Jerking works

[Fruitbat]

...it does. I have recently made an effort in work and in the gym, bars etc to be much more of a jerk, almost overdoing it on occassions.

It's like everything I was ever told dissolved in to dust.

WTF is up with women that they enjoy this!?

 

[Eternal_water]

erm, exactly how have you been being a jerk?

 

[Deep Dish]

heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/04/26/why-are-men-with-dark-triad-personalities-so-irresistible-to-women/

 

[JohnChops]

Deep dish I have to say, that is a little insane. Don't you thinking turning yourself into a of those things listed (psychopath, narcissist , and the one within m ) is stupid and conforming?

 

[Deep Dish]

It is the adaptive skills and traits we are interested in. Narcissists, psychopaths, and Machiavellians wouldn’t be so successful if they weren’t doing anything right. You can take positives from a negative.

Narcissistic men will be better at building an attractive identity, crafting an alluring image, dressing themselves for maximum impact, and comporting themselves with the utmost self-regard. Women love all these characteristics in men, even if these traits are not societally beneficial in numbers exceeding a tiny percentage of men. A man who is full of himself is a man who is full of women’s love.

…You cannot properly seduce women if you harbor illusions about their nature. A Machiavellian Man, owing to his willingness to engage in personally, and oftentimes mutually, advantageous deceits, is a skilled hand in the subtle feints of flirting. No seduction will take full flight without recourse to innuendo and barely concealed intent. The tacitly adversarial quality of seduction emanates from the fundamental premise that the reproductive goals of men and women are at odds, and the Machiavellian is the man best equipped to leverage that sweet antagonism to his ends.

…That dead zone in their prefrontal gray matter means that psychopaths don’t feel much when women reject them. No hurt, no guilt, no shame, no doubt, no anger, no nothing. Imagine the power at your fingertips if you had the ice cold stones to approach thousands of women nonstop without suffering even the slightest ding to your emotional state from any rejections. Imagine that, coupled with this exotic imperviousness, you impulsively hit on any woman who piqued your interest. I don’t think you’ll need a calculator to figure out how fast your notch count would rise given these personality priors. Chicks dig a go-getter.​

 

[Fruitbat]

Well, I think if you are naturally a jerk then it's best to moderate. If you're naturally (like 90%) a bit of a nice guy beta, then you can let it rip a bit. If anything, I find the women I have been jerky with find you more interesting. There are a few threads on here that have said the alpha/beta stuff is crap, but if you ask me, that depends on your looks.

I think most women would be very, very cautious about a strong "dark triad" guy who is very good looking. Perhaps if she just wants sex then that would be golden, but in reality few women want no strings sex if there is no reason for her to do so.

If (like me) you are fairly average on looks, I have seen a 100% improvement by being an a*******e. Downside is you end up upsetting a lot of dudes. When someone asked about what was I doing by being a jerk, I mean being arrogant and rude with other males, and pretty rude to females, with the occasional "pull" back in with said females. It seems to set off some sort of mechanism in their brain.