just a tease, or is there something else ?

[warpy]

well, not 100% sure about this, but she has some doubt about her relationship, like i said before, dont realy give a damn bf or not..
she already wants to see me next week, and we are in class together, i am sure there will be something next week, this week i am going to relax, date a girl in the evening and do some homework

there should be 2 more exams, in 3 week periods and 1 final after that. the timeline is shorter than it seems, the intensity will just up a level before the next exam, more hours more studying.. and the formula works, long hours, touchy feely, hands on all the way.

i do agree with you, i should strike the iron while its hot, think about it this way, 3 days without hearing or seeing me, she'll go nuts for sure

a little time off is very much needed here. cheers.

 

[Latinoman]

You are telling me that the ONLY way you can be near this attenion seeker is via Studying?

If that is the ONLY way...then she is certainly using you for the reasons I stated.

And if you allow this to go for 3 months (while NEGLECTING the chances of finding other women), then you are a fool.

Exam is over. Make your move now. If she flakes...then find yourself a NEW studying partner.

 

[whistler]

Frankly, it's a steep cost for an occasional BJ.

 

[kyphan]

So much sound advice has been given in this thread, and so little has been used. Keep selling out for some cheap thrills man, I love reading the updates in this thread.

 

[ER!C L!VE]

Did she swallow?

Keep sarging and meeting/banging other girls. Have as many f-buddies you can get! If this girl mentions her bf, then you mention a girl you're seeing on the side and tell a story about a situation. Make up one if you don't have a story - just keep it short. Your study buddy can not get upset with you bringing up another girl as she's with another guy. If she does get upset, just mention that you use condoms and ask her: "Why does it bother you? You have a bf". Hell, she's mentioning her bf, so why can't you bring up other girls?

The girls I'm dating know I date other girls - because I tell them. They KNOW they're not the only girl who I hang out with. Letting a girl know that she's the only one you don't use condoms with is key :cheer:

Cheers!

Eric

 

[NorPacWolf]

Warpy,

You're a little unclear on some of the details. Did you actually full close this girl? You're clearly infatuated with this girl, and she is indeed a user. But nothing is going to change your mind. The problem is, you'll walk away from this situation bitter about women, and feeling used.

I've dated several girls like this: they have 'providers' in different areas of their lives. One girl I dated was having one guy do her car repairs, had another as her steady boyfriend, 'utilized' several others for free meals, and I became her 'study buddy.' She was willing to pay for my dates and offered sex, but the basic unspoken assumption of 'exchange of favors' never went away.

We're all cringing because this girl is using you and you're too blind to recognize this. Give yourself some dignity and stop spending every waking minute of your live with this girl. The DJ has options. You, apparently, have none.

Wolf

 

[warpy]

not blind at all..,
okay new story from today, was in a coffee shop was drawing people with a friend of mine, 2 hot hb9 blond twins come over, sit down outside, i go out tell them to join me and my friend, they follow quite easily, talked for an hour, drawing always impresses girls.. lol, had a few laughs, numbers exchanged, they invited us to meet around 11:00, went home knowing they could flake out, but if i was to go out with them i would have needed to shower, anyways called them, they pickedup quickly hungup without saying a word, i figured i'll try again in an hour see if this happens again, if so its a definite rejection. called after an hour phone is not even turned on.

so basically i brought 2 crazy hot chicks i couldnt have talked to a year ago to my table, got their digits, they offered to meetup, but flaked out. they dont know i called a second time. i'll call again tomorrow evening, but before i do that i still want to hear what you guys say about that

okay story ends, i can also get a date for tomorrow evening with another girl, she just sent me her bikini picture, how cute. told her a one without the bikini is better, she didnt have one lol. anyways so i am going to plan for both occasions for tomorrow evening and have a nice story to tell the study girl

@wolf, i dont realy have to give anything back man, the study thing is mutual. and i also got a complimentry backrub and foot massage after the bathroom thing. and no there was no sex. i said it before.

btw i have to say that the "next" advice is the easiest thing to do, i would rather sharpen some skills and next when i realy feel like it.

 

[warpy]

You are telling me that the ONLY way you can be near this attenion seeker is via Studying?

If that is the ONLY way...then she is certainly using you for the reasons I stated.

And if you allow this to go for 3 months (while NEGLECTING the chances of finding other women), then you are a fool.

Exam is over. Make your move now. If she flakes...then find yourself a NEW studying partner.

sorry missed your post, no its not the only way, its the only way i choose to use right now, like someone said it here before, anticipation is a killer, she knows she'll see me on monday then she will go nuts in the meanwhile

plus read my previous post, already spinning plates

So much sound advice has been given in this thread, and so little has been used. Keep selling out for some cheap thrills man, I love reading the updates in this thread.

i have used most of the advice here, but guys keep insisting on me nexting her, i dont want to do that right now, nexting is the most common advice on this thread for these situations, i believe there is a lot of potential here to do other things and nexting can always be done later on.

in the meantime i'll have my fun.

any other study partner will not have the same dedication and free time to study. so no, i am not finding another one, this works for me.

