted by ABM
ok i said i didnt want to get in her pants you dousche. Have some sympathy for the depressed girl. What do you have in mind that would be better?

did it ever occur to you that i know this girl and i know what would work best? part of the whole DJ experience is being aware of what works on different girls.

If you say you don't want to get into her pants...
Then just go for it if you feel like. That's good.

You've been here long enough to decide yourself and not to ask help from newbies who have just got a (sill black & white) new view to the world.

I'm sure she will feel a lot better after this.
Just do something casual and fun after that. Just convo could be good.
Talk only about positive things and cheer her up.
I would change those roses to some other flowers though. Or drop the flowers completely.

EDIT:
I think my post was something you wanted to hear

 

[ABM]

Originally posted by Hot Ice
If you say you don't want to get into her pants...
Then just go for it if you feel like. That's good.

You've been here long enough to decide yourself and not to ask help from newbies who have just got a (sill black & white) new view to the world.

I'm sure she will feel a lot better after this.
Just do something casual and fun after that. Just convo could be good.
Talk only about positive things and cheer her up.
I would change those roses to some other flowers though. Or drop the flowers completely.

EDIT:
I think my post was something you wanted to hear

Very much so something i wanted to hear. thanks. Ill call her up and see how shes doing. I want to make her feel better, but this is def. a girl i would consider having a relationship with so i dont know how much to get on her friend side.

 

[NatureGuy]

ABM:
Follow what Hot Ice says ! But forget
the gifts.

 

[Hot Ice]

Originally posted by ABM
Very much so something i wanted to hear. thanks. Ill call her up and see how shes doing. I want to make her feel better, but this is def. a girl i would consider having a relationship with so i dont know how much to get on her friend side.

Well, if you really want a relationship with her a teddy bear and those flowers can be dangerous, you know..
Or good. You never know.

Hmmm... I think it's OK for a guy who is sexually exciting to a woman to give a teddy+flowers.
(They are bad if you aren't exciting to her sexually and you try to buy your way to her pants. That's the AFC thing about giving something.)