Long story short. I've been chatting with a girl. Just saw her photo. No longer interested. Needless to say, I feel guilty. I might just go out just to prove to myself that I'm not shallow but I don't want to waste my time either. But then again, there is the hope that she will find me physically repulsive (I haven't sent a photo yet). What do I do?
Just Saw Her Photo and No Longer Interested
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Face it, looks matter to you. Read the part of this article about the shallow effect:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=104343
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=104343
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Why is she fat or something?Juan_Man said:
At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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That's what ecards are for. You just put her email and your name... and thats it.Juan_Man said:
I never knew that I was such a SHALLOW type of a guy until I began using the internet about 3 years ago and UGLY GIRLS whom I had been chatting with via MSN ICQ and YAHOO messengers E MAILED me photos of themselves whilst we were chatting.
I was SHOCKED at how UGLY some of these GIRLS were, I felt very SORRY for them and I wished that I could be physically attracted to EVERY GIRL on the planet, but I wasn't.
In my EVERYDAY LIFE I only ever really talk to and get to know the most attractive 30% of the HOTTEST BABES that I see, but I never really thought anything about that.
I guess that I just assumed that all of these GIRLS were VERY PRETTY until there photos showed me otherwise.
I felt very uncomfortable and AWKWARD about this and I didn't know what to say to the UGLY GIRLS after I had so very DEVASTATINGLY looked at their TERRIBLE photos.
Often I just had to immediately DELETE and BLOCK them off my messenger lists which I felt really TERRIBLE about, I don't know what I should have done in that situation.
These days if a GIRL messages me I ask her for a photo as soon as the chatting begins, which is the best way to go about it.
I often see other guys who can't attract the HOTTEST BABES walking around the streets, in shopping plazas, at the beach, or wherever in the company of an UGLY GIRL and I just cannot even COMPREHEND why they are with them.
If I couldn't win over a HOT BABE myself I would just buy an INFLATABLE SEX DOLL from my local sex shop and FU-CK that, as I could NEVER lower myself to dating an UGLY GIRL.
A GIRL has to be at least a HB7 or above to INTEREST me, I wouldn't ENJOY kissing, playing around with, nor engaging in SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS with a GIRL unless she was PLEASANT to my EYES.
THANK GOD THAT SOME HOT BABES DESIRE TO BE WITH ME. :yes:
I was SHOCKED at how UGLY some of these GIRLS were, I felt very SORRY for them and I wished that I could be physically attracted to EVERY GIRL on the planet, but I wasn't.
In my EVERYDAY LIFE I only ever really talk to and get to know the most attractive 30% of the HOTTEST BABES that I see, but I never really thought anything about that.
I guess that I just assumed that all of these GIRLS were VERY PRETTY until there photos showed me otherwise.
I felt very uncomfortable and AWKWARD about this and I didn't know what to say to the UGLY GIRLS after I had so very DEVASTATINGLY looked at their TERRIBLE photos.
Often I just had to immediately DELETE and BLOCK them off my messenger lists which I felt really TERRIBLE about, I don't know what I should have done in that situation.
These days if a GIRL messages me I ask her for a photo as soon as the chatting begins, which is the best way to go about it.
I often see other guys who can't attract the HOTTEST BABES walking around the streets, in shopping plazas, at the beach, or wherever in the company of an UGLY GIRL and I just cannot even COMPREHEND why they are with them.
If I couldn't win over a HOT BABE myself I would just buy an INFLATABLE SEX DOLL from my local sex shop and FU-CK that, as I could NEVER lower myself to dating an UGLY GIRL.
A GIRL has to be at least a HB7 or above to INTEREST me, I wouldn't ENJOY kissing, playing around with, nor engaging in SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS with a GIRL unless she was PLEASANT to my EYES.
THANK GOD THAT SOME HOT BABES DESIRE TO BE WITH ME. :yes:
She now wants my number. I don't plan on giving it out. As far as going out, I don't mind chilling for a little bit but I don't want to lead her on if she gets interested. What do I do? I could be like the girls that rejected me in the past but I know how much that sucks.
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Juan_Man said:
Please, a woman wouldn't think twice about ditching your ass if she thought you were ugly. Tell the troll to go back to the ugly tree.
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You should stop trying to run your love life from the internet, thats what you should do! get out in the real world, you can see what they look like before chatting!Juan_Man said:
there is alot of talk on this site recently about myspace and chat rooms for meeting women, it just wrong wrong wrong!
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There clearly going to by ugly as well, a hot girl can land a great guy just by walking round the supermarket!
I now see the problems of online sarging. You have more girls willing to put themselves out there and more guys getting approached. I now enjoy being the guy who puts himself out there to possibly get rejected. It's much better than getting approached and having to turn people down.
Interesting point, maybe that's why girls have to "mature faster". They almost have to be ruthless.
Just tell her you're really busy & stressed out from work. Everytime she msn's/emails you. Problem solved. If she tries to console you then tell her you don't really want to be reminded of work. Then send a message like, "I'm sorry I'm just really not worth talking to right now" or "More work to be done, peace. :\".
It weans them off you because in their head you "honestly" could be that busy.
Let me just say that's hilarious imagining their disappointed, beastly, faces.
Just tell her you're really busy & stressed out from work. Everytime she msn's/emails you. Problem solved. If she tries to console you then tell her you don't really want to be reminded of work. Then send a message like, "I'm sorry I'm just really not worth talking to right now" or "More work to be done, peace. :\".
It weans them off you because in their head you "honestly" could be that busy.
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Don't let her dictate your life. I don't see the problem. If you are not interested, then tell her off or ditch her. Rejection doesn't always have to be limited to guys.
Chemistry
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Why waste your time and money with a girl who isn't attractive... spend whatever you'd spend on yourself on doing something with friends, or a girl who is worthwhile...
I mean really... why would you pity date someone... I know I've got better things to do... just become a little more scarce on the net or put on her block every now and again so she thinks you've become a little more scarce...
I mean really... why would you pity date someone... I know I've got better things to do... just become a little more scarce on the net or put on her block every now and again so she thinks you've become a little more scarce...
PRMoon
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Option B is sounding better and better.Desdinova said:
You'll get over ditching a girl you don't like.
"I'm takin you off my buddy list b*tch! I hope you get a virus...you and your computer."