There is nothing I could say that has not already been said far better by other posters in this thread. Jophil, you probably don't even remember responding to my topic because you literally helped so many people at SoSuave, but I just want to thank you so much.
You helped me three years ago in one of my weakest, most vulnerable, and, well, emasculated moments I've ever had with a woman, and your advice helped pick me up when I had been betrayed by someone I thought I loved. I will seriously, never, ever ****ing forget your generosity in passing on your wisdom - including one of the most profound quotes I've ever come across on this site, "Cheating starts long before the zippers get unzipped."
Even though I was not the most receptive to constructive criticism at the time just because of how hurt (and therefore overly defensive) I was at the situation, you continued to post in the thread despite my ignorance, you genuinely wanted to help, and you ended up helping me come to a lot of closure as a result. I never really thanked you until now, the topic kind of died and I never bothered to reach out to thank you, but your words still stay with me to this day. I cannot describe how much that means to me. You called yourself uncle jophil, and for a damn good reason, you were like an uncle to a lot of us here.
I'm drinking in your memory tonight, you've selflessly improved so many young mens' lives, I can only hope that I end up being half the man that you were when I'm 50.
. I received some great advice from him, didn't listen and, of course, regretted it later.
