Hey all!
Ok, won't go into details as to what happened but using some of the advise gleamed from here... I just banged a 9 or a 10.. three times:rockon:
so I just want to give all you people who helped me a BIG... umm, big does not cover it... HUGE thank you!:flowers:
A few skimpy details and some advise to follow at the end for other beginners like myself:
- I practiced a little in front of the mirror before the meeting
- when we met a lot of smiling...
- gave her genuine compliments.. but said pity she was short (she's not, just shorter than me)!
- Followed by...: then again I think cute things come in small packages
- joking...touching hands/arms/waist (but not groping in anyway), no creepy!
- Tried acting as confident and in control as possible (here the mirror practice helped)
- Looked directly in her eyes, she looked away more than me... I was the confident strong one (even when inside i was feeling the opposite)
Things were going well, and just like before I felt my wussness coming along... maybe i should back off, take it a bit slow, blah blah...
fought the "bad instinct" and went it for the kiss!
And got one!
Around 5 mins later she had her first orgasm.
Now, while I consider myself very much of a beginner and really not fit to be giving advise on THIS board... I will say this one thing to others like me:
Go for the kiss. Take the f**king step. Yes, I was scared of rejection... but the rewards were so much better (The 15 steps of Pook also helped here - if you have not read it, READ IT DUMBASS! If anyone has a picture of that dude send it to me am gonna light candles under it! ).
She was waiting for me to make the move and looking back I know if I didnt, I wouldnt have gotten anything other than maybe a kiss on the cheek and perhaps later a pass to enter the friend-zone (and if you are naything like me, you have been in that horrible place many times - totally unintentionally of course).
Wish I could post pictures but she is famous in her own line so someone might recognize her, esp here, but take my word for it if I had not visited this forum, I would think she was "totally out of my league" and if we stand side by side you would probably say the same.
Any questions or any advise (from the more experienced) are welcome.
Gotta have a shower now... the whole room and I smell like pu...
Cheers!
Ok, won't go into details as to what happened but using some of the advise gleamed from here... I just banged a 9 or a 10.. three times:rockon:
so I just want to give all you people who helped me a BIG... umm, big does not cover it... HUGE thank you!:flowers:
A few skimpy details and some advise to follow at the end for other beginners like myself:
- I practiced a little in front of the mirror before the meeting
- when we met a lot of smiling...
- gave her genuine compliments.. but said pity she was short (she's not, just shorter than me)!
- Followed by...: then again I think cute things come in small packages
- joking...touching hands/arms/waist (but not groping in anyway), no creepy!
- Tried acting as confident and in control as possible (here the mirror practice helped)
- Looked directly in her eyes, she looked away more than me... I was the confident strong one (even when inside i was feeling the opposite)
Things were going well, and just like before I felt my wussness coming along... maybe i should back off, take it a bit slow, blah blah...
fought the "bad instinct" and went it for the kiss!
And got one!
Around 5 mins later she had her first orgasm.
Now, while I consider myself very much of a beginner and really not fit to be giving advise on THIS board... I will say this one thing to others like me:
Go for the kiss. Take the f**king step. Yes, I was scared of rejection... but the rewards were so much better (The 15 steps of Pook also helped here - if you have not read it, READ IT DUMBASS! If anyone has a picture of that dude send it to me am gonna light candles under it! ).
She was waiting for me to make the move and looking back I know if I didnt, I wouldnt have gotten anything other than maybe a kiss on the cheek and perhaps later a pass to enter the friend-zone (and if you are naything like me, you have been in that horrible place many times - totally unintentionally of course).
Wish I could post pictures but she is famous in her own line so someone might recognize her, esp here, but take my word for it if I had not visited this forum, I would think she was "totally out of my league" and if we stand side by side you would probably say the same.
Any questions or any advise (from the more experienced) are welcome.
Gotta have a shower now... the whole room and I smell like pu...
Cheers!