Jesse Pinkman's approach/field reports thread.

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Oh no I was talking about like in general. Did you feel like you could screw better or just get more turned on by walking outside and seeing cute girls on day 5 of no fap compared to a day 3 for example?

screw better, I have no issues getting Johnny up. Me after 4-5 days of no fap is like a night and day difference in performance and 2-3 inch size difference lol.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

screw better, I have no issues getting Johnny up. Me after 4-5 days of no fap is like a night and day difference in performance and 2-3 inch size difference lol.

So screw better for sure but does it increase your drive to get out there and almost wish you could talk to women? Like is some kinda cute chick at a trader joes now a lot more phuckable to you on day 5 of nofap compared to day 2 or 3 or even day 1 lol?

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

So screw better for sure but does it increase your drive to get out there and almost wish you could talk to women? Like is some kinda cute chick at a trader joes now a lot more phuckable to you on day 5 of nofap compared to day 2 or 3 or even day 1 lol?

No, I'm a black man so cold approaching wouldn't work for me lol. Regardless, I wouldn't have any issues confronting a girl in public regardless because I'm in sales and used to shooting my pitch lol.

 

[SW15]

So screw better for sure but does it increase your drive to get out there and almost wish you could talk to women? Like is some kinda cute chick at a trader joes now a lot more phuckable to you on day 5 of nofap compared to day 2 or 3 or even day 1 lol?

I'm in more or less permanent nofap and no porn. The answer to your question is yes. I'm most sexually aggressive between days 5-20 of a nofap streak. After about 3 weeks, you won't be that much more aggressive BUT you will overall feel better about yourself.

Nofap and no porn is life changing but the hardest thing you will ever do. Porn and masturbation is more addictive than doing illicit drugs or drinking alcohol. The dopamine release with porn and an orgasm is insane.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

No, I'm a black man so cold approaching wouldn't work for me lol. Regardless, I wouldn't have any issues confronting a girl in public regardless because I'm in sales and used to shooting my pitch lol.

Oh no its not about that lol. I am asking more about your urge to want to do it or just getting more aroused by women in public as a result of not fapping.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Oh no its not about that lol. I am asking more about your urge to want to do it or just getting more aroused by women in public as a result of not fapping.

ohhh, I'm a legit sex addict so that is basically the same regardless on day 1 of no fap or day 100. I could literally fvck the hottest chick right now and walk outside to the Walgreens right afterwards next to my apartment and want to fvck the next fine piece of ass I see lol. Most guys are like well that's you being a guy, but I know that's not true.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

I'm in more or less permanent nofap and no porn. The answer to your question is yes. I'm most sexually aggressive between days 5-20 of a nofap streak. After about 3 weeks, you won't be that much more aggressive BUT you will overall feel better about yourself.

Nofap and no porn is life changing but the hardest thing you will ever do. Porn and masturbation is more addictive than doing illicit drugs or drinking alcohol. The dopamine release with porn and an orgasm is insane.

Got it, thank you man. I have barely made it past day 3 this year because for some reason I end up rubbing one out but do want to get to that day 5 mark and see how it affects my game when cold approaching. I feel like at times I can make do with more drive and arousal in my game.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

ohhh, I'm a legit sex addict so that is basically the same regardless on day 1 of no fap or day 100. I could literally fvck the hottest chick right now and walk outside to the Walgreens right afterwards next to my apartment and want to fvck the next fine piece of ass I see lol. Most guys are like well that's you being a guy, but I know that's not true.

I am not like that at all. I have to go on a nofap in order to feel aroused.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Field report.

So I once again started today trying to drag myself out there but a text from my wing came through. We were to meet later than normal so I went out to game near where I live first to warm up. Not the worst quality although the volume was clearly lacking. Approached one girl and I am not even sure why I did this but I told her she looks stylish and that I am looking to go shopping for new stuff for my girlfriend and such. Not even sure why, I choked up, but she was so cute and nice. Needless to say I botched it up from the get go so I am embarrassed with myself here but if I had been more direct, I could have done so much more with that. I also need to work on my tone and body language because I am sounding so nervous from the weeks of absolute ghostland in my time with South Beach.

Kept walking and some woman was taking a pic so I got out the way. She turned around to take a pic and I got out the way as we smiled at each other, I made a joke of it and then told her she looks stylish only for her to kind of brush off my request. Oh well.

Gaming with my wing at the spot we were going to meet at.

Drove to the spot and then as soon as I arrive, I told myself no more being in my head and that I will approach.

Set 1

Approach girl with Chanel glasses as soon as I get to the spot. Tell her I was going to meet a friend but she looked cute in her Chanel glasses. She then pretended to not know English well. I sense a guy with his kid hovering around us and then get nervous, thought that maybe that was her husband. Need to really work on this here and try to not let other guys hovering get in my way mentally. Shortly after I meet my wing.

