I suspected this was going to happen at some point soon. It did this morning. My former oneitis, the 35 year old woman I met at my gym early last fall, brought her boyfriend there this morning. She knows that I'm often there on Thursdays (I ran into her last Thursday) and typically, I go to the gym Tuesdays, Thursdays and Saturdays. Both of them were very well-dressed up as if they were going somewhere or came from somewhere. I happened to walk right past them when they came into the gym. I overheard the guy say:
"Wow. This is a so...not bad gym at all." He's about 5'11 but very bulky, not bulky like a guy who works out, but more fat-slightly big stomach and chest with blonde hair and a blonde goatie to match, maybe about 292-300lbs.
They both walked toward the locker room areas and while I worked out, I didn't see them again until about two hours later, when I was almost done. Maybe they had sex in the Women's Locker Room or went swimming in the pool together. Anyway, I could care less. She came out first and waited for her boyfriend in the lobby. She looked at me in the area where I was sitting, but my face was straight. I just kept working out and didn't give her any of the attention she wanted.
But I have to be honest...as much as I'm doing my best to move on, I really don't like seeing that woman's face around me at all. It brings back so many negative and painful memories and I just don't want to feel that way again. As a typical woman, I won't be surprised she did it deliberately hoping that if I happened to be there, she could show him off and see if I'll try to get jealous. ****ing *****. Anyway, I have decided at this point that it would be appropriate for me to get a feel for what the gym is like on other days of the week and to switch from the days when I normally go there, so that I won't have to be seeing her face around me. I just don't like seeing her at all. Thursdays are definitely a "no, no" for me at that gym right now. Let no one get me wrong. I could care less what she does with her life or what happens in it, but I really just don't like seeing her at all. I normally used to go to the gym on days when I don't work, but this time I'll give a shot to going there right after work.
That's the risk with talking to women in gyms. When there's a woman at your gym who you don't get along with, she can do whatever possible to try to make you uncomfortable. I can't wait to graduate in May so I can leave Philadelphia and its superficial dating scene. I hope things would be better for me in a different city and that I would hopefully find a better woman. I've been through more hearbreaking experiences than I can count, but that's a part of life and I'm staying strong. Things will get better...I am hopeful.
"Wow. This is a so...not bad gym at all." He's about 5'11 but very bulky, not bulky like a guy who works out, but more fat-slightly big stomach and chest with blonde hair and a blonde goatie to match, maybe about 292-300lbs.
They both walked toward the locker room areas and while I worked out, I didn't see them again until about two hours later, when I was almost done. Maybe they had sex in the Women's Locker Room or went swimming in the pool together. Anyway, I could care less. She came out first and waited for her boyfriend in the lobby. She looked at me in the area where I was sitting, but my face was straight. I just kept working out and didn't give her any of the attention she wanted.
But I have to be honest...as much as I'm doing my best to move on, I really don't like seeing that woman's face around me at all. It brings back so many negative and painful memories and I just don't want to feel that way again. As a typical woman, I won't be surprised she did it deliberately hoping that if I happened to be there, she could show him off and see if I'll try to get jealous. ****ing *****. Anyway, I have decided at this point that it would be appropriate for me to get a feel for what the gym is like on other days of the week and to switch from the days when I normally go there, so that I won't have to be seeing her face around me. I just don't like seeing her at all. Thursdays are definitely a "no, no" for me at that gym right now. Let no one get me wrong. I could care less what she does with her life or what happens in it, but I really just don't like seeing her at all. I normally used to go to the gym on days when I don't work, but this time I'll give a shot to going there right after work.
That's the risk with talking to women in gyms. When there's a woman at your gym who you don't get along with, she can do whatever possible to try to make you uncomfortable. I can't wait to graduate in May so I can leave Philadelphia and its superficial dating scene. I hope things would be better for me in a different city and that I would hopefully find a better woman. I've been through more hearbreaking experiences than I can count, but that's a part of life and I'm staying strong. Things will get better...I am hopeful.
