When I first started coming to this site and learned about "neg hits" (or "negative hits") I couldn't believe anything like that would work. Teasing/almost insulting a girl actually create attraction?? I would have never believed it years ago in my absolute AFC days, but now it comes naturally to me and works wonders.
Last night I was out with a girl (cute chick) and a crew of my friends, walking around to halloween parties. I had been teasing this girl all night, basically being as ****y and funny as I could and she was eating it up. As we were walking, this girl I'm with mentions that everyone is walking really fast and I Say, "no, your legs are just too short." A guy we are with overhears me saying this and says something like "That's a real nice thing to say" in a sarcastic tone, implying that I had just said the most wrong, rude thing possible. Then I say to both of them "well, its the truth." The girl I'm with says she knows and laughs! Then she immediately starts rubbing her hips against me is a really flirtatious way and starts laughing again. I end up at her place a little while later....
My point is this...this guy who had assumed I made a really bad comment to this girl was an absolute AFC (I've known him for a while) and he would have NEVER understood how a comment like I made could have ever created attraction. After this, I realized I really had come a long way on the path. Just wanted to share. Does anyone else have similar stories/comments?
Last night I was out with a girl (cute chick) and a crew of my friends, walking around to halloween parties. I had been teasing this girl all night, basically being as ****y and funny as I could and she was eating it up. As we were walking, this girl I'm with mentions that everyone is walking really fast and I Say, "no, your legs are just too short." A guy we are with overhears me saying this and says something like "That's a real nice thing to say" in a sarcastic tone, implying that I had just said the most wrong, rude thing possible. Then I say to both of them "well, its the truth." The girl I'm with says she knows and laughs! Then she immediately starts rubbing her hips against me is a really flirtatious way and starts laughing again. I end up at her place a little while later....
My point is this...this guy who had assumed I made a really bad comment to this girl was an absolute AFC (I've known him for a while) and he would have NEVER understood how a comment like I made could have ever created attraction. After this, I realized I really had come a long way on the path. Just wanted to share. Does anyone else have similar stories/comments?