Ive got a problem

[Bingo-Player]

Since coming to the forum my games come on leaps and bounds i thought i had hit the level where no woman was ever going to be able to get a hook into my emotions again

which was a marvellous thing as once you remove your feelings for a woman the game becomes so much simpler

You are free to walk away at any point and that trumps any other game she will try to play with you

But now someone’s come along and made me question everything i stand for what makes it even more complicated is the fact we are supposed to be “friends”

Bit of background on the chick

We’ve know each other a long time , we are comfortable around each other EXTREMELY comfortable to the point where we will casually talk about sex and our exploits with no problem at all i enjoy this because sometimes having a females perspective on sex is worth its weight in gold

We are constantly laughing together , we smoke d*ope together we watch movies together im fine with all of this so long as the end of the day she goes home and ive then got time to have sex with my plates

Problem is recently we’ve been spending way too much time together and the lines are starting to become blurred she keeps asking me stuff out of the blue like

“oh if you really really wanted to fvck someone but didn’t know how to tell them what would you do”

My problem is if we start having sex then i don’t know if we would be able to stop and i know im heading down a slippery slope when that starts

Im confused now about what to do the sexual tension between us is starting to hit critical level and i think if we did fvck the earth would probably stop moving but i just don’t know if its the best thing for this situation right now

I know its not really good practice for the man to be worrying about sh1t like this and a lot of you will say “bingo just fvck her”

but i feel if i don’t then nobody will and next thing she will end up fvcking pregnant or something

I need to have the “talk” with her but cant say im looking forward to it at all

Any advice ?

 

[RangerMIke]

She's a **** buddy... they are great, just go for it and stop worrying about it. Yea, it's possible you might lose her, but you've lost women before, it's not the end of the world.

If you don't want to cross that line, then just don't cross it. With women, they will give you a window of opportunity to fvck them, if you don't take it then, they consider you a eunuch... then you're firmly in friend zone, once there you're there for good. But if you want to keep the window open, then you have to fvck her.

 

[Desdinova]

Perhaps you should ask yourself this question... "If I start fvcking her, we get into a relationship, and the whole thing ends, will I be able to walk away and never speak to her again?"

I've had to ask myself this question to myself a few times. The answer is usually "yes".

If your answer is "no", then you'll have to just deal with her being an orbiter and maybe occasionally asking the "us" questions. She may also end up fading from your life regardless because she'll become extremely sexually and emotionally frustrated. Whenever a woman sits in one set of emotions for too long, she gets bored and moves on.

The way I see it, people come and go in life. Most people in my life are temporary anyway, so why not take advantage of sex when it presents itself?

 

[Tictac]

When you're an old fart, do you want to be able to say "I can't believe I did that" or "I wish I did that"?

Why are you all freaked out about what might happen? That's a way bigger 'problem' for you.

 

[Thechamp]

Since coming to the forum my games come on leaps and bounds i thought i had hit the level where no woman was ever going to be able to get a hook into my emotions again

which was a marvellous thing as once you remove your feelings for a woman the game becomes so much simpler

You are free to walk away at any point and that trumps any other game she will try to play with you

But now someone’s come along and made me question everything i stand for what makes it even more complicated is the fact we are supposed to be “friends”

Bit of background on the chick

We’ve know each other a long time , we are comfortable around each other EXTREMELY comfortable to the point where we will casually talk about sex and our exploits with no problem at all i enjoy this because sometimes having a females perspective on sex is worth its weight in gold

We are constantly laughing together , we smoke d*ope together we watch movies together im fine with all of this so long as the end of the day she goes home and ive then got time to have sex with my plates

Problem is recently we’ve been spending way too much time together and the lines are starting to become blurred she keeps asking me stuff out of the blue like

“oh if you really really wanted to fvck someone but didn’t know how to tell them what would you do”

My problem is if we start having sex then i don’t know if we would be able to stop and i know im heading down a slippery slope when that starts

Im confused now about what to do the sexual tension between us is starting to hit critical level and i think if we did fvck the earth would probably stop moving but i just don’t know if its the best thing for this situation right now

I know its not really good practice for the man to be worrying about sh1t like this and a lot of you will say “bingo just fvck her”

but i feel if i don’t then nobody will and next thing she will end up fvcking pregnant or something

I need to have the “talk” with her but cant say im looking forward to it at all

Any advice ?

Sounds like your falling in love no big deal maybe she is the one.

 

[stevo]

but i feel if i don’t then nobody will and next thing she will end up fvcking pregnant or something

Careful now, don't try to save her.

Fcuk the broad.

Emotions will be very high if you do and you just might find yourself in a relationship very soon.

 

[Bingo-Player]

wow a bag of mixed results here

desindova made the point shes probably going to get sexually and emotionally frustrated with me if i dont do or say something soon and i agree that eventually it will be too much for her to cope with and she will walk

i dont really want that to happen because me and her have got a bond that i have with very few people which is lethal

im somewhat between a rock and a hard place but no situation is un manageable

ive decided im going to have to be a man and tell her whats going on and shes going to need to give me her pov too before i can decide what to do next i suspect im probably going to have to do this over about 4 bottles of wine for best results lol

 

[Tictac]

Women prefer men that make moves over ones that 'tell her what's going on'.

 

[ubercat]

Mates definitely f*** her. I had this cute Macedonian girl once who was offering it to me on a plate. I was having psych issues over a 13 year age gap. So of course she got bored and I lost the friendship anyway. So yeah I don't see any upside in not f****** her

 

[Desdinova]

Women prefer men that make moves over ones that 'tell her what's going on'.

I'm going to add something on to this... Women believe in "fate" and "destiny" and all that other 5hit. They think about this stuff all the time. The best part is her "fate" is in your hands. You're the one in control here, so you need to decide what her "fate" is.

You need to figure out if you're going to fvck her or not before you see her next. Telling her "what's going on" means you don't want to fvck her. Saying nothing and going in for the kiss instead means you DO want to fvck her.

You're going to lose the friendship either by not fvcking her, or getting involved with her and ending the relationship some time in the future. It all depends on how long you want to keep this chick around, and how emotionally involved you want to get.

 

[Bingo-Player]

well thanks for everyones input its always nice to have a fresh perspective on a situation

especially a complicated one

i didnt see her yesterday but we are texting last night and she decides to tell me she loves me

i still dont know if sleeping with her is going to be the right thing to do long term but at the moment its all i want to do

will keep you posted

 

[NSX-R]

Op try for a while and see how it flows with her. Don't let your feelings interfere until you are sure that everything is fine but when you come into this conclusion don't lose your cool because you will get defeated.Do what Desdinova said.