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I've ENTERED One-itis

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thebestthing

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And I want out.
This girl has been a life long friend.
She's gorgeous,
but the thing that gets me every time is
her eyes.
She's the one on the left.



Help?
 
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Analyzeit

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Look at that picture longer......... haha

Nah, just try keep away from her. You'll just gradually get over her.

If you can't do that. You've just got to mentally push yourself so you don't have oneitis and just go for other girls.

It's all in your head!

But if you got a chance take her for yourself but don't let yourself get oneitis it's all in your head!
 
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Jay kay

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Yes agreed, and the hotter the girl is the more you will want to keep chasing her. So take control of your emotions and do whatever it takes to forget about her completely. If you already have her number or email, delete them both. I've been through one-itis with a couple of girls over the years, and let me tell you its not a healthy or worthwhile state of mind to be in.

Best thing you can do is go out and meet other women. its as simple as that..
 
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Yeah, it's difficult to stay away when it's almost all I want, you know?

She's been my friend all my life, since birth, and it's kinda hard to just delete her number.
Oh well, I'll go with the mental thing and try to meet other girls.
 
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If you still want to be friends with her (good friends...) then its kinda hard to get away from her.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I really don't think shes very good looking at all bud lol.
 
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I gave this advice to my buddy when he was trying to get over oneitis:


Make a list of three things that make you attracted to her. Be honest with yourself, maybe even post them here if you're comfortable. Now make another list of three things that you find unattractive about her. Since you've got oneitis, it may be hard to churn out three, but thats where your buddies come in. Talk to a really good friend of yours about this who knows her and brainstorm together. Once you've got both lists, take a good hard look at them and hopefully you'll begin to realize that this girl isn't worth having oneitis over.

Let me know how it goes
 
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Craig Reeves

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S.Y.L said:
I really don't think shes very good looking at all bud lol.
Click to expand...

lol. Dude could have put up a picture of Beyonce and y'all still would have said she was ugly...

Don't hate 'cause you can't date...
 
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Craig Reeves said:
lol. Dude could have put up a picture of Beyonce and y'all still would have said she was ugly...

Don't hate 'cause you can't date...
Click to expand...
She's gorgeous,
but the thing that gets me every time is
her eyes.

^^^

dude, he needs help, and i don't think beyonce is hot lmao
 
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Dude i know how it feels, when u get a one-its it makes u so desperate that u end up lookin lame.

So just cut her out of your life, totally block her...n know that as long as ur desperate its not gonna work....it only works when u know that u have evrything and shes the one who wants YOU... SHES THE ONE WHOS MISSIN OUT!

So put the Afc aside bro, n become a playa, BECOME THE ALPHA MALE.

__________________

"Nothing is easy to the unwilling"
 
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She went out of town to austin, Tx [we live around Houston] for about a week. I tried talking to her once and she completely ignored me.
I haven't attempted sense, and I don't plan to. Been focusing on working out and improving my own body.

As far as her looks, I know she's not the best looking girl, but our relationship [not necessarily the romantic kind] has a lot of history. I'm not going to pretend I don't find her attractive.

I showed a picture of her to a friend when he asked what was up, he ripped her to pieces. Something like "Fake tan, fake hair, bad make-up, she has a weird ass face, a manly chin and holy **** look at that adam's apple. you sure you didn't see a bulge in her pants?" It made me feel a lot better, and I think I'm on my way to getting over this crap.

Thanks for being supportive.
 
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there is a world full of ***** out there! Don't get all hung up on one girl. Keep your eyes peeled.
 
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