I've seen a lot of advice that basically amounts to ignore her or walk away.

[devilkingx2]

What are the main constants would you say? I guess my question is if it's universal and there are constants, how come the results are so unpredictable and no one has a 100 percent success/failure rate? If no situation is unique then shouldn't there be a way to always to get a desirable outcome?

You optimize by the category, not by the individual girl.

Let me show you, Last halloween i shared an instagram pic with a bunch of girls i know that says "tag a slvt" and to each girl i said "happy halloween hoe!" The sample size was dozens of girls, 2-3 dozen girls i knew. The category of responses in order of most common to least common was:

1. Ignoring/no response
2. Laughter/shrug it off and greet me
3. Playful outrage
4. Serious anger at me

For the most part, the actual differences between the responses in each group didn't matter. All the girls who got mad already didn't like me and now like me even less, so i deleted them all lmfao. All the girls who didn't respond are indifferent to me at best, and closed to being opened by me, i deleted most of them too. All of the girls in 2-3 are girls i should probably try to get out on a date or at least be friends with/keep talking to.

Their individual responses weren't so unique that they didn't fit a category, nor did any individual require a unique response different from any other girl.

99.99% of the time you won't need to use some unique custom routine to get a girl(and if you think you do you're either wrong and tryharding or running into a relatively common situation for the first time), the 00.01% of the time you do need to deal with one girl different than any other, it's probably not worth the effort of inventing a whole new methodology to get one girl. Unless she's kate upton or some sh!t

TL ; DR: think of OLD, every girl on tinder wants you to tailor a unique response that isn't "hello wyd" or some cookie cutter pickup line, but it's not worth your effort because interested girls respond to cookie cutter lines and basic greetings whilst uninterested girls wouldn't respond if you wrote her a limmerick (the solution is to come up with something unique once and use it for every girl)

 

[MatureDJ]

If u aren't being treated like a VIP customer for a particular crush u r having then logically you should walk away.

The solution;

Visit another shop until u find one that gives you the VIP treatment. And then after testing, tasting and humping the product to ur satisfaction you get to decide if it's according to your high standards.
Only then you shall consider purchasing it or dismissing it.

How else can anyone advice you otherwise ?

LOL. most men here would have to go to the Dollar General Store level of poontang before getting "satisfaction".

 

[MatureDJ]

For example, my girl now turned down my first date, and didn't counter with a "I already showered and can't go out now. lol".

I guess that beats the excuse I got of "I'll be washing my dog then". OUCH!

 

[MatureDJ]

Women offer the worst return on investment you will ever come across.

I think that having the ability/means to purchase sexual intimacy allows a man to not be forced into doing this investment; it allows for a man to "take it or leave it". The man who does not have such ability is stuck with his inner Y chromosome constantly telling him to keep spending time & energy trying to get poontang.