Jealous Beta Fag Friends

[PlayHer Man]

What these "beta faggots" will never learn is that the guys who achieved DJ status had to do so through experience. Instead they go along with the crowd. There's people at my job who are exactly like what PHM mentioned.

I once felt like I was at the lower echelon in my beta days. Instead of ragging on people, I sat back observed and and absorbed their traits on what worked and applied them to my own game. I felt comfortable enough in admitting that I sucked with women and did my best to learn from those who were far ahead of the game than I was.

Those same guys who are at that level are usually glad to give you tips if you just ask for help. But not everyone is willing to swallow enough humble pie to do so.

Indeed. To learn from others and to ask for help would mean owning up to a certain level of inadequacy. Their beta ego won't allow it.

What really makes me laugh is when men who are TERRIBLE with women try to give me advice on how to handle my plates. If anything.. they should be asking ME for help. But they never ask for help. They would rather find ways to destroy my success by giving me terrible advice and hoping I follow it.

Like others have said --> They're all about image. Looking like winners at all costs. How many people end up in the poor house trying to look rich? People will destroy their lives and the lives of others just to maintain an image.

 

[floydb25]

Indeed. To learn from others and to ask for help would mean owning up to a certain level of inadequacy. Their beta ego won't allow it.

What really makes me laugh is when men who are TERRIBLE with women try to give me advice on how to handle my plates. If anything.. they should be asking ME for help. But they never ask for help. They would rather find ways to destroy my success by giving me terrible advice and hoping I follow it.

Like others have said --> They're all about image. Looking like winners at all costs. How many people end up in the poor house trying to look rich? People will destroy their lives and the lives of others just to maintain an image.

TRUTH. Most of their "advice" is also done in the form of back-handed compliments or straight-out insults to keep you beneath them, and dissuade you from succeeding. As well as to point out your flaws, and what you are doing wrong - without offering genuine advice. Just, you're a loser, you're ugly, she's out of your league, go hire a prostitute, etc. They have ZERO interest in helping you achieve success - while acting like YOU need help... even if you don't, and nothing they are saying about you is true! ****, they do this AS you're about succeed, or already are. You're a threat - that's why they attack and belittle in the first place. Then they get ANGRY and start the all-out hating if you do succeed, and they couldn't sabotage or keep you beneath them.

**** 'em. Don't tell 'em ****. It's all ego and competition, and being "better" than everyone else. Lotta fake *******s out there who want nothing more than to see everyone fail, and remain beneath them, so that they can look down on them. They WANT to be able to say you need help, and point out your flaws and failures - without actually helping. That's the point, and why they are fake. Don't be making friends with everybody - thinking they have your best interests at heart, and are looking out for you, and want to see you achieve success... even if you do for them, and they ACT like they're happy for you, complimenting you initially, etc. You're eventually going to become their target once you threaten their interests or surpass them... ****, some people are fake from the jump.

Always focus on the facts and reality, and let no one bring you down or tell you this / that.

 

[speed dawg]

Men are kind of like bucks (male deer) in the wild. They are going to be competitive and butt heads to try to be on top. It's no coincidence everybody talks about being, or wanting to be, the alpha male on here.

I agree, but physically, we simply can't all be the alpha males. Just not possible. You can use your brain, internalize game, and have alpha traits for sure, though. Some guys have more testosterone naturally, and you can see these guys from a mile away. Cool as a cucumber, no matter what.

 

[tryst type]

I had to resurrect this thread because I just dealt with some jealousy from a friend.

Same jealous insecure friend that's always attacking my integrity and again via social media, the only time his true jealous side comes out besides being in a group of people. When we're just one on one he's completely humble and a "good friend".

His attempts to belittle me are (to me at least) an indication of his own inner struggles and insecurity. I'm sure he thinks to others it's a tactical form of shaming so he appears "better"

 

[CrashOverRide]

I had to resurrect this thread because I just dealt with some jealousy from a friend.

Same jealous insecure friend that's always attacking my integrity and again via social media, the only time his true jealous side comes out besides being in a group of people. When we're just one on one he's completely humble and a "good friend".

His attempts to belittle me are (to me at least) an indication of his own inner struggles and insecurity. I'm sure he thinks to others it's a tactical form of shaming so he appears "better"

Hey Tryst can you provide an example of what he said on social media? I assume you mean FB. I find this thread to be very interesting... I think a lot of people "joke" around with each other which includes some teasing... but its good to know when they are crossing the line. The fact that he doesn't say this to your face seems shady..

 

[VikingKing]

In highschool this one "friend" of mine got one my ex gf's to break up with me (she said it was because I smoke pot) and the same guy ****-blocked me on the next girl

I didn't realize at the time because I was trusting.

 

[CJ 101]

Alot of these jealous beta fags are full of ****. I have a friend who's just like that, he's jealous of my success with chicks and ge always tries to sabotage everything i do with chicks. I just stopped hanging out with him. And oh by the way his girlfriend is ugly as ****.

 

[tryst type]

I was even more unprepared for dealing with guys like this once I hit the working world than I was with women. For your own sanity, you need to absolutely rip him a new assh0le in public next time he dares speak to you. This won't earn his friendship but the group will respect you and at least he will know to back off.

I generally dismiss any of his attempts so he just looks like a try-hard fool. But there was one incident on Facebook with an old girl I was dating. He left a flirtatious comment on a pic of us blatantly directed at her while subtly trying to insult me. I replied " no flirting with my women (his name), go to your room"

I remember the girl told me in person that when she saw what he said and my response it made her want to be with me more. He stopped at that point but has since started again.

 

[CJ 101]

I had to resurrect this thread because I just dealt with some jealousy from a friend.

Same jealous insecure friend that's always attacking my integrity and again via social media, the only time his true jealous side comes out besides being in a group of people. When we're just one on one he's completely humble and a "good friend".

His attempts to belittle me are (to me at least) an indication of his own inner struggles and insecurity. I'm sure he thinks to others it's a tactical form of shaming so he appears "better"

Dude i know what you mean, i've just stopped hanging out with a couple of former friends who are like that.