Join me on the quest for nofap 2016

[Poonani Maker]

Benefits are higher t levels when you're 41 like me. I need to be pushy with women in order to succeed. If I'm PASSIVE (what masturbation DOES to me), then the chick is not gonna just come to me. I have to say, "this is how it is, and we're doing This..(now, hop to it!)" to her. I don't really welcome more WORK, but if it means keeping me away from masturbation, then I'll work more to keep from it. We, as guys, NEED to come in Real Female Vaginas. It's EXTREMELY healthy./. the touching the bloodflow throughout your hands, legs, arms, face, lips, chest, and d!ck finally. The problem currently is lack of appealing women. So many fat ones who are interested in me, and ask for a hug and I don't even know them. I declined a hug yesterday from a fat flower shop girl - eh, probably a couple of years younger than me. She may have been put off by my decline but quite frankly I'm not interested. We'd talked quite a bit. so she wanted to touch me.

Another thing I've begun doing for the coming year 2017, is to Clean my place immaculately. I've went through Every room, every closet, to get rid of clothes I don't/can't wear - took bags and bags of clothes and such to Goodwill. Streamlined my home. I'll write it off on my taxes. Then I bought air purifiers and will have one running upstairs and down. My air will be very clean - NO dust. I've thought about selling my house for the ridiculous amount it's going for at the moment (ALL houses in my city are way over-priced), and then downsizing to a condo or something, pocketing the profit, then wait for a crash and buy what-is-now a 3 quarter million dollar home. Short-term pain, long-term pleasure.

Who am I trying to impress? Plus a condo will put me around hotter younger chicks and not marrieds where I live. I have a new used truck too 3 times the size of my other one. Gonna deck it out with several upgrades, sound system etc.

 

[Infern0]

I do agree nofap gives you that extra push to get it done that you sometimes need.

I had a hb8 I was pretty interested in right where I wanted her I just needed to put in a bit of work to tip it over but I'd been fapping so I was like "meh she can come to me if she wants it" and of course she got with someone else who was a bit more proactive.

 

[GoodOne123]

What helps me is to think of like masculine role models. James Bond, whoever.

Then see if you think he would be sitting in a smelly room with his pants round his ankles jerking it to red tube or whatever

Imo no.

Lol true.

I dunno if anyone else is like this, but I feel physically depleted after Im done fapping. And I also get this weak and relaxed, although unpleasant, feeling In my abdomen/diaphragm region. Sometimes it's a bit sickly.

Plus i looked at the benefits of no fap and some anecdotal stories on YouTube. It's almost like you become a different person if you go past that 2 week or 1 month mark.

 

[Infern0]

Lol true.

I dunno if anyone else is like this, but I feel physically depleted after Im done fapping. And I also get this weak and relaxed, although unpleasant, feeling In my abdomen/diaphragm region. Sometimes it's a bit sickly.

Plus i looked at the benefits of no fap and some anecdotal stories on YouTube. It's almost like you become a different person if you go past that 2 week or 1 month mark.

Definatley feel physically drained for a good 2 days after

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Be prepared to crucify yourself if you are trying to kick a life-time habit of porn. But this is the time to do it. When the suffering and craving comes, focus on the worthy goals of nobility, dignity, and autonomy. It really is a case of killing an old self if you are addicted.

 

[Building_and_Loan]

I did this for a little over two months last year, and was better for it. However I had to give in eventually as I was just getting stressed out and irritable from not doing it, I could tell it was from nofap.

Imo it's ok to do it once in a while to clear the carbon off the pipes, just don't make a habit of it and stay away from the hardcore stuff.

Good luck!

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Lol true.

I dunno if anyone else is like this, but I feel physically depleted after Im done fapping. And I also get this weak and relaxed, although unpleasant, feeling In my abdomen/diaphragm region. Sometimes it's a bit sickly.

Plus i looked at the benefits of no fap and some anecdotal stories on YouTube. It's almost like you become a different person if you go past that 2 week or 1 month mark.

"No fap 2017"... I think we look more "creepy" to the females when we are fapping in place of real sex. Our eyes and things just don't look right. Once a lady lays with us and anoints us between her thighs, it gets into your essense, and thus your movements, the way you look at things, and your reactions all change...

It should be one of the primary tenants of a DJ to always have a source of receptive sex.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Be prepared to crucify yourself if you are trying to kick a life-time habit of porn. But this is the time to do it. When the suffering and craving comes, focus on the worthy goals of nobility, dignity, and autonomy. It really is a case of killing an old self if you are addicted.

What about drown yourself in real puzzy or head.... If you gotta get some sex partners that aren't "9's" then so be it. Have a steady supply and make this your choice
instead of wacking one off. We should all carry enough attraction and mojo to secure a sexual partner. If you can't you have problems that need correcting.

 

[Infern0]

Day 4 almost done. Feel mild improvements from 2 days ago. Couple of moments of horn iness which is good.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Day 4 almost done. Feel mild improvements from 2 days ago. Couple of moments of horn iness which is good.

