Just remember, you love me!

Krak

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So this girl I've been talking to blows me off for a date, oh well. After she tells me she can't make it she texts me, "Just remember, you love me!" So I send this reply, "Oh really, is that how it is? I thought it was the other way around. Don't worry, you don't have to admit it, I love me too."

I was thinking this might have been too ****y of a response but then she replied to me "Lol...yah yah..." I took that as a good sign but not sure.

Now I don't think I have said or done anything that would give her this impression. I plan to back off for a while and see what she does. Do you guys think I handled it well? or do you think I'm LJBF and next her?
 

Wiesman44

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I would have just ignored the text, waited 3-4 days, and call her back, while not even mentioning the fact that she blew me off 4 days prior.
 

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Krak said:
So this girl I've been talking to blows me off for a date, oh well. After she tells me she can't make it she texts me, "Just remember, you love me!" So I send this reply, "Oh really, is that how it is? I thought it was the other way around. Don't worry, you don't have to admit it, I love me too."

I was thinking this might have been too ****y of a response but then she replied to me "Lol...yah yah..." I took that as a good sign but not sure.

Now I don't think I have said or done anything that would give her this impression. I plan to back off for a while and see what she does. Do you guys think I handled it well? or do you think I'm LJBF and next her?
seems like a pretty sick response to me...after that i'd just sit back and see what she does.
 

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Need more info to be totally sure what's going on. For instance, it is ok for a girl to break a date if her Mother was just rushed to the hospital - but somehow I doubt that it what happened.

Women don't break dates with guys that they are into.

Your txt response was ok - but it probably doesn't matter. It might come across as angry or needy. I would have ignored, or said "ha,ha", or ...(would need to know more).

I would absolutely start looking for other women. If she called me I would probably say something like "I am a busy guy, my rule is that I don't make dates with women who blow me off - but I do feel bad that I didn't warn you of my rule before. I guess I could spare an hour and give you one last chance and let you meet me for a cup of coffee or a drink." (I have used this and it works) ...but that it just me.

You should probably just next her.
 

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Neg hit...the power lies within the neg hit on a HB..trust me ;)
 
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