I've sworn off women and it feels great!

[Jvesti]

I made a vow to myself to swear off females in order to focus on my business. This includes hookin up, dating, getting laid, bothering to go interact with any, or staking prospective ones out because there is no point in that. So I'm doing this until my business starts to become profitable.

There are various reasons why this is a good idea.

Now this has been goin on for 2 months or so I've gotta say it feels ****in awesome! Girls proposition me for sex or hook-ups I tell them straight out NO and I get some ego trip or something off of it but it feels great. Girls try and engage me or try to dance with me in clubs i just put them to the side and walk by without missing a beat. When I tell them no they don't let up and they act like AFC males begging for it getting frustrated.

I now know why women love to hold sex over our heads it feels damn great!

So when I get back to givin two ****s about girls. I'm definitely intricating some of this into my arsenal. "lets be friends" "If you want to hang out we're going to as friends, don't try anything else please".

 

[Chewy Bagel]

Whatever works for you.

 

[G_S]

Just hope it doesn't backfire on you later.

 

[Jvesti]

Originally posted by G_S
Just hope it doesn't backfire on you later.

How would it backfire?

 

[Porky]

You swore off women, but not MEN.

Dun dun! The other sex will get you, that's how it could backfire.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by Porky
You swore off women, but not MEN.

Dun dun! The other sex will get you, that's how it could backfire.

LOL...my thoughts too.

It is necessary to focus when your starting a business. But you gotta have your life in balance.

I don't know why this thread was posted but I'm sure the owner has his reasons. But on a site that's about getting women..???


And turning down p*ussy when it's offered???

I can see getting to the state where it doesn't matter as a way of increasing attraction from women..but to turn it down...I dont understand that one..

No diss to you the originator of this thread but I have been wondering about the "real" sexuality of some of our posters.

I hope you don't watch that show queer as folks too do you?

 

[Julian]

He watches will n grace lmao.

Jk.

I think he's just taking the "focus on yourself and your own passions before women" one step too far.

 

[So pimp its scary]

I've personnaly sworn of GIRLFRIENDs for the same reason... I will however approach, seduce, phuck, date women in the meantime, just NO COMMITMENTS.

This way it doesn't seem as 'closet gay' as swearing off women... either that, or you could just join a nunnery or priest place...

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by Julian
He watches will n grace lmao.

Jk.

I think he's just taking the "focus on yourself and your own passions before women" one step too far.

LOL or that gay show "queer as folks"

this is the 2nd f*ucking post like this..what's going on, on this site???

Is it ok for "men" to flaunt this in other men's faces who want to get laid???

 

[Starman]

This is just plain ric0ckulous..

I have seen everything from quitting jerking off, TV, internet..and now this

and the kicker is , everyone's logic here

By Not thinking about women, Im actually going to hook up with women!

That is like a salesman thinking "If I dont THINK about making 1 sale! I will make 100's!"

Instead of learning how to improve your game, you have chosen to curb your preoccupation with hooking up

and Guess what?? your preoccupation will NEVER go away, its going to linger throughout the rest of your life until you take some ACTION to change that.

can anyone say DENIAL & AVOIDANCE?

 

[suavedave]

Agreed

I partially agree with this. I posted elsewhere that, through influence of some religious minded friends I was completely out of the PU scene. What happened was, this guy that I really respect (in buddhist terms Im sure he's up there viz. enlightenment). He basically convinced me that enlightenment and PU did not mix. Now, this was good in that it _completely_ took my mind off PU. When I meditated (a practice I have to recommend) my mind was utterly clear of any trace of thoughts of HBs -- and other times as well.

I now see the need for balance, however... the important thing, I see now, is to control your mind. This means that when you are sarging you're sarging, but when you're not, your mind is clear of HB thoughts. Easier said than done. Now, someone can do as you have done, or if they have the good fortune they will meet a friend or have an experience that allows them to be utterly free from the PU scene for a while. When you return you will see things with much more clarity -- and balance.

I am sure that the best way is to be a balanced PUA. My boss informed me of the most crucial point. I asked him how in the world he works so hard (He, like you has sworn off girls.) He always says, you have to chose "to have a goal." Then when I asked how you get that he told me, "Equilibrium. Equlibrium totally sustains and uplifts us."

Over and out from Vancouver.

Be kind to others.

 

[megz_hunni]

wowwwww! you are either very dedicated to your work or just plain crazy. i can understand no serious girlfriends but forgettin about girls altogether? your hardcore buddeh. if it works, all the power to ya but i know i wouldnt last long without guys lol.

i give it about ... 2 weeks before ya cave lol but good luck with it anyways!
-meagan

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

All of this reminds me of jugglers. You have some that are average that can juggle three, some that are better that can juggle more and then there are people that don't juggle at all.

 

[Crotch Sniffer]

Yeah, swearing them off is a bit extreme, but your LJBF mentality is actally a great tool.

You reverse LJBF them and it drives em crazy! This is what David D would call "resisting forward"

brilliant tactic. now go get some booty!

 

[Jvesti]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
LOL...my thoughts too.

It is necessary to focus when your starting a business. But you gotta have your life in balance.