Set 2

Oh man this was a good one for me. You gotta read this @Jake_Gyllenhaal69 and @SW15 because it was a crazy one. We are at a crosswalk and I see this cute Latina. I am with my wing and right between us is this fat bubba with a camo hat lol. Then to her right is the most fratty looking dude. We cross while stop sign is still there and I open her with "look at us jaywalking without a care", she laughs and says "it's almost turning white". I then tell her how I didn't expect her accent to sound so American, I thought she was Brazilian. We have some good banter back and forth but then her phone rings after a solid minute. Says she has to pick it up.

Could I have said "I'll wait for your call to finish and talk to you then?", NAH. So I kind of abandoned the set but I am sure we left on good terms. Great warm up for sure and a great set in my view because I opened with a ton of random dudes around. Then random fratty guy walks by me and says "ballssy brroooo". I laugh it off and then connect with my wing.

Set 3

We walk around and see a two set which I open. Tell these girls "you two have the most Brazilian vibe" which they love. One is Turkish and one is Greek. We are having a great convo and the darker one (Turkish) is definitely into me. My wing comes in and they ignore him but that was my fault, I should have introduced him. Newbie mistake but I rarely do two-sets so I am going to learn from that. Half a minute later, the greek girl tells her that they have to meet their friend. I could have tried and number closed the Turkish girl but I am brushing up on how to close two-sets. So much I do not know but need to learn before I get back out there.

Set 4

I see a hot blonde with a cute brown lab and open her asking if its a brown lab. We banter a bit back and forth but I had not seen that she was with a friend and they were heading into the bar at the moment. We chat for at least half a minute and she seems bubbly and fun. Compliment her on her ear rings, tell her she must be from NY but she was actually Canadian. Well, by then her friend pulls her towards the bar. Once again, could have asked for a close there but not thinking on my feet.

The long gap

For almost 30 min I do not approach. My wing finds this cute girl and it goes real well, like over 10 minutes, so I stand around in the area waiting for him. Security guard approaches me (uh oh) and tells me if I am lost and I say I am waiting for a friend. I just take a lap around because of how uncomfortable the security guard made me. Meanwhile, my wing is rattling off approaches left and right (and getting rejected a lot because the area has a bougee vibe). Wing stops for a cig and then I see her, cute blonde in glasses.

Set 5

I walk over and approach the cute blonde, she is quite receptive and I compliment her on her glasses. Could have done a lot better with the vibe and the convo, came off as very scripted and not as sharp as I am. The rejections and close calls had beaten me down to the point that I was not as sharp with the convo as I could have been. Lasted a solid minute. She said she had to go eat something and I ask for the number, she gives it to me and puts her full name in. So a number close and she was in med school. Texted her but no response so far so we will see how legit it is.

Afterwards.

I head out and grocery shop locally. One cute blonde was looking for something near me so I open indirect but do not go through with it all the way. Need to research grocery store game more and work on my approach.

So some takeaways for me from the field report and today's approaching.

1. Need to work on a better script. Got the opening down right but convos need a better flow.

2. Need to sound less nervous and more confident (no fap will help I believe).

3. Need to close more in situations that go sideways, especially on a two-set.

4. Will try to have a framework down for two-sets and grocery store approaches.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

I am not like that at all. I have to go on a nofap in order to feel aroused.

Then you are normal lol. I deeply wish that applied to me lol. If I had the ability to control my urges then I would be a surgeon/physician or software engineer vs Sales from going to Hot Girl Uni and fvcking up my grades lol.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Then you are normal lol. I deeply wish that applied to me lol. If I had the ability to control my urges then I would be a surgeon/physician or software engineer vs Sales from going to Hot Girl Uni and fvcking up my grades lol.

TBH you may have picked a better path with sales. Most doctors I know are miserable and most engineers I know hate their lives. Neither profession is conductive to game or even making money tbh. Doctors don't make bank until mid-30s and I have known sales dudes who are millionaires by 30.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

TBH you may have picked a better path with sales. Most doctors I know are miserable and most engineers I know hate their lives. Neither profession is conductive to game or even making money tbh. Doctors don't make bank until mid-30s and I have known sales dudes who are millionaires by 30.

Yeah I make decent money and the salesman above me make just as much or more than doctors & surgeons. It's just that I'm constantly worried about job security, but I'm sure doctors worry about other things as well. Yeah, I can save money, but I chose to make more money to enjoy it not horde it til I'm 65 IF I LIVE THAT LONG haha.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Set 3

We walk around and see a two set which I open. Tell these girls "you two have the most Brazilian vibe" which they love. One is Turkish and one is Greek. We are having a great convo and the darker one (Turkish) is definitely into me. My wing comes in and they ignore him but that was my fault, I should have introduced him. Newbie mistake but I rarely do two-sets so I am going to learn from that. Half a minute later, the greek girl tells her that they have to meet their friend. I could have tried and number closed the Turkish girl but I am brushing up on how to close two-sets. So much I do not know but need to learn before I get back out there.

