Japanese Girls

[noPride]

Theres a japanese girl living in the house with me, When she first moved in about 4 months ago she was really friendly and always talked to me and watched movies with me and I had a great rapport with her.

In the last few weeks however she seems to be doing everything in her power to aviod me. I sent her a text today and there was so response (she used to respond always)

She's up in herr room right now and has been for about the past 4 hours. This is frustating me. Yes I do like her, but if she's not interested in me i've no problem with that either, I just wish she'd tell me "I'm not interested" or something. Hell if she's grnuinely not interested in me I don't see the reason in being interested in her.

I'm not sure if the fact that she's Japanese has anything to do with it. Someone reading this may be a lot more familiar with Japaese customs and attitudes. Looking back I do admit did have some opportunities whrere I could have made a "move" on her but I'll admit I was a bit too laid back so maybe I'm paying the price now.

The one thing I'm sure of is she's very stubborn and pretty. (yes thats 2)

Also I've heard of this "3 second rule" and I'm wondering does it work the other way around too. When I first met her my gut response was she was a very plain looking girl and I really wasn't interested, however after talking to her for a while she charmed me and I realiased she was quite pretty.

 

[HolyTrinity]

honestly if you texted her and she never responds with anything 99% of the time it means shes telling you shes not interested in you. even less interested than you if she were to say shes not interested in you, because it means that your not even worth her time to reject.

if you dont/didnt know that when girls dont respond to your calls/texts that this is a for sure sign that shes not interested in you and it upsets you then your gonna have a long life of upsets ahead of you. if you didnt know this about women you have ALOT to learn :nono:

oh yeah and by the way a japanese girl living in america has the exact same train of thought as an white american person. can't believe you actually considered that being ignored by a girl might be some kind of foreign custom the japanese have we americans dont! lol

you might wanna do alot of thinking before you jump into a bi-racial relationship if you think things like this.

 

[noPride]

I don't live in America , I live in Ireland.

Yeah well that's pretty much what I expected. It's just confusing the way she's TOTALLY avoiding me, I mean normally if a girl isn't interested in a guy sexually but does want to be friends she'll just...

whats the point.

Ok, I'm going to move out of here (NOT because of her, because I'm bored living here and the rents too high)

 

[Tyson420]

If it'll make you feel better.

When girls do not respond to texts, calls or whatever. There should be warning bells in your head telling you to freeze ***** out. No matter what, White, Black, Asian, Latina same ****.

 

[noPride]

First of all, change your handle. noPride? Nothing like labeling yourself and then being suprised when you live down to those expectations.

**** Bro, you've got oneitis with a girl who is living in your same house? Yikes. Just move on and improve your confidence with women so the next time you get an opportunity with a woman you don't puss out and are left texting a girl who is 10 feet from you.

I assure you I don't have one-itis :crackup:

In fact today I was on the bus and I struck up a conversation with a girl. Didn't get her number but it was a good positive flowing conversation. The girl who lives with me here is getting less and less appealing in my mind even as I write this. It's just hard because the other guys who live here are away for the weekend and The only people are her and another girl (form Korea) who I've absoutely no interest in.

I decided not to go out tonight (because its halloween and I haven't got a costume) so hopefully if the weather is good tomorrow (as it was today) I'll go out again on one of my "walks" and maybe have some real success. Honestly today I was walking down the road (it was great weather) and I said to myself "I have to chat up at least 1 girl today" and I did it and it felt good.

PS. I don't know if I can change my handle and even if I can I'm not sure I want to. It's the name I chose when I joined the forum and anyway It's just a name right?