Jealousy...

[BigWillyStyle]

...has to be the worst feeling up there along with depression. Especially when it's related to an EX GF or some other old flame. Seriously I can't stop thinking about WTF they get up to now that I've been regarded as a piece of **** by her. I've always had a problem with jealousy and it's like a knife digging in your heart and your own mind seems to be mocking you. When you think about it everyday for every minute it disrupts your life.

So how the hell do you ditch this horrible feeling? and please don't say with time it goes away, because some jealous feeling have continued for years with me.

 

[MindOverMatter]

replace her with someone better.

 

[FrancoPUA]

Your jealousy feeling is connected with the fact that you are very ALPHA and TERRITORIAL without knowing it.

It is the problem of many modern men to not be enough in touch with their DEEPER INSTINCTS of which one of the most important is MASCULINE AGGRESSIVE FEELING!

In a word: what your deeper aggressive masculine feeling really wants is to KILL all the other males to be the only one to FATHER this woman.

Almost probably your own sexual desire is not satisfied enough and you are not getting in your life so much POWER as you could.

There are evolutionary studies about jealousy: it seems that evolution preserves jealousy because it INCREASES the likelyhood of pregnancies.

Why? A male who is jealous will try to please and have more sex with a woman because he is scared that someone else could be faster and stronger that him in impregnating her.

In a word "jealousy puts the wings to your desire of becoming father"

Now what you need to do to get rid of the feeling of jealousy is to start to have sex with as many women as you can and increase your "hunting" skills.

When you do that you get MORE POWER to yourself and WOMEN'S VALUE will drop in your mind so that you will find more difficult feeilng jealousy for one woman.

In a word by seducing many women and having sex with many you become the ALPHA OF THE GROUP.

No need to be jealous when you are in that position.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by FrancoPUA
Your jealousy feeling is connected with the fact that you are very ALPHA and TERRITORIAL without knowing it.

Interesting...

 

[Spartan]

I had a lot of that jealousy thing two nights back. The woman I am interested in asked her recent male friend (who I am sure wants to go out with her) for the last dance. Walked straight past me she did. She has done this before, giving me a quick smile as did so (I return it of course).

Nought I could do so played indifferent. I got grabbed by another lady but the whole time in my mind I was angry inside. We used to do the last dance thing a while back when she had high interest. I think I must of looked a bit down because the girls best friend was looking at me, then across to her friend dancing with this guy.

At the end of the night, the girl playfully hit me and gave me a hug and a kiss on the cheek. I smiled back and kept it brief. For some reason she always likes to leave me to last to say goodbye to.

But I know what you mean by trying to tackle the green eyed monster. Every damn Thursday I got see her flirting away but I will not react. Refuse to! The only thing she will see is a smile, me teasing her and being playful and happy.

DO NOT GIVE YOUR POWER AWAY MY FRIEND.

NO MATTER HOW TEMPTING.

NEVER.

Your best weapon is indifference and finish them off with C&F if she comes looking for you.

Do not mention the new guy, or disrespect him even though you want to crush his head between your hands. The only thing that is important is how you conduct yourself. He is of no importance. Do not give him any power by acting jealous. Its damn hard to do but you got to do it.

In a word: what your deeper aggressive masculine feeling really wants is to KILL all the other males to be the only one to FATHER this woman.

It feels like it at the time but no one woman is worth it.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
:rockon:

That's awesome.

Know the power of the dark side, BigWillyStyle.

Alright, at least I tried to make my post seem as if I found some valuable insight in the post. :crackup:

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by FrancoPUA
Your jealousy feeling is connected with the fact that you are very ALPHA and TERRITORIAL without knowing it.

It is the problem of many modern men to not be enough in touch with their DEEPER INSTINCTS of which one of the most important is MASCULINE AGGRESSIVE FEELING!

In a word: what your deeper aggressive masculine feeling really wants is to KILL all the other males to be the only one to FATHER this woman.

Almost probably your own sexual desire is not satisfied enough and you are not getting in your life so much POWER as you could.

There are evolutionary studies about jealousy: it seems that evolution preserves jealousy because it INCREASES the likelyhood of pregnancies.

Why? A male who is jealous will try to please and have more sex with a woman because he is scared that someone else could be faster and stronger that him in impregnating her.

In a word "jealousy puts the wings to your desire of becoming father"

Now what you need to do to get rid of the feeling of jealousy is to start to have sex with as many women as you can and increase your "hunting" skills.

