Just F'n Do it!!

[mahon83050]

This is what is all boils down to, just do it. Do not think too much, just do it! If you think, or it seems a girl likes you, she probably does. You are not going to get anywhere by waiting for her to initiate something (only 5% of chicks do) or constantly run scenarios over and over again in your head. I still find myself doing that too much....."Is she checking me out or is she only looking at me because she thinks I keep looking at her." "What if I go over to this chick standing by herself and she might end up having a b/f who starts with me?" What if I ask this girl out and she rejects me?" I am sure you guys go thru this stuff too, DO NOT get yourself caught up in "What if" scenarios, you will end up in a living hell.

Come on, I can remember plenty of times I was reluctant to do something because I was afraid of the turnout. You know what, everything turned out fine. So, bottom line, you must always take risks. Hell, you take a risk every day by getting into your car and driving everyday. According to stats, someone dies in a car wreck in this country like every 3 minutes. Getting ahead in life and being successful is all about taking risks. Of course, I am not talking about taking out your life savings and betting on Horse #3, that is just plain idiotic. However, you guys know what I mean. Take a stand and challenge yourself, whenever you get the chance. It is so much better and honourable to take risks and fail, then too mot take one at all. That one risk you take, could land you that dream job or dream job. JUST ****IN DO IT!!!!!


P.S Shyness and non-assertiveness are the #1 enemies of Don Juanism.

 

[Vassago]

Good post. This reminds me of a great quote the other day:

"It is far better to do SOMETHING wrong, then to do NOTHING right."

 

[CamaroMike]

"It is far better to do SOMETHING wrong, then to do NOTHING right."-Vassago

The quote is, "It is far better to do something wrong, than nothing at all."

 

[JustDoItAlways]

No, Just Do It Always.

Good post, mahon.

Here's a bit of an illustration to hit home the point. Although I'm seeing someone right now, I know its not really going to work out and I'm looking for a replacement.

There are three chicks that I see regularly that flirt like crazy with me and I, of course, am back up on them just for fun, a little practise (when other people aren't around.) All three are hot as hell, single, and the reason I haven't made a real move on them before is simply because they are outrageous attention wh0res. They flirt with every guy within a 20 mile radius. (The reason why I basically ignore them if other people are around.)

But if I didn't know any better, I would swear these girls want me bad. All the signs are there (see RedXL's post) and most guys would have fallen for their flirtations long ago.

Since I'm looking to move on, I decided to test these chicks out for real, all within the last month. You guessed it, all three had the usual look of horror on their face when I made my move. The horror that attention wh0res have when they realize that their games with this guy are now over because he called them on it.

Failure for sure. Maybe I should have tried them out long ago but I stay away from attention wh0res for the most part.

But at least now I know. I don't have to waste anymore of my valuable time wondering if they are actually interested or just playing their little flirting games.

That is just the point of "Just Do It." Find out for sure, one way or the other. Don't waste your time examining this, wondering why that.

The odds are that at least one or some of those potential girls wants your bones anyway or will when she gets to know you, so find out which one that is and start now.

 

[lollipop]

Originally posted by mahon83050
If you think, or it seems a girl likes you, she probably does.

I have negative experience with that. I was often convinced girls were interested in me but they weren't. But the rest of your post was ok. I just wanted to vent.

 

[mahon83050]

Re: Re: Just F'n Do it!!

Originally posted by lollipop
I have negative experience with that. I was often convinced girls were interested in me but they weren't. But the rest of your post was ok. I just wanted to vent.

Yea, well I am going to test this theory "If you think a girl likes you, she probably does." I will test it next week on this girl in my class whom I get good signals from. If I get rejected, I will be very confused. Then again, her "supposed" signals might just be
friendliness or as 'just do it always" stated an attention *****. The whole point is to just ask her out instead of wondering if her "supposed" signals mean this or that. Wouldn't it be great if we could read womens minds?

 

[lollipop]

Re: Re: Re: Just F'n Do it!!

Originally posted by mahon83050
The whole point is to just ask her out instead of wondering if her "supposed" signals mean this or that.

I agree with that.

Wouldn't it be great if we could read womens minds?

Nah, probaly end up more fucked up.