Just as I feared (Co-worker relationship)

[AmIAFC]

Check out my previous thread for more info, but basically, I had some great sex with this girl from work (she wants to hook up again), and we've both kept it really cool (neither of us are clingy) and really professional.

However, now there's this other female co-worker she's talking to and whenever I walk past them, they giggle and won't let me in on the joke. Jesus, is she a gossip *****?

 

[OneArmDeeJay]

Shut the fuk up and stop being insecure.

This is what happens when you dip your pin in company ink.

This is part of the reason why we tell you not to.

So you did and now you’re acting all girlish.

Who cares if she's talking shyt?

Who knows she could be saying you’re the best she ever had and try to hook you up with her friend

Or

Talking about how lousy you were in bed and how small your d1ck was.

At any case be a Man, ignore it and go on about your business.

 

[locarius]

Change your username, and REFRAME the situation.

They are giggling because they heard you were so good, and now they want you too.

 

[AmIAFC]

Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
Shut the fuk up and stop being insecure.

This is what happens when you dip your pin in company ink.

This is part of the reason why we tell you not to.

So you did and now you’re acting all girlish.

Who cares if she's talking shyt?

Who knows she could be saying you’re the best she ever had and try to hook you up with her friend

Or

Talking about how lousy you were in bed and how small your d1ck was.

At any case be a Man, ignore it and go on about your business.

Man, shut the F up. I don't care about the details (eg, "too small/big"). I'm just wondering how it'll affect the day-to-day social atmosphere of work. And trust me, had you seen this girl, you wouldn't give a f if she worked at your place or was the godd**** President's daughter --- I GUARANTEE you'd try to hit it.

 

[OneArmDeeJay]

Originally posted by locarius
Change your username, and REFRAME the situation.

They are giggling because they heard you were so good, and now they want you too.

That’s it just sugar coat it to make him feel better so he can sleep at night


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Listen AmIAFC,

You’re acting like one right now. AFC. Your all hung up on some girls giggling when you walked by.

LOL

Bro who cares, but apparently you do. We can't tell you why they are only they know. So since it's killing you so bad why don't you get the answer straight from the horse's mouth?

And let me tell you something I don't care how hot she is if I'm going to work there for a very long time I'm not going to hit that.

There's a reason why you don't pen your ink into company ink.

Stop thinking with your d1ck and start thinking with your brain on these kinds of situations.

 

[DJDamage]

Originally posted by AmIAFC
I'm just wondering how it'll affect the day-to-day social atmosphere of work. And trust me, had you seen this girl, you wouldn't give a f if she worked at your place or was the godd**** President's daughter --- I GUARANTEE you'd try to hit it.

It has already affected your day to day work. You cannot be yourself there. Every little tiff and tat you have with her, she will be talking about it with her female workers and they will know almost everything.

Your relationship with your co workers will change as a result. If she has co workers she doesn't get along with, they will hate you too because you will be guilty by association. Also some of them might be really b1tchy and complain to managment if they see that you are treating her better then others due to your relationship.

Lets not forget the gossipping and how people always want to make someone look really bad, in order to make themsleves feel really good.

Don't even get me started on what happens if you fall for her and she ends up dumping your sorry ass for a guy that works there too!!! or you dump her and she will have her revenge somehow!!

Mixing bussiness with pleasure will eventually equal pain.

 

[OneArmDeeJay]

Good Post DJ Damage

Hopefully now that someone broke it down to him he will get the point.

 

[AmIAFC]

She doesn't know I realize or knows that I'm concerned. Everytime they giggle, I smirk and walk off. But as soon as I'm in my office, I let out a deep sigh. The sad thing is, she's always on my mind -- not because of her looks -- but because she wants to do freaky things that a lot of my past dates felt was taboo (and I grudgingly respected that). On our last get-together, she talked about screwing me in one of the supervisor's office (he leaves it open at night), since we both hate his fat @$$

 

[frivolousz21]

She doesn't know I realize or knows that I'm concerned. Everytime they giggle, I smirk and walk off. But as soon as I'm in my office, I let out a deep sigh. The sad thing is, she's always on my mind -- not because of her looks -- but because she wants to do freaky things that a lot of my past dates felt was taboo (and I grudgingly respected that). On our last get-together, she talked about screwing me in one of the supervisor's office (he leaves it open at night), since we both hate his fat @$$

NO..do NOT FYCK HER at work..unless u want a new job.

DO NOT GET ATTACHED TO HER.


just pound her and you have the last laugh

 

[OneArmDeeJay]

Originally posted by AmIAFC
She doesn't know I realize or knows that I'm concerned. Everytime they giggle, I smirk and walk off. But as soon as I'm in my office, I let out a deep sigh. The sad thing is, she's always on my mind -- not because of her looks -- but because she wants to do freaky things that a lot of my past dates felt was taboo (and I grudgingly respected that). On our last get-together, she talked about screwing me in one of the supervisor's office (he leaves it open at night), since we both hate his fat @$$

Your not getting it and it's really sad

Maybe doing that and getting fired will teach you a lesson.

