I've flirted too much!

[IntermediateDonJuaner]

I just wanted to clarify something with you guys here. Is is all right for guys to flirt??I mean this is a stupid question but doesn't flirting conveys too much interest to the girls and it shows sign of neediness.? For example, holding eye contact with girls and etc. Does it convey too much interests??

Seriously speaking, I am a guy who dares to look into people's eyes cause I wanna know who you are. Unfortunately, it looks like the girl's are the first to look away. There are a few reasons :

1) Low self esteem
2) Doesn't like you
3) Intimidated by you
4) Threathened by you

Here are the ways I've flirted before : Prolonged eye contact, kino the girls, making jokes, laughing a lot and etc....

Anyway, how do we distinguish among the four's above when a girl looks away.? MAN!!! I'm a big flirt but I am confused. Does it mean I am some kinda desperate guy or something if I flirt? If yes, I better stop doing it right now cause I wasn't even aware that what I was doing was wrong. True,flirting takes guts but honestly speaking, I am a little bit chicken but flirted anyway because I don't know what I was doing.

Geesh.......

 

[marqZAL]

Anyway, how do we distinguish among the four's above when a girl looks away.?

I think you just know it...I too love flirting with girls, but most of the time you can tell which one it is...if they are'nt confident their eye go down...if its reeason 2,3,4 they go elsewhere, most of the time...

 

[Ashlee Angel]

I use to be the biggest flirt back in the day. I made it part of my personality.

I use to be real nice to women and I would always smile and give them good eye contact.

I would use slight kino.

I think the only way you would seem needy is once get the number. You call alot or you treat them like they are gold.


As far as girls looking down who knows? Women are women and I am not even gonna try and figure there every move out.

Fvck eye contact body language when my girl is pissed at me she always has her arms and legs the other direction. That's a key thing I notice.

 

[icepick]

Umm, didn't you try to kill some people IDJ, like 2 months ago? Whatever happened with that?

 

[Starman]

DUde,

trying to assess a chicks IL based solely on eye contact is impossible.

Mess around with her a bit, observe her reactions and behaviors towards you..if she is friendly, responsive, flirty, etc , you know she is interested.

 

[Elimidate]

You've got it backwards bro.

GIRLS FLIRT WITH GUYS!

A DJ will notice and pickup on the signals and then go in for the kill!

Elimidate

 

[IntermediateDonJuaner]

I wanna know

Do guys who flirt a lot back show that they are desperate, needy or what?

 

[strong like bull]

as stated, its the womens job to flirt and show at least subtle interest. its the mans job to take action and make something of it. i love to flirt - but ive found out the hard way that if you dont act on her "go signs," shell eventually (sometimes quickly) lose interest.

flirting is fun... but if you want it to hit the next level (dating, making out, foreplay, ****ing, etc) youve got to take action and lead the way.

/edit
in specific response to your question... id say its more about not being a man: scared/insecure, afraid to take action, etc than being desperate or needy.