Dude, I been wacking, but made it one day. I'm not going to log it here, but will make an internal commitment to make it thru the month of January without.

I feel stronger and more mentally clear without it.

 

[backseatjuan]

Why bother? Do you think it will make you approach or somehow make you better? Fap all you want if that's your thing.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Why bother? Do you think it will make you approach or somehow make you better? Fap all you want if that's your thing.

Some of us have noticed something.

So say where single, and we go from having sex at will to a drought period.

If you fap during that drought period it will likely KEEP you in a drought, as first of all to your brain you are rewarding it with release, without obtaining sex from a real woman. Secondly, fapping and sex is NOT the same. Different chemical processes occur in the brain during real sex.

Those of us who paid attention noticed, that if we didn't FAP we were likely to find a way to obtain a way to meet our need physically with a woman and not our hand.

So if you don't have a sex partner, please abstain from fapping. And sex is better than fapping so if you DO have a sex partner, there shouldn't be a reason to touch your meat other than to urinate. Let your lady handle your $hit.

 

[backseatjuan]

It's in your heads, you can fap and then go on a date, and have sex. You can have sex and then fap, or make her fap you off, there is a million different combinations.

 

[Infern0]

It's in your heads, you can fap and then go on a date, and have sex. You can have sex and then fap, or make her fap you off, there is a million different combinations.

There's a load of scientific studies and thousands of first hand accounts that disagree with you.

But if that's your opinion that's fine but I would ask that you respect those of us who are trying this and not come in this thread telling us how you know best. Thanks.

 

[Eternal_water]

Okay then, I haven't looked at porn or fapped so far in 2017 and I will try and keep that going as long as possible. I have a girlfriend now who I am having regular sex with so that should help. I have still being watching porn and fapping thus far but I will go as long as possible without doing so now.

 

[TheGambino]

Fapping right now. Good night boys!!!

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

What about drown yourself in real puzzy or head.... If you gotta get some sex partners that aren't "9's" then so be it. Have a steady supply and make this your choice
instead of wacking one off. We should all carry enough attraction and mojo to secure a sexual partner. If you can't you have problems that need correcting.

Ha ha.. that's one way of looking at it. But I think that will not help resolve the underlying problem ,which is one of an unconstrained libido. At my age you have a choice; run around after silly little girls, or have some dignity, control, and freedom towards yourself and women.

Fap-free, and enough dates organized.

 

[backseatjuan]

Last summer I didn't fap for two months. I invited two girls over to my place from another town. I waited for them one months, and then they were with me one month. I had that edge in me and anticipation because of that sexual tension. I didn't get laid by either of them. When they left, I fapped, got online, and got myself a date that same day. Basically I kicked them out of my place in the middle of the night, in the morning I fapped, then in the afternoon got online, and in the evening went on a date with a girl. Date went well, we kissed, and she touched my d1ck. Then I got home and fapped again, then the next morning we went on a date again, and in the evening I fvcked her. Then I come home and fapped again, and the next day I got another date, and on 2rd or 3rd date I fvcked her. That previous girl ended up to be my girlfriend for about half a year, she moved from her town, to mine, 2000 miles away. My recommendation is to fap without any regret.

 

[Infern0]

Last summer I didn't fap for two months. I invited two girls over to my place from another town. I waited for them one months, and then they were with me one month. I had that edge in me and anticipation because of that sexual tension. I didn't get laid by either of them. When they left, I fapped, got online, and got myself a date that same day. Basically I kicked them out of my place in the middle of the night, in the morning I fapped, then in the afternoon got online, and in the evening went on a date with a girl. Date went well, we kissed, and she touched my d1ck. Then I got home and fapped again, then the next morning we went on a date again, and in the evening I fvcked her. Then I come home and fapped again, and the next day I got another date, and on 2rd or 3rd date I fvcked her. That previous girl ended up to be my girlfriend for about half a year, she moved from her town, to mine, 2000 miles away. My recommendation is to fap without any regret.

Ok let me make this simpler.

Go away

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Last summer I didn't fap for two months. I invited two girls over to my place from another town. I waited for them one months, and then they were with me one month. I had that edge in me and anticipation because of that sexual tension. I didn't get laid by either of them. When they left, I fapped, got online, and got myself a date that same day. Basically I kicked them out of my place in the middle of the night, in the morning I fapped, then in the afternoon got online, and in the evening went on a date with a girl. Date went well, we kissed, and she touched my d1ck. Then I got home and fapped again, then the next morning we went on a date again, and in the evening I fvcked her. Then I come home and fapped again, and the next day I got another date, and on 2rd or 3rd date I fvcked her. That previous girl ended up to be my girlfriend for about half a year, she moved from her town, to mine, 2000 miles away. My recommendation is to fap without any regret.

Some of our mental CREATIVITY and DRIVE to get the real poon, gets bled out when we FAP. That's why we don't do it. Why reward poor performance?