Don't think doing that won't come back and bite you on the azz.

 

[DJDamage]

Originally posted by AmIAFC
On our last get-together, she talked about screwing me in one of the supervisor's office (he leaves it open at night), since we both hate his fat @$$

That fat ass is paying for your salaries. You don't like the job then quit! It will not be a wise decision to fvck in the office, you will get caught and be fired!

Don't be surprised if all of the sudden she will backstab you if she gets in trouble and go directly to the Boss and tell him "her version" of the event, in which you will look really really bad. Men always have soft spot for pretty women who cry.

 

[AmIAFC]

You're right. I'm only entertaining the option, nothing more. I don't trust this girl; wouldn't even think about making her my GF.

I'm going to play hard-to-get for the next week or two, guys, because she's having too much fun right now. In the meantime, I'm gonna flirt with some of the less attractive females at work.

 

[nectarine]

Don't give a **** about the giggling. If you were crap in bed or have a bent **** or misshapen balls and it put her off, she wouldn't want to hook up again, but she does, so she's happy. As long as she comes back for more, right?

'Don't get your honey where you get your money' is advice to live by, but nevertheless many people do it.

Just keep it out the office. Don't grab her ass, don't tongue her down, even if there's noone around. And if she does, don't go for it or respond.

Don't get attached to her. We always say that, but this way you'll behave yourself better as well, when she flirts with other coworkers, when you hear her giggling out of sight, you won't give a ****, and you won't give anyone any ammo.

Follow this advice and - you might get away with a dangerous situation. She will be seeking to turn it into a stick to beat you with, even though she's part of it, women do that; don't let her. Just let her come to you for a good ****.

I've got with plenty of coworkers. The key is not causing resentment with others, and not getting attached.

OH! Don't make her pregnant. I mean this.

 

[TxCowboy]

Originally posted by AmIAFC
In the meantime, I'm gonna flirt with some of the less attractive females at work.

Did you not read what everyone just said??

 

[The Nice Guy is Gone]

Originally posted by AmIAFC
She doesn't know I realize or knows that I'm concerned. Everytime they giggle, I smirk and walk off. But as soon as I'm in my office, I let out a deep sigh. The sad thing is, she's always on my mind -- not because of her looks -- but because she wants to do freaky things that a lot of my past dates felt was taboo (and I grudgingly respected that). On our last get-together, she talked about screwing me in one of the supervisor's office (he leaves it open at night), since we both hate his fat @$$

The thing about women is that they know more than we think they do, especially in situations such as this. She knows you know, but she may not know you're concerned, which you are concerned, and you shouldn't be. Forget about it, and it will blow over. I've been in similiar situations before, and I've never had anything bad come out of the workplace. The workplace relationships that end causing friction are because one or the other people involved were immature, and that's all there is to it.

 

[locarius]

Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
That’s it just sugar coat it to make him feel better so he can sleep at night

Either way he is jumping to conclusions, so if he is going to do that he might as well frame it in a positive sense.

 

[AmIAFC]

Update:

Wench is playing hard to get now (Who's she kidding?). She hasn't returned a call and is always having lunch with one other guy at work (probably thinks she's "special"). Oh well, as long as I got my piece of the cake.

Moving forward...

 

[TxCowboy]

There's like 3 chicks at my work I would like to start macking on BUT ... I dont even bother with it simply because I would never put my job in jeopardy for some stupid h0 .... There are plenty of other places to find women ....

 

[PRMoon]

This doesn't make sense...your next to last post you said

I'm going to play hard-to-get for the next week or two, guys

then your very next post one (1) day later you say

Wench is playing hard to get now (Who's she kidding?). She hasn't returned a call and is always having lunch with one other guy at work

So what's it gonna be? If you're playing hard to get then you wouldn't be calling her within 24 hours. Hell I don't play hard to get and I don't call within 3 days. And now you say she's playing hard to get (which you wouldn't be aware of if you were playing hard to get) and are spotting her up with other guys?

Are you just trying to boost your ego with this whole thing because you sound kinda like Quagmire from Family Guy. What is the point of this thread? Is it just like a personal blog or do you want advice about how to handle the situation?

 

[green69]

Originally posted by PRMoon
This doesn't make sense...your next to last post you said



then your very next post one (1) day later you say



So what's it gonna be? If you're playing hard to get then you wouldn't be calling her within 24 hours. Hell I don't play hard to get and I don't call within 3 days. And now you say she's playing hard to get (which you wouldn't be aware of if you were playing hard to get) and are spotting her up with other guys?

Are you just trying to boost your ego with this whole thing because you sound kinda like Quagmire from Family Guy. What is the point of this thread? Is it just like a personal blog or do you want advice about how to handle the situation?

owned :crackup: