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So what should you do when she break the rules ?
Immediate demotion to plate. If you can’t do that or don’t want to, then you dismiss. Women aren’t stupid, they know when they’ve done something to damage the relationship. And if you allow her to get away with it or become passive aggressive in your response, everyone loses respect for you. Including yourself.
 

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everyone loses respect for you. Including yourself.
Which is why when certain lines are crossed, the only response is to dismiss.

Then work on himself, gain recognition from his peers and those around him, be viewed as above par, this will greatly help increase one's sphere of influence, increasing ur domain no matter how small.

When that happens, women will come not only easy but less likely to act out in this fashion because one has admirable qualities by then.

Admiration will generate respect and that's the only sustainable path in an LTR with women.
 

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So what should you do when she break the rules ?
First unhinge the way you think. What compels a man to have a single girlfriend?
Where does this come from? The dreams and fantasies in a man’s head about women come from where? Even our music and books and movies lead a man to a single, enchanting, just for him woman.

The depth in which man has succumbed was designed to encapsulate him into a production machine. Though this is good on one hand as it builds civilizations it didn’t stop there. He had to be convinced to sacrifice those labors for mere pvssy. To fulfill those illogical fantasies planted in his head.

A man’s biology has been used against him for a purpose other than his own purpose. This is why men are forced to kneel to their governments or communistic social constructs. He doesn’t know his own power. The power to exert indifference is very important here.

The opposite of love isn’t hate. Love and hate are bed partners. Indifference is the opposite of love. They may take your taxes but they mean nothing to you. You wouldn’t piss on them if they were on fire. Indifference is very important.
When you proclaim support for something, it isn’t indifference. Careful what you support.

The support and communion with those things that benefit you and your ilk are what’s important. Help others? Of course. Careful who you help. It is fashionable to help the poor or the downtrodden. I disagree. It only traps powerful men into continuing to think they are powerless. Within context, they have the same gifts as you do. They have been convinced that they are powerless.

Women are standing off to the side, siphoning off the goodwill and gifts of men without actually doing anything.

Why would a man follow any of this destructive social construct? Give me one constructive, intuitive, logical reason why.
 

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Every time I slept with a woman who had a bf, the bf was lame or I just simply looked way better then him. I never saw the guy and thought to myself, wow what a cool guy, why would she cheat on him. It was always, wow I see why she messes around on him

A lot of women are with guys that they dont have high physical attraction too, but the guy provides for them, and gives them a feeling of security and comfort, because they know he's ONLY talking to them. He won't step out on them. So if you come around and make her feel that physical attraction she doesn't feel at home, it's game over 9 times out of 10
 

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Every time I slept with a woman who had a bf, the bf was lame or I just simply looked way better then him. I never saw the guy and thought to myself, wow what a cool guy, why would she cheat on him. It was always, wow I see why she messes around on him

A lot of women are with guys that they dont have high physical attraction too, but the guy provides for them, and gives them a feeling of security and comfort, because they know he's ONLY talking to them. He won't step out on them. So if you come around and make her feel that physical attraction she doesn't feel at home, it's game over 9 times out of 10
True, funny thing is, I've seen the cool guys get the same treatment, some of them are in my social circle and still dont know till this day lol.

But most of the girls I've smashed who had bf often told me there boyfriends were "too sensitive"
"Too clingy" "he does everything I say" lol
 

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True, funny thing is, I've seen the cools guys get the same treatment, some of them are in my social circle and still dont know till this day lol.
That's where the lame part comes in. A lot of guys are cool in every area of their life except dealing with women. They're the type who will keep dealing with a chick after they talk crazy to them, or keep hanging out with a chick who hasn't given them head in a month, they're fine with just sex with her lol. I know guys who will open the car door for a woman every time they get in a car... it pains me to see
 
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But most of the girls I've smashed who had bf often told me there boyfriends were "too sensitive"
"Too clingy" "he does everything I say" lol
They think because she's answering every call or text that he sends out daily, that they're making good progress and she must really like him... but in reality he's just creating a girlfriend who won't respect him in the long run
 

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Every time I slept with a woman who had a bf, the bf was lame or I just simply looked way better then him. I never saw the guy and thought to myself, wow what a cool guy, why would she cheat on him. It was always, wow I see why she messes around on him

A lot of women are with guys that they dont have high physical attraction too, but the guy provides for them, and gives them a feeling of security and comfort, because they know he's ONLY talking to them. He won't step out on them. So if you come around and make her feel that physical attraction she doesn't feel at home, it's game over 9 times out of 10
Do you think ALL BF and husband started out as lame? Smh.