I don't know why this thread was posted but I'm sure the owner has his reasons. But on a site that's about getting women..???


And turning down p*ussy when it's offered???

I can see getting to the state where it doesn't matter as a way of increasing attraction from women..but to turn it down...I dont understand that one..

No diss to you the originator of this thread but I have been wondering about the "real" sexuality of some of our posters.

I hope you don't watch that show queer as folks too do you?

umm no actually you lack understanding of the situation,
You see getting laid is an incentive that makes me more motivated

The relationship thing is obvious

I need to get my life on track, I need to move out on my own. Holding getting laid over my head until I comfortably get on my feet is an Ultimate motivator.

Some of the greatest most successful men this world has had were driven to success by *****

I can get ***** and I'm forcing myself to hold it over my head until i reach certain goals in my life.

ever heard the term "Sexual transmuting"

 

[Jvesti]

Originally posted by megz_hunni
wowwwww! you are either very dedicated to your work or just plain crazy. i can understand no serious girlfriends but forgettin about girls altogether? your hardcore buddeh. if it works, all the power to ya but i know i wouldnt last long without guys lol.

i give it about ... 2 weeks before ya cave lol but good luck with it anyways!
-meagan

extremely dedicated and very crazy so both. There was a point a year ago before i found purpose in my life that I'd do just about anything just to be in a girl's presence. If it was me a year ago and the girl came up to me and started to dance i'd probably keep dancing with her until she got annoyed.

I've also sworn off masturbation for 57 days earlier this year to learn some self-discipline as well I quit this after I won the bet I had.

I still wack, but I use ***** and meeting new girls dangling over my head as motivation. As for the relationship part, that's something I could care less about (i do care a little) and I stay out of them for the practical reason that if i get mixed up with the wrong girl(emotional suckerfish or negative girl) it could significantly cut into my ability to do my work and be creative and i don't need to deal with it right now.

God, people world class boxers swear off women 60 days before a fight. I don't see where I'm goin gay to those who accuse get real

 

[Jvesti]

Re: Agreed

Originally posted by suavedave

I am sure that the best way is to be a balanced PUA. My boss informed me of the most crucial point. I asked him how in the world he works so hard (He, like you has sworn off girls.) He always says, you have to chose "to have a goal." Then when I asked how you get that he told me, "Equilibrium. Equlibrium totally sustains and uplifts us."

Over and out from Vancouver.

Be kind to others.

Amen to that, I'm starting to realize things I never did. I'm gaining strength and seeing things from perspectives i never had about the PU scene. I'm not in it but I'm observing it from afar when im going out with friends i tend to realize what it's all about.

When I go back in, my strength and alpha-ness around women will be tenfold. I'll be able to walk away from a situation within split seconds that I'm not about with a girl but I understand what it's like with or without girls and that I can survive and in fact life won't suck. I am focused on my goals and specific about them and the fact im learning this discipline to be so goal-driven I won't exactly be floundering much in the scene like most do.

 

[Jvesti]

Originally posted by Starman
This is just plain ric0ckulous..

I have seen everything from quitting jerking off, TV, internet..and now this

and the kicker is , everyone's logic here

By Not thinking about women, Im actually going to hook up with women!

That is like a salesman thinking "If I dont THINK about making 1 sale! I will make 100's!"

Instead of learning how to improve your game, you have chosen to curb your preoccupation with hooking up

and Guess what?? your preoccupation will NEVER go away, its going to linger throughout the rest of your life until you take some ACTION to change that.

can anyone say DENIAL & AVOIDANCE?

Obviousely you need to re-read my post I never said I was doing this to get laid. My drive and all emotion are totally focused on my goal like a laser with everything i got coming out in one single focal point. I've become conguent with what I want to do and since sexual energy and sex drive is such a powerful pre-occupying force in ones mind I've cut it off at the pass to focus it elsewhere. Which is a very powerful thing relative to the sex drive one has.

some of the greatest people this world has known became that way because of a drive to "get the girl", I'm taking the initiative to make myself driven by holding ***** over my head myself taking destiny in my own hand.

 

[Ricky]

This isn't as crazy as it seems.

One can spend a tremendous about of time, DJing, pursuing and meeting new women.

It would be much easier to quick thinking about it and just let things happen every once in a while.

If I went out with every girl I met, I'd have no time for my career, my current gf or other pursuits.

 

[MVPlaya]

Originally posted by Jvesti
I made a vow to myself to swear off females in order to focus on my business.

And then you are going to be 45 and have the business you want and you will finally notice that you want women and you will post a thread like "45 year old entrepreneur needs dating advice" and you will see that viagra mutates your c0ck and so you die a virgin. Chase a*ss while you're young, chase Benjamins when you hit 30 (this does not mean don't make money or try to get ahead, it just means, this is your prime, + why are you a hater? Why do you hate on women who offer themselves to you? Getting a trip off of rejecting people is the essence of hating, you are a male hater. + Why rejected offered sex?).

You got your prime ahead of you, you don't want to realize you want sex as this hot babe you've been seeing walks up to you and refuels your oxygen tank.