My relationship with my gf is starting to go through some turbulence. Whats happening is that we are both hanging out with other people of the opposite gender more than our own. I know this sounds lame but read on and you'll get it.
Last night there was a party and before she got there i heard from this one girl that she likes "to get around". I shrugged it off and actually joked about it and then started flirting with alot of girls. I ended up having two acting as footrests when she walked in and she then went over, hung with us a bit, then walked away. After that she was always whispering to her friend and giving those two girls dirty looks (apparently she gets jelous rather easily). Next thing you know, the group of girls and I started making some hilarious jokes, we were having a lot of fun. My gf just sat in the corner, getting more frequent with the looks. I didn't care.
Soon enough my gf just left after she had been there for 30 minutes. I think I worked her up (Unintentionally...i didnt find out about the looks till afterwards).
The girls and I kept up our convo and had fun, until one eventually asked about Lisa (my gf). We started to talk about her and how she seemed to be a very shy girl ( I turned off my dj skills for awhile, i really wanted to talk about this ). Apparently she talks and flirts with alot of guys when she DOESN'T have a boyfriend and she's only made out with one guy in her life. Funny thing.. I always got the feeling she may have been messing around with other guys outside of our relationship.
I also found out she's a bit wierd with her feelings. One girl said that when i first met lisa, lisa went up to the girl and said that she loves me. Since then she hasnt really said a word about me, besides that we are going out. She's a really shy girl in person, on the phone she's alot of fun sometimes.
Right when we started warming up to each other a bit I went and fvcked it up.
Heres the plan: I'll call her and tell her that I realize i didn't pay much attention to her at the party, so she can choose any place she wants to go to with me tomarrow and we'll do it. Then I'll give her the time of her life. Simple as that. I may actually bring up this whole jelousy thing with her though to get it sorted out.
Anyways I'd appreciate some comments on my situation.
Last night there was a party and before she got there i heard from this one girl that she likes "to get around". I shrugged it off and actually joked about it and then started flirting with alot of girls. I ended up having two acting as footrests when she walked in and she then went over, hung with us a bit, then walked away. After that she was always whispering to her friend and giving those two girls dirty looks (apparently she gets jelous rather easily). Next thing you know, the group of girls and I started making some hilarious jokes, we were having a lot of fun. My gf just sat in the corner, getting more frequent with the looks. I didn't care.
Soon enough my gf just left after she had been there for 30 minutes. I think I worked her up (Unintentionally...i didnt find out about the looks till afterwards).
The girls and I kept up our convo and had fun, until one eventually asked about Lisa (my gf). We started to talk about her and how she seemed to be a very shy girl ( I turned off my dj skills for awhile, i really wanted to talk about this ). Apparently she talks and flirts with alot of guys when she DOESN'T have a boyfriend and she's only made out with one guy in her life. Funny thing.. I always got the feeling she may have been messing around with other guys outside of our relationship.
I also found out she's a bit wierd with her feelings. One girl said that when i first met lisa, lisa went up to the girl and said that she loves me. Since then she hasnt really said a word about me, besides that we are going out. She's a really shy girl in person, on the phone she's alot of fun sometimes.
Right when we started warming up to each other a bit I went and fvcked it up.
Heres the plan: I'll call her and tell her that I realize i didn't pay much attention to her at the party, so she can choose any place she wants to go to with me tomarrow and we'll do it. Then I'll give her the time of her life. Simple as that. I may actually bring up this whole jelousy thing with her though to get it sorted out.
Anyways I'd appreciate some comments on my situation.