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I know I cant be the only one experinecing this. I consider myself good looking and deifnetly above average in the body. Everytime I come by a dude with his girl he always makes some comment to her or whispers somthing brings her closer and seems to mate guard. The girl gives me eyes an IOI and he sees that as well. Honestly i find it amusing but it can get annoying especially if its a girl you would never fvck. How do you guys deal with this im curious.
 

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I don't deal with it, I do nothing and carry on with my day undisturbed by this. It's not my problem what these couples are doing, all I'm doing is existing, that's not something that needs dealing with.
Simply this.
 

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I really don't care about boys being jealous that I fock their girlfriends.

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Same here.

No reason to any fvcks given other than possibly fvck her if the oppertunity is there.
Hell we might do him a favor of finding out that his GF is a 304.
What he think or not think isn't our issue to contemplate on.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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Not your problem.... however....

Do not try anything with women whose BF is doing this... too much drama, and there is a chance men like this beat up their women when they show interest in other men. You can't help what she does, but don't have to fvcking encourage it. I don't care what kind of a loser he is... any j@ck@ss in the USA can go buy a gun. Too many unattached women in the world to be messing with chicks that do not have the emotional maturity to end relationships that are not working for them.

If a man finds himself is a situation where he thinks he needs to 'mate guard' he is on his way out... when a man behaves like this, he believes he is not capable of keeping a woman on his own merits. Chicks hate this sh1t. SHE wants to feel like SHE is the winner in a relationship. SHE wants her GFs to be jealous of her because she has a man in demand.

If you are in a relationship with a woman that starts flirting with and welcoming attention from other men... cut her loose. Bad news does not get better with time. Let her go and figure her sh1t out.... you move on to other women that want to be with you.
 

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I really don't care about boys being jealous that I fock their girlfriends.

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Why do you care enough to even let this bother you? Take it as a compliment you are getting signs of interest from these women. Even if they are below your own subjective standards.

Agree with the others as well that if a man has to "mate guard" his woman his days with her are numbered.
 

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You've nearly put away 1000 posts in a month since joining SS, I think the girlfriends of Amsterdam are safe for now.
Just because it takes you half an hour to craft a sentence doesn't mean everybody has that problem. :cool:
Most of my posts are not even 10% the size of some of the other posters. :eek:
 

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As others have said, give zero ****s BUT have situational awareness. Don't underestimate what a guy might do who feels threatened about losing his gf/his world.
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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I know I cant be the only one experinecing this. I consider myself good looking and deifnetly above average in the body. Everytime I come by a dude with his girl he always makes some comment to her or whispers somthing brings her closer and seems to mate guard. The girl gives me eyes an IOI and he sees that as well. Honestly i find it amusing but it can get annoying especially if its a girl you would never fvck. How do you guys deal with this im curious.
Its about being redpill (aware) vs being completely bluepilled.

The redpill glasses show you women's true nature constantly. Part of this is flirting /lusting after other men.

Women, even more than men , experience "lust on the spot " and are COMPLETELY "helpless"( due to being spoiled and getting what they want all the damn time). If you are her type she wont be able to hide it. So yeah, that means you are seemingly winning at life. There are only so many top candidates who understand the game and ooze this energy...read thats sentence twice!!

Its the equivalent of a hb8,9+ asking "why she get all these looks from even married men".

Still ,I'll end with a warning tho! Nothing is more ..terrifying than the payback of a bluepilled beta bytch male. He WILL do life to "defend" her(his own that is) honor. He will kill you given the chance. So enjoy , but always on a low, never openly participate in or with the flirting/seduction of occupied women!!
 

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You might start caring if one of them decides to strangle you with your own shibari rope.
Tough talk, haha. I've been threatened before.

Like I tell them, 'your wife cheated on you.' If they still want to scrap with me, they can try.

I don't ask whether a woman is single or not, if they come over to my lair for sex they are not in a serious relationship.
 