There are some outstanding men cheated upon. The women are addicted to lying and cheating.
 

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Do you think ALL BF and husband started out as lame? Smh.

There are some outstanding men cheated upon. The women are addicted to lying and cheating.
I think with boyfriends there's a higher probability that they started off lame. He can be an outstanding guy, but he can be lame in his interactions with his woman. This is what we on the outside aren't seeing, but his woman deals with him on the daily. She's seen him do things that have turned her off(like crying, begging for her back, blowing up her phone, pouring his heart out to her, doing whatever she says etc) A man who seems strong, may be very weak and vulnerable in his dealings with women behind closed doors.

The married guy thing can be different factors. It can be he's lame in his dealings with her, but often times it's also the married man just not being that much into her anymore. So it's not that he's lame, he just doesn't really care what she does. He doesn't even have sex with her much anymore. She may seem chubby to him after the kids and he's disgusted by her... then here you come along and see that chubby as thick, and you make her feel loved again. Then boom she's cheating
 

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I think with boyfriends there's a higher probability that they started off lame. He can be an outstanding guy, but he can be lame in his interactions with his woman. This is what we on the outside aren't seeing, but his woman deals with him on the daily. She's seen him do things that have turned her off(like crying, begging for her back, blowing up her phone, pouring his heart out to her, doing whatever she says etc) A man who seems strong, may be very weak and vulnerable in his dealings with women behind closed doors.

The married guy thing can be different factors. It can be he's lame in his dealings with her, but often times it's also the married man just not being that much into her anymore. So it's not that he's lame, he just doesn't really care what she does. He doesn't even have sex with her much anymore. She may seem chubby to him after the kids and he's disgusted by her... then here you come along and see that chubby as thick, and you make her feel loved again. Then boom she's cheating
That being said i will discuss the "black magic" part of it.

In my life my women were loyal and couldnt get enough of me were when i was an unconstrained and uncontrolled man. I could cheat lightly. Be too selfish watching football and forgetting anniversaries and the such. Hanging out with the fellas, etc.

In years i was a more mindful and loving man I was cheated upon. Diring these yrs i was more mindful, payed more attention more aware of her needs. During these yrs they would eventually cheat and pull away. Because its so predictable. And the "yin/yang" was effed up.
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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Take women from pro bodybuilders and motogtx riders and get back to me lol. No guy is safe from this stuff, you have to get lucky and choose a woman with a very well developed moral code.
No I completely agree, I don't think I'm safe either lol. There's always someone that a woman can perceive to be better then you, or higher value, no matter who you are. We all just have to take advantage when it's our turn
 

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But most of the girls I've smashed who had bf often told me there boyfriends were "too sensitive"
"Too clingy" "he does everything I say" lol
Very few men are physically attractive to women in the first place compared to vice versa. Respect is the one thing you can make up for it with, aside from being around her in the right time at the right place (like a drunk horny party slut). Women need to feel respect to feel desire, and the more she respects you the more she can desire you. Feminism however, turns men into persons that women can't respect - "too sensitive", "too clingy", "he does everything I say", so on and so forth. If SoSuave had been in charge of those men for 3 months instead of the blue pill soy boy culture there is no way they would say that about them.

That's where the lame part comes in. A lot of guys are cool in every area of their life except dealing with women. They're the type who will ... keep hanging out with a chick who hasn't given them head in a month, they're fine with just sex with her lol.
Speak for yourself. I would rather fvck a girl than get a *******, you can only be hard for so long. *******s are nice every once in a while.. but penetrating her pvssy is more fulfilling.
 
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Speak for yourself. I would rather fvck a girl than get a *******, you can only be hard for so long. *******s are nice every once in a while.. but penetrating her pvssy is more fulfilling.
Wow... so you're the guy women tell me about when I tell them cut the BS and suck this d1ck. They'll say something like "some guys dont care, and they say we can do other things" and I'm like who tf are these mythical creatures you're speaking of... so it was you huh... thanks a lot -___-

I was more speaking to guys who ask for it and get denied, but keep hanging with the chick. If you just don't care about it then that's different
 

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Wow... so you're the guy women tell me about when I tell them cut the BS and suck this d1ck. They'll say something like "some guys dont care, and they say we can do other things" and I'm like who tf are these mythical creatures you're speaking of... so it was you huh... thanks a lot -___-

I was more speaking to guys who ask for it and get denied, but keep hanging with the chick. If you just don't care about it then that's different
lol all right bro, I get it then. Don't get me wrong, *******s are great as a spice, I just prefer fvcking her.
 

