"I've got a girlfriend"

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Forbidden fruit?

Once in a while you meet this perfect girl or woman with everything you're looking for. She's good looking, funny, interesting, and so on, and so on (you probably get the idea).

You take a deep breath, goes for an approach, and awaits a reply. AND THEN... she tells you one of the last things you need to hear.

"Sorry, I've got a boyfriend."

Okay. No problem. You decide to leave her behind you, and find another, even better looking, chick. Or... you ignore her reply and goes on like nothing ever happened. Maybe since you love a challenge, maybe because the forbidden fruit tastes better, or … if you’re like me; both.

Now, lets say that you're in a club, on the street, at school, at work, or wherever - And a cute, good looking, girl/woman starts to hit on you.

What about telling her that you already have a girlfriend?

Stupid move? Maybe, but as we all know the forbidden fruit is more attractive than the one that isn't, and maybe this will have a positive and attractive effect.

Yeah, you’ve got a girlfriend. Cute girlfriend, attractive, good looking, perfect.

This girl will now have the same two choices that you had in the example above.

She will either ignore you, or try to eat the forbidden fruit (yeah, now that’s you). (In this case it’s not a good idea if you’re at a bar, or club for the night – But if she’s in a place were you can meet once in a while it’s better in a long term-perspective.)

But before she does, you’ll – by telling her that you’ve had a girlfriend for like 3-4 months - put a specific guy-with-girlfriend-picture in her head:

You’re interesting, forbidden, and more attractive than before (yeah, all guys with girlfriends has to be attractive in some way). She’ll also exclude that you’re a player, homosexual, or a jerk that never have had a girlfriend.

She will also start to believe that you’re a guy that has sex on regular basis, and as a fact is good in bed. The more girlfriends you’ve had - The better you’ll be in bed. Fact.

If this is at a club there’s a big chance that the girl just walks away (since there are other attractive guys there). But if she’s a little bit interested in you, and you have a chance to meet again, I think this is an alternative idea.

What about this idea? Good or bad? Just ask if you have some questions.

This is my first post by the way. :)
 

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like every tactic, they have their good points and they have their bad points. id say that girls especially want what they can't have. think back to the last time you had a girlfriend, more girls would approach you without a doubt. but on the same token you could be repelling the shy girls or girls without the self esteem to do something about you already being taken
 

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Whenever you're just starting something up with a girl, it's a great idea to leave her somewhat clueless. Give her an answer, but not one that answers her question. ****y/funny comes in very useful in these situation:

Her: Do you have a girlfriend?
You: Actually, I have many. They're all waiting for me to come home so they can fan me and feed me grapes.
Her: laughing

Never give away too much information in the beginning. Things like this will raise her IL.

Her: Where do you work?
You: I don't need to work. I'm a god.
 

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a chick I went out with last night asked me if I had one. I responded - "Yeah, but don't tell my wife - she doesn't approve of it.." She ate it up
 

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if you want to find out if a girl has a boyfriend, and at the same time set her up to ask you the question if you have a girlfriend here is what you do:

You: So what is a girl like you doing without a boyfriend?
Her: (flattered) (doesnt even matter what she says)
Her: What about you, what is a guy like you doing without a girlfriend?
You: Insert catchy mysterious line here.
 

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"id say that girls especially want what they can't have. think back to the last time you had a girlfriend, more girls would approach you without a doubt. "

Exactly. Why not making them believe it again? They don't have to meet her - Just tell the girl that you have a lovely girlfriend.

"but on the same token you could be repelling the shy girls or girls without the self esteem to do something about you already being taken"


That's very true! And... as a matter of fact it works the same way with guys.

To the other replies - Many good ideas, but this is not meant to be ****y&Funny. And I don't care if the girl has a boyfriend - If SHE approaches me I’ll assume that she doesn't have any boyfriend.


Worth to mention is that I did something like this a month ago. One girl was very interested in me, and she calls me when I’m with another girl (just a friend of mine). We were a little bit drunk, and I told my friend to joke with the other girl and tell her that we were *busy*. She said it in a friendly way, and also told the interested girl that she were my new girlfriend. She didn't act rude or anything - Just friendly and curious about why the girl called me in the middle of the night.

They chit-chatted for a while, and then hang up.

The next weekend when I'm downtown heading to a friend of mine the other girl by an incident meets me on the street.

She's a little bit drunk, with a friend, and tells me to come with her because she has to tell me something. We walk around a corner, and she almost starts to cry:



Her: "Why, damn, why, did you get yourself a girlfriend?"

Me: "What...? Ohh! Well... you can't control love can you? Hehehe."

- Silence 20 sec -

Her: "ohh...god. Hey... until last weekend I thought I had a chance to be yours. I sort of like you..."

Me: "Aaaw, you know, I like you too, you're a kind person"

Her: "You don't get it... i like you... ALOT!"

Me: "ReallY."

Her: "But... i'm in love with you. Damn, why are things like this? Im in love with you."

Me: "We should talk about this some other day... you know, go talk to your friend and i'll give you a call."

...


Now, this girl has bad self-esteem, and this was what happened. She gave up everything when she thought I had a girlfriend. Bad for her, but in this case - Good for me (since I *broke up* with my fake-girlfriend 2 weeks ago, and soon will give this girl a little phone call.)
 

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By the way: Excuse my english, it's not first-language over here, Europe. :)
 
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