So I just moved to a new state. I currently know almost no one. So I found this app called meet me, where you can meet new people. I started up a message conversation with this girl. She works for the IRS and tells me she's a workaholic. I work long hours so I get that. Anyway, after an hour phone conversation, I invite her to have a cup of coffee for hour or so. You know for a "sanity check." She agrees and we make plans for yesterday at three pm (because she works until noon.) A half hour before we are supposed to meet up she texts me and asks for a raincheck, because she is still at work. I ask her when she was thinking, and she says she's off tomorrow.
I figure at this point she must at least be passably interested otherwise she wouldn't be asking for a raincheck. So I say ok, I'm off Sunday as well, and i work alot, so i understand, so how about at noon. She said that would be great, and thanks for understanding. I arrive about ten minutes early today, and I txt her to let her know I had arrived. Then I wait until 12:30. I got nor response back, so I left. And I haven't heard anything back from her. I'm kind of surprised that I was blown off without even so much as an excuse. Especially when she had told me for ten minutes how she hates playing games. (I can't say I should be surprised. Women lie.) my big question is what to do now. Should I just chalk it up as, "she's not worth my time?" Which I'm very tempted to do. Should I just go with "all beautiful women do this at one time or another and that dealing with it is all part of the game?" And if so, how should I deal with this?
I thought about no contact for a few days then calling her up acting like nothing happened. And when she inevitably starts to talk about it just play it off, like I'm too busy to care,(ie just went to plan "B"). What do you guys think? As always thanks in advance for the advice.
I figure at this point she must at least be passably interested otherwise she wouldn't be asking for a raincheck. So I say ok, I'm off Sunday as well, and i work alot, so i understand, so how about at noon. She said that would be great, and thanks for understanding. I arrive about ten minutes early today, and I txt her to let her know I had arrived. Then I wait until 12:30. I got nor response back, so I left. And I haven't heard anything back from her. I'm kind of surprised that I was blown off without even so much as an excuse. Especially when she had told me for ten minutes how she hates playing games. (I can't say I should be surprised. Women lie.) my big question is what to do now. Should I just chalk it up as, "she's not worth my time?" Which I'm very tempted to do. Should I just go with "all beautiful women do this at one time or another and that dealing with it is all part of the game?" And if so, how should I deal with this?
I thought about no contact for a few days then calling her up acting like nothing happened. And when she inevitably starts to talk about it just play it off, like I'm too busy to care,(ie just went to plan "B"). What do you guys think? As always thanks in advance for the advice.
