Jerking off to onenitis give you bad luck in your life?

[warrior1]

I gamble a lot particularly in sports. I still have a onenitis problem and keep on looking at her pictures on facebook. People here say no contact. I dont see her anymore but damn for some reason, i feel like wacking off to her is bad luck and making my life horrible. Don't laugh please.

I have tried to stop masterbating but its definitely hard. 22/m and for some reason when i jack off to anyone else pictures besides my onenitis or to a porn star movie, i feel good b/c I say yes i can think of someone besides her even thought its imaginary:crackup: . I do go saying shes not all that but every 3-4 days i click on her pictures... its usually just the same 2-3 pics you have and go damn and masterbate.

But the funny and pissed off thing about this is that whenver i gamble that day, i keep on losing money. Today i did it again and then proceeded to lose more cash. Then later on i jerked off again to someone else. I only did this because i feel like she is giving me bad luck. I know this sounds pathetic but I am very superstitious about this. I will try to not look at her pics anymore b/c of this but damn her face is so damn hot and i was a AFC for treating her like a friend.

No laughing please but can anyone explain why this keeps on happening? How the heck can i keep losing so much on the days i masterbate to her picture whereas i usually dont lose much or break even or win if I didnt jerk off to her? I also have OCD when i was little and still have it but not as bad as when i was a child.

 

[theunflushables]

I don't believe in luck, I believe man makes his own. But I do know how a lot of people have rituals they have to do or not do before they gamble. With that being said, don't jerk off to your onenitis on the days you gamble and don't gamble on the days you jerk off to her. Ideally you shouldnt be jerking off to her at all, unless its a full nude shot where her legs are spread so wide open you can see her ovaries. In that case, please share with the rest of us

 

[warrior1]

I gamble pretty much every day man. I don't really have any rituals when it comes to gambling but this caught my attention. I think i have won 2 days and had 15 plus losing days or more.

I also feel pathetic that i can't stop looking at her pictures. I do look at other pictures but then 3-4 days later i just look back at hers. No they are not nudes. Just normal pictures. I try to say she isnt all that but that would be a lie. I had a oneitis problem when i was real young when i was 12 years old on this hot babe same age. I kept thinking about her all the way till i was 17 and we didn't even went to the same high school... just the same junior high school.

My onenitis problem now i have had was since 2005. At first i didnt think she was that hot, just cute but later on when i didnt get to see her anymore it was like DAMN.

But back to waht i was saying, i noticed this but still can't stop it. Damn my wallet is hurting.

 

[SinJester]

It is really fcking unhealthy what you are doing. You are gambling is the problem, and why you are losing your money, not who you are jerking off to.

The one-itus thing is a different problem altogether. You gotta give it up man. Move on.

 

[collalife]

in other words dude. for short. you are tripping, act like a man.+

 

[02hero]

Masturbation, oneitis and gambling, wow. I'm not sure if there is any luck involved but all 3 are definately unhealthy habits to have if not done in moderation.

You are quite literally spunking your money up the wall....

 

[jmchavz]

dude... get you ass to the gym at least!!!! its a good way to help with oneitis... your other two probs.... well, JUST STOP DOING IT, MAN!!! work on your self control for starters

OUT!!!!

 

[jmchavz]

dude... get you ass to the gym at least!!!! its a good way to help with oneitis... your other two probs.... well, JUST STOP DOING IT, MAN!!! work on your self control for starters

OUT!!!!

 

[The_last_Gunslinger]

I can’t speak about oneits to much since I long ago passed that stage with women, but I do gamble.

I gamble in a variety of ways but mostly deal with professional and college football. That includes $100 fantasy football leagues and a visit to the bookie after the 5th week of the regular season in which I bet up to 4 or 5 games.

I’ve never seen any superstition effect me that way, but maybe if your playing cards or dice at a casino then perhaps luck or superstition has some kind of an effect on your “mojo”. You somehow involved masturbation into your ritual which is not healthy. This only supports my argument that after awhile your betting against your superstitions and not the odds.

In my humble opinion if you like gambling but are superstitious then perhaps stay away from games that require superstition. When your betting on sports it’s a matter of knowing the teams, the situation, finding all the angles, the stats, the trends and evaluating the talent. If that’s not enough to keep your mind busy and off the oneitis then you’re not gambling right. =)

Cards, dice, horse racing, lottery tickets, nascar….none of these games have enough control in them to effectively gamble and win. Casinos will destroy you on the odds they generate. Betting on sports is the most control you have in any form of gambling and it requires no luck or superstition, just research and a commitment to gather as much information between games as possible.