 

[warpy]

Keep sarging and meeting/banging other girls. Have as many f-buddies you can get! If this girl mentions her bf, then you mention a girl you're seeing on the side and tell a story about a situation. Make up one if you don't have a story - just keep it short. Your study buddy can not get upset with you bringing up another girl as she's with another guy. If she does get upset, just mention that you use condoms and ask her: "Why does it bother you? You have a bf". Hell, she's mentioning her bf, so why can't you bring up other girls?

The girls I'm dating know I date other girls - because I tell them. They KNOW they're not the only girl who I hang out with. Letting a girl know that she's the only one you don't use condoms with is key :cheer:

Eric

this is a sound advice and it works for me. cheers.

 

[NorPacWolf]

True enough. In that case, I recommend you learn as much as you can about the game from this girl. She's going to give you quite a lesson on push/pull, frame games, etc. You can actually utilize these skills with women. In fact, this is how Erik Von Horvat derived Mystery Method.

Cheers,

Wolf

i have used most of the advice here, but guys keep insisting on me nexting her, i dont want to do that right now, nexting is the most common advice on this thread for these situations, i believe there is a lot of potential here to do other things and nexting can always be done later on.

 

[warpy]

still looking for a sound advice about the twin blonds, call them a second time, do something else like a snappy sms, or what ?

 

[NorPacWolf]

I wish someone would help this brother out, as my own phone/text message game needs a lot of improvement as well.

Definitely keep these girls in your rotation. Send a flirty text message. Ask them what they're wearing. Call and if they don't pick up, leave a message saying you'll call back at a certain time. Call back periodically even if you don't get through the first couple of times.


Wolf

 

[warpy]

yeah i am not realy into chasing them, anyways i had phone sex with her last night, was ****ing owesome she did everything i told her to.. yay

i am gonna pass on those blonds and get me some new ones. sarged today in uni, will do more this week.

i am going to post on another thread about the women who cant climax, i have asked around this weekend so many girls cant get off from intercourse... i never had those problems with my gf.. wtf is that about. anyways, check out the thread.

 

[warpy]

update:

blond twin chicks are flakey, called once more.. wasnt serious enough to setup a date, erased their numbers.

talked to her on saturday night, her bf was out on some party, we had an hour of phone sex, i told her exactly what i want her to do, where to put her fingers what to do with her muscles, switch hands, moan, etc etc..
one hour of fun, she had lots of fun, told me that on a few occasions.
and when she came, she thought about me.

met her yesterday, we sat in class, she smelled like heaven on earth.
we spend 2 hours in the lab talking, she kept teasing me with her boobs and ass etc.
yes i know she is an attention ho, so what if she likes the ego boost.
my mistake was that i kept trying to touch her that day.
my study partner for that day had cancelled on me (another chick) so the HB said "want to go shopping with me", i made another mistake saying "yes"
we setup to meet an hour later, she called and said she told her bf we were going shopping and he said he wanted to go with her.
i told her that its okay, no worries, she asked if i was angry, i said no.. i actually anticipated this from him, so this was no surprise to me.
but i did feel some disappointment, as someone said anticipation is a killer, this time i was on the side who was being killed.
so she asked "when am i going to see you again, will it just be on thursday?"
i told her yea, because thursday is our mutual class.

anyways, this "when am i going to see you" is getting more frequent, she wants to see me and cant wait for the days to pass.
i am not going to do anything to make it happen, unless she offers it. she needs to understand at somepoint that this whole teasing thing has got to end, and if she wants something more physical from me, she has to give it back. no more freebies.
infact i am considering telling her that in some way, but not with a deadline attached, just make it clear that i had enough with the mixed signals its time to get serious.

what do you guys think about that? is there a better way to make her go the extra mile and jump into bed with me?
i cant get more alone time with her outside of school, not until the next exam which is probably in 2 weeks. but if i can i'll go for it.

i know there is serious potential here to f-close her, plus the fact that there is even more serious potential here to learn from my mistakes. i realy believe the best stuff you learn is from your mistakes.

hope you can add some advice here, thanks in advance, cheers.

 

[NorPacWolf]

Warpy,

Seduction techniques are not designed to help you lay one girl in particular. They are designed to help you so that you have choices. No one begrudges you chasing any particular girl, but...

a) there are 75 posts in this thread, all devoted to one girl in particular.
b) she loves to tease you but does not put out. Not even a kiss.
c) she is not leaving her boyfriend at least not anytime soon
d) you are clearly jealous and have every sign of one itis

Give yourself some options. If you are in uni, there must be multiple hot girls who you can meet. More so than probably any other time in your life. You are getting emotionally attached much too soon.

Wolf

 

[wayword]

she smelled like heaven on earth.

You are slipping back into oneitis bro...

The keys to hot AWs:

1) Spin other plates to hit jealousy switch.
2) Withdraw attention.

By striking out with your other options and refocusing on this AW, you are doing the OPPOSITE of both of these again... :nono:

I agree it's tough to get and keep other plates spinning...but until you do, you will have no real leverage with any chicks. Then you focus too much on each one and get oneitis and blow it.

