just a quick question

[narcissist]

so basically this girl initiated a study session with me over text like two days ago, and i went and studied with her today and she was VERY receptive and light kino ensued and she went to the timmies and bought me coffee without buying herself anything out of her own wallet while i chilled in the library, we barely studied, just talked and had fun for like 3 hours before my class

just wondering when a good time to contact her is so i can escalate another study session or even a date or some sh!t, without seeming like i care, not seeming needy BUT not long enough for her to lose interest because its our first time chilling..

new to the game but have read many of the articles on here so i have some sort of basis, but just started using the techniques and stuff since i broke up with my ex like 1 month ago so not alot of in field experience.. so some help would be nice thanks mates

OH BY THE WAY: rip me the fvck apart if you see anything im doing wrong or if the way im talking about the situation seems AFC, i want to learn, so i want hardcore constructive criticism

 

[Purefilth]

the best time is - whenever you feel like it.

do what You want to do, When you want to do it. that way you will never have regrets.

ok, so you might not get the desired result every time, but you wont regret not trying.
Shiits a learning curve - can tell you to wait three days or whatever, but the best answer is when you're free and have some time off from doing the awesome stuff you do (whatever that may be).


Game is about being confident and TAKING CONTROL. You are the man, you are in charge - girls love it when they don't have to think, they want to be told what theyre going to do. They have boring lives - that's why they need men around.

 

[narcissist]

good stuff man, i actually agree with that, rather then the notion that theres a "certain" time frame which is like a "ripe" zone for initiating second contact... obviously im NOT going to ring her up tonight and talk about "how much i loved studying with her today" hahaha im still going to keep a level head, but i will contact when i feel it is right for ME, not her... and if she rejects me its just part of the process of learning and i welcome it open armed.

as long as i remain confident and make a conscious effort to avoid needy and AFC qualities it doesnt matter when i contact.. right?

 

[narcissist]

imma just ring her up on next monday cus thats her birthday, and demand her to come out on tuesday to celebrate her bday.. fvck it, see what happens, learn from it if anything...

i think at this point in my level of "game experience" i should just be experimenting with a bunch of things and seeing what works for me.. worst comes to worst i get rejected which is a necessary part to the whole process so its a win win

thanks mate

 

[Purefilth]

do your thing bro.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Showing Too Much Interest

imma just ring her up on next monday cus thats her birthday, and demand her to come out on tuesday to celebrate her bday.. fvck it, see what happens, learn from it if anything...thanks mate

Go, go, go, go, go, go
Go shorty, it's your birthday
We gonna party like it's your birthday
We gonna sip Bacardi like it's your birthday
And you know we don't give a f*ck it's not your birthday

DO NOT, I REPEAT, DO NOT DO OR SHOW IN ANYWAY THAT YOU'RE ACKNOWLEDGING THIS CHICK'S BIRTHDAY! If you do, you will have effectively fast tracked yourself into being a centurion in this chick's legion of followers.

See like you, Rex is too is a narcissist and he views his birth as one of greatest events in the evolution of the species. For a chick to remember my birthday shows that Rex is on her mind and she's seeing ole Rex as something other a friend.

To this chick, you're nothing more than a "study group," partner. For you to acknowledge her birthday is just "doing entirely too much," on your part and shows your displaying "WAAAY," too much interest. Now if you want to reciprocate for the coffee that she bought you, go ahead with a comparable purchase. If you want to kick with her on her birthday, do so, BUT DO NOT ACKNOWLEDGE HER BIRTHDAY! Keep things in perspective and don't give some random chick that you only know from class and a study group session girlfriend privileges.

 

[Albatross953]

I enjoy your posts dude, but every time you talk about Rex in the third person I think of "eight ball" from Seinfeld. Lol

 

[apprenticedj]

DO NOT, I REPEAT, DO NOT DO OR SHOW IN ANYWAY THAT YOU'RE ACKNOWLEDGING THIS CHICK'S BIRTHDAY! If you do, you've will have effectively fast tracked yourself into being a centurion in this chick's legion of followers.

I'm inclined to agree with Rex on this one. She's probably going to have 200 guys sending birthday wishes and trying to cajole her into coming out with them. Be different. If she's really interested in you she'll wonder why you didn't hit her up, her hamster wheel will start spinning.

And why didn't you wish her a happy birthday? Because you're too busy swimming in an ocean of vag*na and it simply slipped your mind. You are slamming other chicks, right?

 

[Maximus Rex]

Cuz Tonight, Tonight, Tonight, Ohhhhh!

Let me ask you something, (with the exception of Monday being her birthday,) what were you going to do with her on Monday, that can't be done tonight?

 

[narcissist]

damn, that actually makes a lot of sense.

this is why i get advice on here..

okay so if i dont acknowledge her birthday - which makes total sense because its just showing her i care too much - what should i do then?

how should i approach initiating a date in order to escalate without being an AFC?