just had a date with a 40 year old single mom, what you reckon?

[pete101]

i just had a pof date with a 40 year old milf from pof, she didn't seem to be DTF.

she has an 18 year old daughter, if she looks similar to her mom then she must be hot too.

it started ok, she seemed highly interested, then started rubbing her boot on my leg so i took this as a come on rather than her just being nervous rubbing, when she found out i was 10 years younger than her she seemed turned off and started talking about other guys she went on dates with.. it was annoying. she let me kino etc but then said i was naughty and i asked me what i was looking for and i was too clever for her and she couldn't trust me cos i could be tricking her.

she knows i want sex i haven't actually said it straight out, what should i do?

its not ideal, im off work today so met her during the day, she lives down the road from me. literally. so convenience is good. the only time she's free by herself is during the day during school times, unless i take day off work im not really going to get to have sex. my place is not possible as im living with family.

 

[Viagra4Soul]

Well it's not ideal is it? Welcome to the wonderful, sometimes frustrating world of dating older women with children.

If you really like her, you can work around it with her help. But you both have to decide if it's worth it. Wouldn't you rather date single women without kids and make it easy on yourself? No other plates currently spinning?

 

[pete_101]

In my opinion, if she's the first one asking, "What are you looking for?", then you're disempowering yourself. She's qualifying you.

Turn the tables and qualify her--be the first one to ask the question--and ask it like it's a pass/fail question. Ask like it's IMPORTANT--even if it's not. And if she DOES say, "relationship," don't sweat it. Women will casually fvuck if they're attracted to you enough.

And, also my opinion, if she answers anything less than, "a relationship," she's probably up for sex. But you still have to be cool and act unimpressed.

Age shouldn't be an issue because you met her online. She KNOWS you're younger. If she brings up the age difference, be ballsy and say, "Is my youth a dealbreaker for you?" Again--YOU do the qualifying.

i see, i'll remember that next time, thanks

in case i do forget to ask that 'what are you looking for question?' first, what should i say?

i was thinking 'same thing you're looking for' then give a cheeky smile.

 

[I'm in the Mood]

In my opinion, if she's the first one asking, "What are you looking for?", then you're disempowering yourself. She's already qualifying you. You need to be the man and qualify her--YOU should be asking the qualifying questions--and asking them like it's pass/fail.

NO. She wants to know if you know what YOU WANT in your life.

From what you say, it sounds like this woman likes you and might be DTFA (non-vulgar version of DTF). It's GREAT that she has a kid who's 18 IMO, because she'll be out of the house and off to college in no time, so this lady is probably not looking for a daddy at this moment. In fact, she might be lonely when her daughter leaves home and might want some company.

 

[Paul Jones]

Helen Jones

When I worked in Tattenhall near Chester I used to go out with her and found out that all she ever does is drink cheap white wine and sleep with as many men as she can. She works at the Countess Hospital in Chester in the Pathology lab and she must have been ****ed by half the men in the hospital.

As long as she can keep herself in cheap nasty wine she'll drop her knickers for anyone.

Very embarrasing when you go out with someone to find out she's the village bike.

Also she NEVER uses condoms so I ended up ****ting myself for months wondering whether or not I'd caught anything.

Now I don't know why I bothered. She has almost no tits, a huge dimpled ass, and a belly like a floppy marshmallow.

She also has very poor hygeine, with filthy crusty feet and never wipes her butt properly.

All in all a very bad experience in 57 Castlefields, Tattenhall.

%7 varieties of men more like :nono:

Better off without. Helen Jones .... You are a slut ... goodbye.

 

[Aaron B]

this is one of the better aspects of older women, their children are typically old enough to not be much of an issue

it would be way different if she had a kid who was like 7

most likely her 18 year old daughter isn't dependent like a 7 year old is

 

[pete101]

this isn't good.. i should mention it's 2 kids.. one 18 the other i dont know how old, but young i guess.

 

[Desdinova]

when she found out i was 10 years younger than her she seemed turned off and started talking about other guys she went on dates with.. it was annoying. she let me kino etc but then said i was naughty and i asked me what i was looking for and i was too clever for her and she couldn't trust me cos i could be tricking her.

She sounds a bit nutty. I'd ditch her. Dating a baggage-ridden 40 year old isn't worth the hassle. And WTF are you doing pursuing a 40 year old? You're still prime at age 30. Get a 24 year old instead of an old bag.

 

[pete101]

She sounds a bit nutty. I'd ditch her. Dating a baggage-ridden 40 year old isn't worth the hassle. And WTF are you doing pursuing a 40 year old? You're still prime at age 30. Get a 24 year old instead of an old bag.

i like the idea of banging an older woman and a younger woman.. i'm into both

tbh she has sisters too, i'd like to bang the whole family including the daughter if they look anything like her! haha

 

[Maximummax]

i'd like to bang the whole family including the daughter if they look anything like her! haha

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