BTW, this girl is a real power wh0re. She gave you a bj to feel powerful, not for her own physical pleasure. Imagine if you had a magic pebble that everyone wanted. When you dangle it in front of others or let them briefly touch it...you get a big charge out of it, knowing you hold the keys to power. You are validating the fact that YOU HAVE what THEY WANT.

 

[RedPill]

yeah i am not realy into chasing them, anyways i had phone sex with her last night, was ****ing owesome she did everything i told her to.. yay

talked to her on saturday night, her bf was out on some party, we had an hour of phone sex, i told her exactly what i want her to do, where to put her fingers what to do with her muscles, switch hands, moan, etc etc..
one hour of fun, she had lots of fun, told me that on a few occasions.
and when she came, she thought about me.

Phone sex? What the fukk is phone sex? Do you put one of those little Bluetooth devices in her snatch and then call it?

Well, I guess this would explain why your women rarely climax.

 

[warpy]

Warpy,

Seduction techniques are not designed to help you lay one girl in particular. They are designed to help you so that you have choices. No one begrudges you chasing any particular girl, but...

a) there are 75 posts in this thread, all devoted to one girl in particular.
b) she loves to tease you but does not put out. Not even a kiss.
c) she is not leaving her boyfriend at least not anytime soon
d) you are clearly jealous and have every sign of one itis

Give yourself some options. If you are in uni, there must be multiple hot girls who you can meet. More so than probably any other time in your life. You are getting emotionally attached much too soon.

Wolf

i hear you wolf, i hope i made it clear i am giving myself other options. i have not stopped sarging since.

You are slipping back into oneitis bro...

The keys to hot AWs:

1) Spin other plates to hit jealousy switch.
2) Withdraw attention.

By striking out with your other options and refocusing on this AW, you are doing the OPPOSITE of both of these again... :nono:

I agree it's tough to get and keep other plates spinning...but until you do, you will have no real leverage with any chicks. Then you focus too much on each one and get oneitis and blow it.

BTW, this girl is a real power wh0re. She gave you a bj to feel powerful, not for her own physical pleasure. Imagine if you had a magic pebble that everyone wanted. When you dangle it in front of others or let them briefly touch it...you get a big charge out of it, knowing you hold the keys to power. You are validating the fact that YOU HAVE what THEY WANT.

i completely agree. do you think there is a place to talk to her about the mixed signals, or just let it slide and doing 1+2 which will make her go nuts.

 

[warpy]

Phone sex? What the fukk is phone sex? Do you put one of those little Bluetooth devices in her snatch and then call it?

Well, I guess this would explain why your women rarely climax.

not fair redpill, they always did in the past when it was a hands on situation.

phone sex (as much as i recall from it)

me: i want you to touch yourself
her: naa i cant do that
me: goto your bed right now
her: but i wont kum
me: goto your bed now, no excuses
her: okay i am going
me: now you have to do everything i tell you to do
her: okay
me: say it. say you'll do everything i tell you to.
her: i will do everything you tell me to
me: lay on your back, take off your panties
her: okay, done
me: now put your finger in your bum, insert it slowly until its all the way inside
her: after a minute* its in
me: now put the phone near your ear where you dont have to move it again,
and softly touch your klit
her: okay i'll try, if i can find it...
me: its the soft button you find when you pull your skin up a bit
her: i think i found it, if thats the one
me: close your eyes, start rubbing your klit, make sure you dont stop and when you get wet use it all over to make sure you are soft and wet all over
a minute passes
her: i am realy wet
me: now put your finger inside of you, push and pull it. do the same with your other finger and make sure your an@l muscles are squizzing and relaxing while you do it.i want you to do the same with your pu$$y muscles.
her: starts to moan a bit
me: moan harder
her: graduatly getting more comfortable and starting to moan harder every time, while i try to arouse her during the process
me: i explain how i want to be your back finger and how i want to get off from behind (i know she likes it we talked about it)
how i want to let her body fill with my... and then i will take all the fluids and put it on her lips, nips, pu$$y.
her: moans like crazy and i can hear she is moving frantically in her bed
me: now switch your hands
* i told her to do it all over again in detail but with the hands switched. (back to front front to back..)
she: can you do the same?
me: okay..
*i wont go into details here, but i played an active roll

anyways this went on for atleast 30 more minutes, i eventually told her to close the phone and kum alone, then call me back after she was done.
she had an easier time without the phone, she is used to doing it alone.

at uni i asked her what fingers she used, she showed her hands and straighten her 2 fingers in each hand, i took one hand and smelled it, she got excited from it, was a load of fun, she told me that she was so wet the other night the whole room smelled of her and if i want to smell something i should be there.

 

[NorPacWolf]

I believe I've read all of Warpy's posts about this girl and if I recall correctly, Warpy never claimed this happened.

I just want to clarify and say that no one here is advocating dropping this girl, I think the general message is that it's only natural to feel needy when you feel like there is scarcity. If you're a squirrel with a stockpile of nuts or at least ready access vs. a squirrel trying to track down that one elusive nut, of course you'll feel differently. OK, I'm being silly and I'll stop.

Wolf

BTW, this girl is a real power wh0re. She gave you a bj to feel powerful, not for her own physical pleasure.