Just dissapearing

[lizardking82]

Do you ever just "dissapear"? Like, not answer to any chicks for 2-3 days, do only things you like? Go on a trip or just get some things done that you wanted to get since a long time anyways? How do the girls react to that? How do you feel after that?

 

[wifehunter]

Yes, many times, I've been called 'David Copperfield'*

...feels liberating.

Feminist social pressure sux!!!

* ref: http://www.davidcopperfield.com/

 

[Who Dares Win]

Most of the times it happens when the stress they provide is higher than the pleasure you get dealing with them.

Sometime once you disappear you realize that appearing again is probably not worth.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Yes, I like to call it Houdini. WDW explained it perfectly IMO.

I had a prospect that was showing declining IL, even had a decent make out with her but I ghosted her a**, I'm done jumping through her hoops.

I've went 5/6 days with a recent plate. She calls me up on a Sat night.

G: hello? how are you!? Hockeyfreak are you mad at me? Blah blah blah.

HF: Nope, just been crazy busy, what's up how are you? (up-beat & positive) blah blah blah.
Oh you are making me dinner that's great I'll be there in 1hr.

G: Okay sounds great! let's watch a scary movie.

Ultimately it depends on the chick as well.
Needy vs non etc.

 

[wifehunter]

Sometimes, I do it, just for fun!

Also google: Irish exit or Irish goodbye

 

[Julian]

i take flights to North Carolina all the time. No Contact

 

[Red Legg]

I love ghosting everybody not just women,I have disappeared on women I was in a serious LTR on for weeks,it's nothing they did or did not do I just decided to back off to see what their reaction would be or decide to travel.I am retired and have a good income and live in a nice hotel,I have never met anyone who has my lifestyle,once I disappeared for 6 months and took down my Facebook before I vanished,I had 100 emails from lovers,friends,acquaintances begging to reveal where I was so finally I sent everyone just one picture of me standing by the Colosseum in Rome with no explanation.

 

[Infern0]

Only if they do something to warrant it.

If they start acting up, walking away is always the best option, like immediately.

They will either come correct pretty damn fast or they won't, but it also gives you the chance to figure out your next move.

As a previous poster said, 9/10 times that move should be to never go back.

 

[ThisNThat]

Do you ever just "dissapear"? Like, not answer to any chicks for 2-3 days, do only things you like? Go on a trip or just get some things done that you wanted to get since a long time anyways? How do the girls react to that? How do you feel after that?

I have a female friend that got irritated with a guy she called up and he went to the Bahamas without even telling her where he went. When he answered, he was flippant and dismissive over the phone as he didn't want to reveal the nature of what he was doing...even if it was just small talk.

Nevertheless, she dumped his arse.

Shows how ignoring guys can backfire like it did with this guy.

 

[ThisNThat]

I know of dudes that would get a woman's number...and call her 6 months after getting the number. By then, she pretty much told him to f-off.

Some are boomerangers, kind of the same as above, but they make wishy-washy plans, or they do make plans, then stop returning calls. They give up, 6 months later, they call you and pretend as if they just talked to you YESTERDAY. People who pull that **** don't deserve anyone.

Kind of sad that people here actually admit to it as if they were bragging. What, is this your way of getting even for the women that did this to you?

Both men and women do this, and these are the kind of "friends" you don't want in your life anyway.

 

[IraLeo]

Often times it's necessary to pull the plug, not just because you want to create attraction but sole purpose of you need to cleanse out any negative energy around, go take a trip, or do something you never done before.

Often time i go watch a movie at 930am and then straight take a trip to a nearby city, hike and then camp for next 2 days.

It's refreshing. But when you get back, spice it out by hanging out at "not your usual spots" for couple of days.

 

[wifehunter]

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I have a female friend that got irritated with a guy she called up and he went to the Bahamas without even telling her where he went. When he answered, he was flippant and dismissive over the phone as he didn't want to reveal the nature of what he was doing...even if it was just small talk.

Nevertheless, she dumped his arse.

Shows how ignoring guys can backfire like it did with this guy.

I know of dudes that would get a woman's number...and call her 6 months after getting the number. By then, she pretty much told him to f-off.

Some are boomerangers, kind of the same as above, but they make wishy-washy plans, or they do make plans, then stop returning calls. They give up, 6 months later, they call you and pretend as if they just talked to you YESTERDAY. People who pull that **** don't deserve anyone.

Kind of sad that people here actually admit to it as if they were bragging. What, is this your way of getting even for the women that did this to you?

Both men and women do this, and these are the kind of "friends" you don't want in your life anyway.

Shut up with your trolling. You're preaching against NC which is at the very top of the discussion and you think it is BAD? Are you out of your mind? If YOU are starting to become an annoying girlfriend, then yes we don't want to talk to you. We will just ignore you for a couple of days to ease the tension between the relationship instead of just cutting it off entirely. Unless you think that men should end relationships with women after just a few days of being annoying. But you ought to be banned. And you proved yourself yet again to be a woman.