I want a cute turkish girl

 

[Lifeman]

No, I'm a black man so cold approaching wouldn't work for me lol. Regardless, I wouldn't have any issues confronting a girl in public regardless because I'm in sales and used to shooting my pitch lol.

Wait Jake Gyllenhaal you are a black dude! thought you are a white dude from your avatar and mudshark comments lol

 

[SW15]

Set 4

I see a hot blonde with a cute brown lab and open her asking if its a brown lab. We banter a bit back and forth but I had not seen that she was with a friend and they were heading into the bar at the moment. We chat for at least half a minute and she seems bubbly and fun. Compliment her on her ear rings, tell her she must be from NY but she was actually Canadian. Well, by then her friend pulls her towards the bar. Once again, could have asked for a close there but not thinking on my feet.

The thinking on your feet thing improves with more and more approaching. Everyone misses an opportunity at least once with not thinking quick enough.

The long gap

For almost 30 min I do not approach. My wing finds this cute girl and it goes real well, like over 10 minutes, so I stand around in the area waiting for him. Security guard approaches me (uh oh) and tells me if I am lost and I say I am waiting for a friend. I just take a lap around because of how uncomfortable the security guard made me. Meanwhile, my wing is rattling off approaches left and right (and getting rejected a lot because the area has a bougee vibe). Wing stops for a cig and then I see her, cute blonde in glasses.

It's good to avoid doing approaches near security guards or police officers. It's not worth the aggravation. A lot of bougie areas have women unaccustomed to being approached in-person anymore since a lot of game has moved to the swipe apps.

Need to research grocery store game more and work on my approach.

Prior to the pandemic, I did a lot of grocery store approaching. I liked that better than parks and paths at the time. Roosh's "Day Bang" was excellent for grocery store game.

Got it, thank you man. I have barely made it past day 3 this year because for some reason I end up rubbing one out but do want to get to that day 5 mark and see how it affects my game when cold approaching. I feel like at times I can make do with more drive and arousal in my game.

Between days 5-20 of nofap and no porn, expect your aggressiveness in approaching to go way up. It's also good for sexual performance too.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Wait Jake Gyllenhaal you are a black dude! thought you are a white dude from your avatar and mudshark comments lol

idk any white guys using the term mud shark haha. I’m actually related to the guy in my profile pic but I picked him because of what he’s famous for lol.

 

[SW15]

idk any white guys using the term mud shark

I have used the term mud shark before and I am White.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

9/13/22

So I ended up having the date with the Latina I number closed a few days ago. It started off somewhat awkward because she called me out on being nervous about kissing her on the cheek when we met. I kind of was lol. We talked for a bit but I did not act as sexual or escalate as much as I should have. Did propose meeting this Sunday as well.

One main detail I am leaving out, she made me come to a coffee place near where she lives and she lives with her parents. Logistics were completely cooked since it is a 20 min drive but traffic makes it a 40 minute one. I proposed the next one to be closer to my place and end at my house as I am happy to cook dinner with her, we talked about cooking. Let's see how it all goes.

However, when I tried to kiss close she kind of turned me away.

As for the other thing, not sure if I am on day 2 or day 3 of nofap right now. Had a weird thing going this weekend where my penis would not get erect but only get hard, I was worried. Ejaculated a couple of times but do not remember if that was on a Monday or Sunday. Still, tomorrow is going to be treated as a day 3 and then I want to see if I can last until the end of the week. Friday makes it a day 5 and I want to see what damage I can do.

Excited to game on a nofap streak just to experience some of the benefits, if I last till Friday then I am definitely reporting back on results.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Why not mention the no-fapping to the girls if it's that important? Frame it as self-improvement. Talk about how motivated and focused it makes you feel. Even if she makes fun of you, you've opened the door to sextalk. Not like she can call you a wanker when you're not even doing it. And you bring it up smoothly over the course of conversation and she thinks it's inappropriate, you've then saved yourself some time.

If the opportunity to mention it presents itself, it might not be a bad idea to go for it.

 

[SW15]

9/13/22

So I ended up having the date with the Latina I number closed a few days ago. It started off somewhat awkward because she called me out on being nervous about kissing her on the cheek when we met. I kind of was lol. We talked for a bit but I did not act as sexual or escalate as much as I should have. Did propose meeting this Sunday as well.

One main detail I am leaving out, she made me come to a coffee place near where she lives and she lives with her parents. Logistics were completely cooked since it is a 20 min drive but traffic makes it a 40 minute one.

However, when I tried to kiss close she kind of turned me away.

No coffee dates prior to sex, no exceptions. Coffee shop dates are brutal for escalation. It's not a sexualized environment. Even if the coffee shop is located next door to your home, it's not the place to get in good escalation for a first date instance of sex or a strong kiss close that will lead her to wanting more for a second date.

You could offer her a second date, but I wouldn't expect her to accept it or show up for it.