I don’t find anything wrong with gambling. As long as you know your limits and don’t go to the poor house for something that can be very addictive. Its all about the person and your level of self control. It can be a great form of supplemental income if you know how to do it right, and know when to stop. I generally allow myself a “Gambling bank” of $200 at the beginning of football season. If I lose it all, then I’m done for the year. On the other hand if I make my investment back, then I pocket my original $200 and gamble with the winnings for the rest of the season. Its all discipline related, backed with sensible financial risks.


So in summary, bet on sports, it will take up enough of your time to forget about the “one girl” and you have more control than anything a casino will offer in a game of stakes.

 

[The_last_Gunslinger]

also..to defend gambling a touch here.....

If you play the stock market your also gambling. Only the odds are TRULY stacked against you. Ask anyone who invested in Enron...those folks played the game by the rules, the "bookies" didn't and ripped off thousands of peoples livelyhoods.

If a football bookie ripped off his customers there would be some angry bastards looking for him with crowbars. Any bookie who makes it their living will be honest as return customers and word of mouth keeps food on their table.

Now I'm not saying don't invest your money in the stock market, Its just my humble opinion that gambling on a sport you know has the potential to make you more money faster than short term investments on wall street.

I think in the near future I'll start a gmabling thread. Ive had goodluck with my risks and can offer some tips on how to do it and how to do it safely.

 

[The Sperminator]

You have a gambling problem man. You jerking off to her isn't making you lose. You always lose in gambling eventually. Dude I've seen some serious gamblers and they lost everything and owed huge debts. Stop it before it gets any worst. I've seen gambling ruin ppls lives. I gamble occasionally at casinos but I never bring a lot of money. Gambling is ok every now and then but only do it every now and then and for fun. If you are gambling to win a lot of money you will get ****ed.

Also I know this is hard but forget about that girl man. You sitting at your computer jerking off to her will just make things get worst and worst. You will become obsessive which you probably are already. Not judging you though man I've been there. It's hard I know. But life goes on. If it wasn't meant to be then it wasn't meant to be. I know this is cliche but there are more fish in the sea. I mean when I had my oneits in high school I never thought I would find another girl like her but guess what I did. But for a couple of years I didn't get any girls bc I just sat in my apt sad and depressed until I decided to do something about it and start meeting other girls and guess what I found better girls than her. Lots of better girls. So my suggestion is to start going after other girls. Thats how you lose your oneits. Also I would like to know why she is your oneits and for how long? How do you know her and please tell me you have least talked to her.

 

[warrior1]

i lost about 7000 dollars gambling. Always beting insane amounts. i wished i lost only 200 the lastslinger. I wouldnt be upset but i did lose a lot.


Yes, sperm i agree with you. I stopped looking at her pics for more than 10 days then i couldnt help myself.

Shes been my onenitis for about 3 years. It was back when we were in college. When i met her in my class, i saw her and she looked cute but not hot. At that time, the only woman i was attracted to were those hot types. Yes of course i talked to her. There are some people who never talked to their onenitis? lol.

She has a very good personality. Note, we never hanged out besides just group work when me and some other ppl were put in a group. After that day, basically its just the occasional hi whenever i did see her around campus but college is over. She had a B/F at the time. It was after i stopped seeing her b/c we only had 1 class together that i started to notice how hot she was.

You guys probalby get the picture now? Its like she looks hotter than even the hot ones i see now or before. I dont even see her anymore but i see the pics online on facebook.

sperm, what did do you specifically to forget about your onenitis?

 

[warrior1]

LOL, so today i didnt jerk off at all TO MY ONENITIS and i won BOTH MY BETS.

 

[Iguana]

LOL @ thinking masturbating to your ex gf pictures has anything to do with the outcome of your gambling, or has any impact in your life "luck" at all

 

[brian123]

I may be the atypical one, but I find rubbing one out to pictures of my ex a helpful thing to move on. It helps me realize that they are just objects. It helps me to get alot of the feelings I had for them out of my system.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Stop looking at pictures of your ex. While your jacking off to her she is getting fvcked by another dude... You should be doing the same and moving on.

On the gambling... Learn to control it. Don't bring soo much money with you and win your start to win. Quit while your ahead...

 

[warrior1]

Its not my ex. Its my onenitis.

 

[SinJester]

Warrior, ITS ALL IN YOUR HEAD. You said yourself you don't see her anymore and you BARELY TALKED TO HER. What the hell man? You don't even know her! Anything you thing about it you made up in your head. She isn't as hot as your make her out to be, you just have built her up so much! If she found out all of this crap she would run away calling you a creep!

Now sorry if I'm being harsh, but you really need to get over it. Get out there and meet other girls!

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