Just a note to keep everyone sharp

[DreamAgain]

I didn’t ask for your opinion on marriage.

I’m posting about general management of relationship with a SO.

Comment on that all you like, I’m not sitting on trial because you, or others, want to feel better about yourselves by tearing someone else to shreds.

whatever I answer you know the answer is going to be “you made mistakes and only have yourself to blame” so just post that without the merry-go-round of bollocks beforehand

Why not just answer the question instead of conjuring up this word salad?

 

[Bingo-Player]

The issue you may observe with an all female work environment is that your wife is exposed to a bit much feminist go girl rah rah crap. Bad attitudes. This you have to be mindful about. You want your wife to appreciate what she has with you as a husband and father and head of house.

Just want to add this issue isn't exclusive to a work environment , her friends and even acquaintances can be equally as toxic and you need to screen them as much as you do her

I have a friend who takes this too the extreme by actually accompanying his wife too her girlfriends social engagements I think to keep an eye on the topics of conversation

whilst I wouldn't do this and I find it a bit weird I can see his concern

There's not many women out there whom are in correctly polarised relationships and are completely happy / content some are more than happy to start corrupting other's as a result

I often say this but women are like water they will go in whichever direction a strong current takes them

You must dominate your womens mind , constantly impress your expectations and boundaries dont just assume that because you have been together a long time she couldn't be swayed into a new perspective or line of thought ( which lets be honest is were all disrespect starts )

LTR's are very complex you sort of lose the overriding desire for each other in day to day monotony ,the desire and drive for sex starts to wain for both of you and its very easy to take your eye off the ball

Before you know it , it can be all over

 

[Westminster]

Just want to add this issue isn't exclusive to a work environment , her friends and even acquaintances can be equally as toxic and you need to screen them as much as you do her

I have a friend who takes this too the extreme by actually accompanying his wife too her girlfriends social engagements I think to keep an eye on the topics of conversation

whilst I wouldn't do this and I find it a bit weird I can see his concern

There's not many women out there whom are in correctly polarised relationships and are completely happy / content some are more than happy to start corrupting other's as a result

I often say this but women are like water they will go in whichever direction a strong current takes them

You must dominate your womens mind , constantly impress your expectations and boundaries dont just assume that because you have been together a long time she couldn't be swayed into a new perspective or line of thought ( which lets be honest is were all disrespect starts )

LTR's are very complex you sort of lose the overriding desire for each other in day to day monotony ,the desire and drive for sex starts to wain for both of you and its very easy to take your eye off the ball

Before you know it , it can be all over

Excellent post.

Potential negative influences are everywhere and you need to be alert to them. Ultimately though, there's only so much you can say or do and if a woman is open to bad influences then that's what will happen.

And, I agree, it all comes back to respect - and once you lose that you're in trouble. In fact, I'd go so far as to say that respect is the most important thing in a relationship. Sure, it's nice to have more than that but respect is the bottom line and frankly your relationship is in peril once your wife starts seeking the counsel of others and begins regarding their ideas, views and opinions as better than your own.

It's not acceptable and you should make that clear. If you get push back, then you need to take decisive action. Promptly.

 

[Fruitbat]

They don't understand that type of behaviour in the US. Either you're a waiter or you're spiking drinks...

it would be considered a bit cheesy and false