jerk gets the women, but does he get "boys"

[laxplayer]

i was just wondering - i have been acting like a ****y jerk to girls when i hang out with my boys, but i have been noticing my boys have been getting mad because of it. i get numbers and go out with girls but they wont understand that and they get pissed off.

it goes on, but i was wondering how to manage gettin the girls with handlin things with your crew?

 

[DEKKA]

dont hate the player. hate the game.

tell em that.

and if you got enough game maybe you be sharin a little

p.s. i never share

 

[Walden]

Don't hate the player , hate the French.

 

[Player_Supreme]

how come you haven't educated your boys and sent them here???

 

[Ice Cold]

They're jealous. It means they're not your friends anymore if they aren't happy about their successes.

Stop hanging out with them and find another crowd of guys who are cool with chicks. Not even they won't drag you down, they'll improve your game.

Cheers

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

the ****y jerk thing could be messing up their game if they have more low-key personalties and humility.

 

[E-Z Rider]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
the ****y jerk thing could be messing up their game if they have more low-key personalties and humility.

2nd. It's not neccessarily that they are 'hatin' b/c you're getting all the women. Sometimes a person who is talking sh!t get's really annoying. When I'm hanging out with the guys, I'm usually not even concerned about getting #'s or whatever. I'm just chillin and having fun. If one of my friends started acting all bad-ass b/c he can talk like a jerk to women, it's probably going to annoy me. Some people can be ****y and not annoy me- I actually respect them for being ****y. I'm ****y myself, but have never had anyone tell me I was annoying them. Maybe you just come off the wrong way?

 

[E-Z Rider]

I'll add one more thing-

You're title makes it look you're interested in becoming a 'jerk'.

That's not quite the idea. The idea is to take certain qualities of a jerk (the ones that are attractive to women) and integrate them into the personality of a decent, honest man.

Women are gut-level attracted to jerks, sure, but they aren't *happy* with them. They may stay with them even so, but the fact is they still want something better. They want someone with the balls of a jerk, but also with the finer qualities of a typical 'nice guy'.

So if you're coming off as a straight-up jerk, you're doing something wrong. People in general won't really like you much, on a close level. You may get women and may be popular, but you're not as happy as you could be.

My 2 cent. - -E-Z

 

[elvis aint dead yet]

The problem is, if you go out of your way and try to be a jerk and actually laugh about it and/or think your cool by being a jerk, it usually means your not just being a jerk to girls.

I've seen it happen more times then not where a friend treats girls like crap, uses them, even abuses them sometimes, and most friends just put it off and think hey, he's got game. Then after awhile, that same friends starts treating his friends just like he was treating those girls.

Thats when it gets annoying. ANd you lose friends because your not only being a jerk to women, your being a jerk to your own friends. ANd from what I see, you want to be nothing more then an AZZ and a jerk.

I think your friends should ditch you and not the other way around.

 

[THA REALNESS]

If you act like an ass TO your freinds in front of girls ,then my freind your a **** and not a "jerk".

 

[elvis aint dead yet]

I don't know this guy, but i agree with the post above me, sort of like what i said before,


there are many guys who will make fun of their friends in front of girls to make themselves look better. Many guys who claim to be DJs and who actually hook up with many girls on a frequent basis, do this.

While it's ok to do this once in a while, if you keep doing this and then never return the favor by either hooking up your friend or letting your friend play his game, you my friend, are not a friend, you are just an AZZ.

 

[regulus]

it ain't no fun if the homies can't have none