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Just because it takes you half an hour to craft a sentence doesn't mean everybody has that problem. :cool:
Most of my posts are not even 10% the size of some of the other posters. :eek:
Sorry I didn’t mean to offended, it’s just a quick glance at your posts show round the clock coverage (except for sleep) so I assume posting here is a 16 hour shift for you. I hope you’re getting paid overtime.
 

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Like I tell them, 'your wife cheated on you.' If they still want to scrap with me, they can try.
I cannot for the life of me understand the thought process of going after the man your wife/gf cheated with (assuming it's consentual). It's the woman who lied and betrayed, which to me is a far more serious offense. Had my wife cheated I would put all of the blame on her and hold her accountable for it.

I can only speculate these men have the view that women are inferior and incapable of making conscious decisions being aware of the consequences. Like they can't be held responsible for being seduced by another man and their betrayal, so it's somehow the other guys fault for exploiting their innocent wife/gf??!

It's fvcked up and it's scary how common this error in thought is.
 

Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.

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Girl was grinding on my knee last night. Guy who I swore was her bf comes over and kisses her all over her cheeks bc she was dodging him. Turns out is not the bf, that was crazy
 

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Sorry I didn’t mean to offended, it’s just a quick glance at your posts show round the clock coverage (except for sleep) so I assume posting here is a 16 hour shift for you. I hope you’re getting paid overtime.
I'm writing on my novels, transcribing drafts on my laptop, and I take breaks when I surf the boards. Since I'm retired, I have plenty of time to do whatever I want. And I get paid very well, I'm my own boss.
 

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It's fvcked up and it's scary how common this error in thought is.
Oh yes, I told guys, 'Hey, I get it, your girlfriend is just clumsy, she slipped and fell on my d!ck.'

I don't check for rings, but I think I bedded about thirty or forty women who (often later) revealed they were in committed relationships. I've only had interactions with a few jealous husbands/boyfriends. Only two actually wanted to fight. They regretted that decision later.
 
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Its about being redpill (aware) vs being completely bluepilled.

The redpill glasses show you women's true nature constantly. Part of this is flirting /lusting after other men.

Women, even more than men , experience "lust on the spot " and are COMPLETELY "helpless"( due to being spoiled and getting what they want all the damn time). If you are her type she wont be able to hide it. So yeah, that means you are seemingly winning at life. There are only so many top candidates who understand the game and ooze this energy...read thats sentence twice!!

Its the equivalent of a hb8,9+ asking "why she get all these looks from even married men".

Still ,I'll end with a warning tho! Nothing is more ..terrifying than the payback of a bluepilled beta bytch male. He WILL do life to "defend" her(his own that is) honor. He will kill you given the chance. So enjoy , but always on a low, never openly participate in or with the flirting/seduction of occupied women!!
bruh i know EXACTLY what you mean saying bluepilled betas will kill you for a b1tch lmao. Its scary. Even seemingly tough macho dudes are blue pilled and over react when they see their girl eyeing or liking another dude.

I have a gf right now and shes never expressed any interest in any other dude whatsoever. Im her universe. But when I had a fwb i would remember times where they would try to make me jealous with other dudes and i just find it amusing.
 

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Not your problem.... however....

Do not try anything with women whose BF is doing this... too much drama, and there is a chance men like this beat up their women when they show interest in other men. You can't help what she does, but don't have to fvcking encourage it. I don't care what kind of a loser he is... any j@ck@ss in the USA can go buy a gun. Too many unattached women in the world to be messing with chicks that do not have the emotional maturity to end relationships that are not working for them.

If a man finds himself is a situation where he thinks he needs to 'mate guard' he is on his way out... when a man behaves like this, he believes he is not capable of keeping a woman on his own merits. Chicks hate this sh1t. SHE wants to feel like SHE is the winner in a relationship. SHE wants her GFs to be jealous of her because she has a man in demand.

If you are in a relationship with a woman that starts flirting with and welcoming attention from other men... cut her loose. Bad news does not get better with time. Let her go and figure her sh1t out.... you move on to other women that want to be with you.
If a woman truly loves you her eyes are only on YOU. Brad pitt leonardio dicaprio can be in the same room as you but your the only man on her mind.
 

Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.

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