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That being said i will discuss the "black magic" part of it.

In my life my women were loyal and couldnt get enough of me were when i was an unconstrained and uncontrolled man. I could cheat lightly. Be too selfish watching football and forgetting anniversaries and the such. Hanging out with the fellas, etc.

In years i was a more mindful and loving man I was cheated upon. Diring these yrs i was more mindful, payed more attention more aware of her needs. During these yrs they would eventually cheat and pull away. Because its so predictable. And the "yin/yang" was effed up.
I will just repeat what you are saying with this post and we all know is really the truth. Women don't desire men who pander to them. Women don't desire men they can control.

No I completely agree, I don't think I'm safe either lol. There's always someone that a woman can perceive to be better then you, or higher value, no matter who you are. We all just have to take advantage when it's our turn
And if you don't think she has access to higher value guys than you you need to fvcking think again.... a woman who you perceive to be less attractive than yourself can easily be nailed by guys who are significantly more attractive than you are. The abundance women have in 2020 with not just men (and orbiters of course), but high value men - hot Chads and exciting tatted up bad boys, high status guys - is utterly unprecedented in history. It's revolutionary. It's probably almost incomprehensible to someone who isn't thoroughly black pilled from seeing it themselves, that's why you have guys thinking that only women who are conventionally attractive can do it. I'm telling you, they can ALL do it if they want to.
 
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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That being said i will discuss the "black magic" part of it.

In my life my women were loyal and couldnt get enough of me were when i was an unconstrained and uncontrolled man. I could cheat lightly. Be too selfish watching football and forgetting anniversaries and the such. Hanging out with the fellas, etc.

In years i was a more mindful and loving man I was cheated upon. Diring these yrs i was more mindful, payed more attention more aware of her needs. During these yrs they would eventually cheat and pull away. Because its so predictable. And the "yin/yang" was effed up.
There's a certain type too, that really respond to this more then others. It's mostly the daddy issue ones, but once you figure it out, they're easy. They love being ignored. I've even had one tell me that she likes guys who ignore her
 

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And if you don't think she has access to higher value guys than you you need to fvcking think again.... a woman who you perceive to be less attractive than yourself can easily be nailed by guys who are significantly more attractive than you are. it if they want to.
Hell yea, especially on OLD, they can really level up. I've smashed chicks who I thought to be beneath me, and there's been times when I would go to their house and see that they had a really cute beautiful daughter. I'm sitting there looking at the daughter like wtf... how did THIS chick, have such a beautiful baby girl.... I'm like whoa, this woman got some dude way out of her league to get her pregnant
 

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Do you think ALL BF and husband started out as lame? Smh.

There are some outstanding men cheated upon. The women are addicted to lying and cheating.
Don’t ever forget this truth. Intuitively smart goodstuff.
Some of the best men in this world “alpha” or “beta”, if those words fit, have been cheated on and always will be. Forever and ever.

A man who thinks it’s because other boyfriends or husbands are weak, will totally fail. Why? Because they still don’t understand the female.
 

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IMO, alot of those BF and husband started out as lame with women. They could be successful in every other area but are lame with women. These women are addicted to validation. They are not even LTR material to begin with.

Look no further than our sports stars and celebrities paying 100k a month in alimony/child support to former porn stars/strip club sloots/instagram h0es.

80% of guys are completely stuck in the matrix of romance and have an inability to think rationally when it comes to women. For most women, romance is merely a business decision.

This is what it means to be stuck in the matrix. First comes the money. Then comes the power. Then comes the respect. Then comes the instagram h0e for a wife, then comes the divorce rape. And now she's fvcking the pool boy and buying him rolex watches with her ex husband's money.

There is a major blindspot even in the most outstanding men in society. All because of the social construct of romance and the delusions that comes with it.
Absolutely. It’s all fake. A nightmare illusion that persists.
 

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A boyfriend or husband is ALWAYS in second position to her secret fuks and sucks. I don’t care who he is.

Spaz said something a long time ago that fits here. The mere fact that a man enters into monogamy with a woman, will automatically lower him in her eyes. It’s an automatic mental default. You are no longer the fuk boy but now the cuck. Her entire thinking switches. You agreed to serve her.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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