When you do that you get MORE POWER to yourself and WOMEN'S VALUE will drop in your mind so that you will find more difficult feeilng jealousy for one woman.

In a word by seducing many women and having sex with many you become the ALPHA OF THE GROUP.

No need to be jealous when you are in that position.

This theory is dysfunctional bullsh:t that goes against everything modern and evolutionary day psychology has proven. People are designed to be social creatures and to work in packs, to kill off other people goes against the design and shows that there is actually some sort of inherited evolutionary descrepency that disallows a person from properly associating with a group.

So technically, it is quite the opposite. I wouldn't take this to heart unless you like prison sex.

 

[eat_me]

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Alright, at least I tried to make my post seem as if I found some valuable insight in the post. :crackup:

everybody knows im the only one with insight on this board...

:woo:

 

[FrancoPUA]

Rgeere,

>to kill off other people goes against the design and shows that >there is actually some sort of inherited evolutionary >descrepency that disallows a person from properly associating >with a group.
>So technically, it is quite the opposite. I wouldn't take this to >heart unless you like prison sex.

I did not say he should kill anyone. I am helping him to get in touch with the most primitive, deeper instinctual levels of his mind which are causing his jealousy so he can get rid of it.

Of course we are social creatures, too. If the deepest and primitive part of our brain would take the power life from the Planet would disappear.

Anyway sometimes the primitive part takes the command of wolf packs. I would like to remind you that a wolf pack called US Marines is right now taking out the best of the male aggression to get rid of another wolf pack called Insurgents in Iraq..

What "modern" evolutionary theories have to say about it?

So it is mostly a matter of degrees..

It is good for men to be in touch with their dark side so to be able to better control themselves in conflict situations.

I am also helping him to see how he IS NOT framing himself as the PRIZE with the woman. No woman can respect and feel horniness for a man if this one is making of her the prize. She will feel only contempt for him on the instinctual level. (no matter what she may tell)

 

[AMF]

Welcome Franco, I assume that is "asf god" Franco.

At last some real insight founded in science. btw, youre evolutionary assertions are spot on.

 

[belividere]

your own mind seems to be mocking you. When you think about it everyday for every minute it disrupts your life.

Alright, I'm sorry to do this but:
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

Read up again if you haven't already.

As per this whole alpha vs. beta bull**** come on. We are not wolves, we are not primates but believe it or not we are people. Oh my god, really we have logical thinking and free will. You mean sometimes even though I act like a bada$$ alpha wolf I'm gonna be passed up by an AFC? But come on I've read about alpha behavior and "acted" like I was an "alpha". For fvcks sake be a man and adapt to situations accordingly. When was the last time an "alpha" gorilla got stood up and how did he react. the motherfvcker didn't because he had a herd of broads on his side. Is the reason he had a herd of broads because he was "alpha", who cares? The important thing is that they were there.

 

[jason86]

Yeh i know what you mean.

I heard from afar that some dude i know (from school) has gotten together with my ex. For a couple of days i felt pissed off, lets say that. Just knowing another dude is fukin her, makes me sick. I actually as went as far to image them two having sex.

As soon as i took that image i felt like finding the dude and stabbing a knife right to his chest.

Im a jealous type of person.

 

[JackPrescott]

Originally posted by FrancoPUA
Your jealousy feeling is connected with the fact that you are very ALPHA and TERRITORIAL without knowing it.

It is the problem of many modern men to not be enough in touch with their DEEPER INSTINCTS of which one of the most important is MASCULINE AGGRESSIVE FEELING!

In a word: what your deeper aggressive masculine feeling really wants is to KILL all the other males to be the only one to FATHER this woman.

Almost probably your own sexual desire is not satisfied enough and you are not getting in your life so much POWER as you could.

There are evolutionary studies about jealousy: it seems that evolution preserves jealousy because it INCREASES the likelyhood of pregnancies.

Why? A male who is jealous will try to please and have more sex with a woman because he is scared that someone else could be faster and stronger that him in impregnating her.

In a word "jealousy puts the wings to your desire of becoming father"

Now what you need to do to get rid of the feeling of jealousy is to start to have sex with as many women as you can and increase your "hunting" skills.

When you do that you get MORE POWER to yourself and WOMEN'S VALUE will drop in your mind so that you will find more difficult feeilng jealousy for one woman.

In a word by seducing many women and having sex with many you become the ALPHA OF THE GROUP.

No need to be jealous when you are in that position.

Sounds like you read "The Evolution of Desire" Human Mating Stragedies, and it's all true. Sexual Jealousy exists for a reason.