Bokanovsky
Master Don Juan
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In this day and age, the most appropriate response would be: "So do I"I think one word, and a little inflection, would have done the job for you:
“And?”
In this day and age, the most appropriate response would be: "So do I"I think one word, and a little inflection, would have done the job for you:
“And?”
If I'm forced on dating women only within 5 years of my age, I don't feel like continuing to mack.Unless you are really rich, you are not likely to get a woman more than 5 years younger. At your age, even 15 years younger is 40+.
Younger woman don't want the wrinkly balls of a guy nearing age 60 unless he has a lot of money.
Come on, you're not that old.If I'm forced on dating women only within 5 years of my age, I don't feel like continuing to mack.
I'm sorry, I just think that trying to play off her responding with this just makes the man look desperate. Does Chad take that attitude that he has to somehow game her to make her forget about her "boyfriend", or does he just move on to the next plate?In this day and age, the most appropriate response would be: "So do I"
I find myself only attracted to women that are still fertile.Come on, you're not that old.
I was being sarcastic.I'm sorry, I just think that trying to play off her responding with this just makes the man look desperate. Does Chad take that attitude that he has to somehow game her to make her forget about her "boyfriend", or does he just move on to the next plate?
No, you should realise when she's 'not interested' versus 'playing coy'. Not every woman who uses IHAB is 'not interested', some are just using it to bolster their own resistance against their own desires.So folks here say that after I get this response to me asking her if she's like to get together sometime, I should continue to spend time talking to her, to the detriment of working on another plate?
Correct. Your job, Don Juan is to know the difference.No, you should realise when she's 'not interested' versus 'playing coy'. Not every woman who uses IHAB is 'not interested', some are just using it to bolster their own resistance against their own desires.
OK, I will adjust my statement. If there seems to be some IOI from the plate, then you should presume it's just a game and continue on. For my particular instance, other than having a good conversation, I did not get an IOI; I guess my prowess in DialogGame makes me think I'm wowing women more than I actually am. DialogGame is simply JesterGame without making a fool of oneself.No, you should realise when she's 'not interested' versus 'playing coy'. Not every woman who uses IHAB is 'not interested', some are just using it to bolster their own resistance against their own desires.
Everything is an opportunity to learn.OK, I will adjust my statement. If there seems to be some IOI from the plate, then you should presume it's just a game and continue on. For my particular instance, other than having a good conversation, I did not get an IOI; I guess my prowess in DialogGame makes me think I'm wowing women more than I actually am.
You put a lot of stipulations on what can be done and who is attracted to who. I don’t really care that you do and it’s not a criticism, but it appears to be a common theme about locations, ages, and statuses. Eg: “X people of X location of X demographic of X age of X income can only do X and attract only X.”Unless you are really rich, you are not likely to get a woman more than 5 years younger. At your age, even 15 years younger is 40+.
That’s great psychological acuity, something I think is lost in Gen Z.I understand that you're bummed out, but since boyfriends rarely factor into whether a girl will sleep with you, she just throws out the IHAB because she knows that will stop you from pursuing her.
I was with a young woman that came over to my home to buy a vintage typewriter. I wasn't flirting with her, but showing her a few typewriters within her budget, when she told me IHAB.
I stopped and looked her over, then said, "Why are you having those thoughts about me?"
"What thoughts?"
I shrugged. "The type of thoughts that urge you to tell yourself you're unavailable."
"I think I was telling it to you, not myself."
"I didn't ask," I said. "I never ask. You were telling that to yourself, but you don't believe it, so you voiced it out loud."
She blinked at that. "I don't believe what? I have a boyfriend."
"Of course you do. But that's not the reason why you voiced that out loud. Your thoughts took you in a direction that urged you to state your relationship status."
"What thoughts?"
I smiled at her. "The naughty ones. You're a little afraid of them and since you feel I could make them a reality you blurt out your relationship status. To shield your feelings from revealing your desires."
She didn't know how to respond to that.
"It's fine." I turned back to the typewriter I was showing her. "You successfully thwarted my imaginary advances."
"I did?"
"Yes. There is no way in hell that I'm going to hit on you now."
She giggled at that. "Maybe I want you to hit on me."
"No," I said. "You know that men like me aren't boyfriend material, so the boyfriend line was defensive. Maybe you think it would be exciting to explore your dark desires, but you're not ready yet."
"So, should I call you when I am?"
"You have my number," I replied. "Shall we continue with the typewriters now?"
She's one of my kittens now. I still don't know if she has a boyfriend or not. Not my problem.
Those would be your most likely prospects if you were still in the United States, especially with your height. Being in Eastern Europe might help a bit more.If I'm forced on dating women only within 5 years of my age, I don't feel like continuing to mack.
I do spend a decent amount of time with people. It must be pointed out that no one's social circle is a representative sample. Broader quantitative data is more meaningful than much of what I would be able to observe with people I meet/people I know in the real world.You put a lot of stipulations on what can be done and who is attracted to who. I don’t really care that you do and it’s not a criticism, but it appears to be a common theme about locations, ages, and statuses. Eg: “X people of X location of X demographic of X age of X income can only do X and attract only X.”
Do you know or spend time with lots of people?
How many times did you fvck her before she said that?
Of course, it was complete baloney.
It's OVER for AlreadyHaveABoyfriendCels.
I think it's lost to thirsty men that women enjoy being teased.That’s great psychological acuity, something I think is lost in Gen Z.
Firstly, that sounds like a film scenario or a paragraph from a novel ... a woman coming into your house on a business matter and offering herself to you like that.I was with a young woman that came over to my home to buy a vintage typewriter. I wasn't flirting with her, but showing her a few typewriters within her budget, when she told me IHAB.
I stopped and looked her over, then said, "Why are you having those thoughts about me?"
"What thoughts?"
I shrugged. "The type of thoughts that urge you to tell yourself you're unavailable."
"I think I was telling it to you, not myself."
"I didn't ask," I said. "I never ask. You were telling that to yourself, but you don't believe it, so you voiced it out loud."
She blinked at that. "I don't believe what? I have a boyfriend."
"Of course you do. But that's not the reason why you voiced that out loud. Your thoughts took you in a direction that urged you to state your relationship status."
"What thoughts?"
I smiled at her. "The naughty ones. You're a little afraid of them and since you feel I could make them a reality you blurt out your relationship status. To shield your feelings from revealing your desires."
She didn't know how to respond to that.
"It's fine." I turned back to the typewriter I was showing her. "You successfully thwarted my imaginary advances."
"I did?"
"Yes. There is no way in hell that I'm going to hit on you now."
She giggled at that. "Maybe I want you to hit on me."
"No," I said. "You know that men like me aren't boyfriend material, so the boyfriend line was defensive. Maybe you think it would be exciting to explore your dark desires, but you're not ready yet."
"So, should I call you when I am?"
"You have my number," I replied. "Shall we continue with the typewriters now?"
She's one of my kittens now. I still don't know if she has a boyfriend or not. Not my problem.