pooparu
Senior Don Juan
TBh man, this is pretty much yourfault. I think Ace said it before I did, but the advice you should have went in with is, "If she cheats once, drop her".
Personally I'm not gonna call her scum, etc, cuz its just gonna reinforce that she is a bad person and you did nothing wrong. Reflect, see where you went wrong as well and GROW from it, and next time don't let her suck some other guys off four times before you do something about it.
Note: I'm not saying she's NOT a bad person either, but quite frankly cheating, etc, isn't that serious to me, just break it off and keep going. I also don't avoid that NC t hing, its what women do. The best revenge is to live well. In fact, instead of hanging up and **** you should've just chilled out and said, "look its over, I'm sure I'll see you around town, but nothing's going to happen between us, now I've got **** to do, talk to you later"
It's alot better then cursing her off, wasting your breath, shortening your lifespan by getting all pissed, etc. You were hurt, great man, the pain is transient.
My new catchphrase:
EMBRACE PAIN, IT'S HOW YOU KNOW YOU'RE ALIVE.
Personally I'm not gonna call her scum, etc, cuz its just gonna reinforce that she is a bad person and you did nothing wrong. Reflect, see where you went wrong as well and GROW from it, and next time don't let her suck some other guys off four times before you do something about it.
Note: I'm not saying she's NOT a bad person either, but quite frankly cheating, etc, isn't that serious to me, just break it off and keep going. I also don't avoid that NC t hing, its what women do. The best revenge is to live well. In fact, instead of hanging up and **** you should've just chilled out and said, "look its over, I'm sure I'll see you around town, but nothing's going to happen between us, now I've got **** to do, talk to you later"
It's alot better then cursing her off, wasting your breath, shortening your lifespan by getting all pissed, etc. You were hurt, great man, the pain is transient.
My new catchphrase:
EMBRACE PAIN, IT'S HOW YOU KNOW YOU'RE ALIVE.