Just found out my exfvck buddy is on drugs...

[Tantric]

I had a really fvcked up evening last night...

The girl wo i hadn't seen in about a month called me up and we started getting into a REALLY wierd convo (we used to be fvck buddies)...she was acting dellusional...kept changing the subject...starting telling me she really likes me (i walked away a month ago)...then tell me she doesn't like me, and then back again.

I just thought she was being a typical "girl". i was also used to her flaky/wierd behaviour, so i didn't think anything of it.

She asked me to come over and she said she was going to pick me up. Though she said she wasn't going to "spend the night" with me (no sex).

She says she'll be here in 10 min....she never showed up. So i get pi$$ed off and go to bed...then she calls me...even more ****ed up then before...

She couldn't remember the convo or us even talking...kept saying she was tired...didn't know what she wanted. I asked her why she changed her mind about picking me up, and all of a sudden she turn it around and asked me why I CHANGED MY MIND!!! Obviously the convo didn't really go far.

I don't know what she was on, but it scared the shyt out of me...especially because she passed out while on the phone.

Judging by the convos we had last night (which ended up being around 2 hours), she was either on crack or heroine...

now i don't know what i am supposed to do...

obviously i don't know her that well as this is the first time ive seen her on somthing... but i feel like i should be doing something as her and i used to be friends.

I called her today to see if she was okay (it scared me that she passed out on the phone with me), and it seems like she doesn't remember ANYTHING!!!

Obviously this isn't a "how do i get her" question...should be running and not giving a shyt?

 

[coldcoal]

Yes.

 

[doctor evil]

dude be a human being

go drag that girl into rehab. she needs help....as much as we gotta learn how to be cool cats with women who ****ing drive us crazy you gotta be a human being and help her find help. she was too screwed up to know better but somehow she called you and indirectly is screaming for help.

 

[Hot Ice]

No alcohol here, eh?

What did you say on the phone next day?
Did you ask her about drugs?

Well, this is really your call.
Do as you feel like.

If you want to help her, do it.
It's her problem and could be pain in your ass too...

 

[So pimp its scary]

Sounds more like methamphetamines....

I could tell you some similar whacked stories, but ya... should have asked her how many days she'd been without sleep. (one dude I talked to told me 17 days with no sleep, but he also didn't have cartillage seperating his nostrils)

Regardless, you want nothing to do with a girl that's on heavy drugs... untrustworthy, incoherent, and broke.

ƒuck em and chuck em at most

 

[Hot Ice]

Originally posted by So pimp its scary
ƒuck em and chuck em at most

That's what I'm saying.

 

[coldcoal]

When I give advice, it is beause I've been through the same grind. In thier recovery stages you better make damn sure that if this is a person you want to help, you better be ready to stand up anyone in your social life on a moments notice to do it.

You're an EX f*ckbuddy. I find it hard to believe you can tolerate this type of saga longer than a best friend or a family member. If you don't have the stamina to stick to it till the end, you will do more damage than good. Leave it alone.

 

[JustDoItAlways]

She wouldn't be the first model to be on heroine. Have you seen any tracks?

Given that she passed out, she was probably just drunk.

But given the aids and hepatitus viruses amongst injection drug users, its time to leave her alone for good now.

Get yourself checked out as well.