Just got dumped....

[Exodus]

Allright,
First and foremost i want to thank this place for making me a better person - although it's been slow, i've improved myself in many ways since finding this site, including my seduction technique.

anyhow, I just got dumped by this girl whom i had the best 3 months ever; we were completely in love, but the last 2-3 weeks we would fight over the most insignificant of things; they were little fights but i guess she took it to heart. She just broke up with me, saying that we should take a break because we're too much alike. Another contributing factor to this is that we lived in the same building on the same floor, and we went to the same program of the same university, so spending tons of time with her was inevitable. I'm quite hurt by this (never thought a girl would make me feel this way), she is too, but i just want to know what's the best way to take this break up, and to maybe increase my chances of having another chance. I know i sound like a total chump at the moment but i've dated many girls and I know this one was very special. I'll stop rambling...


any suggestions or comments are welcomed...

 

[Cremasta]

Sorry to hear it Exodus. Most of us have been there one way or another.

The only way to make it easier to keep busy. Study, work out, go running, date other girls, get out with friends... anything. You'll only think of her when you are sitting around bored.

She just broke up with me, saying that we should take a break because we're too much alike

Okay, just to let you know that this is total crap! She was looking for an out and this was the best she could come up with??? pathetic, she's not even good at this.

If you do want to get her back, don't mope around. Make it absolutely obvious that everything is fine and you are getting along just great. If she gets upset that her breaking up had no impact on your life, that is her tough luck. She may come back to you, she may not. Don't even try to make it happen.

 

[vdk]

She just broke up with me, saying that we should take a break because we're too much alike

Sorry, but I couldnt help but laugh at what she said. ROFL . I've heard lame break up excuses before in my time, but that definately wins first prize.

Even a ******** translator would blow up converting that sentence.

 

[Biphoria]

I know you think she's great dude, etc etc but there are other fish in the sea that are just like/better than her. she's in the past now.

This is from th bible "Remember guys: Don't give ehr a second chance to tell you to get lost" and "ex-s are in the past"

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

3 months together and u were "completely" in love????

in love with what and why - sounds like u r pus@y -whipped!

bro u got some deep problems.... if u dont learn something quickly b 4 your next relationship u may be suicidal.

read everything on this site - TWICE! And say NO to hos!

 

[Sato21m]

Another contributing factor to this is that we lived in the same building on the same floor, and we went to the same program of the same university, so spending tons of time with her was inevitable.

i don't know about that because my gf and i we been going out for like4 months, and I met her at work so since the very beginning i seen her a lot we even see each other at school and this girl is an afc for me she love a lot so i don't think is that

 

[iqqi]

whenever someone tells you to go away (in ANY kind of terminology), then you should go away.

and the only time you should ever stay, is if it is made clear to you that you should.

if you live by those two rules when it comes to relationships, you'll have a lot less confusion.

so let her go. (and she may not like that, but you are teaching her that if she wants you, she better act like it too).