ive been played?!

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dont kjnow how to start lol

a girl, who shows all signs of interest, many attemps of proximity, frequent hi's and intense eye contact, smile and fvck, everything!!! a 16 year old girl!!!

i ask her out with complete confidence, she say "yes", then no more than 5 min, she asks "u think im into u?", answr with "yes"...
she: uhmm, then let me tell u. i am not. i think u should think more about it, be better if u dont be confused.

SHE !!! showed all the signs of interest and fvcking more !!! what the fvck?!!! even came to me and sat beside me !!

what was that?!

do they play games like this? is ths even frequent?

"whats the worse that could happen?" this is the worst that can happen Luscious, it fvcking hurts. lol. dont think im going to trust u guys anymore. only got rejections until now. this is the worst of all. not chasing girls anymore, tired of all this.
 
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Though your post is somewhat unclear, I gather that you asked her out and she said yes? Then she says that she isn't interested in you? If I were you, I'd tell that ***** to stop her silly games and find some other man, because I do not play like that. It doesn't seem like a usual occurance either, never had it happen to me before.
 

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No, you've dealt with an unworthy.
 

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If that happened to me, the girl would not hear from me again.

Simply not worth a squirt of piss.
 

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Originally posted by Kidd
If that happened to me, the girl would not hear from me again.

Simply not worth a squirt of piss.
What he said.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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Originally posted by Mizael
a girl, who shows all signs of interest, many attemps of proximity, frequent hi's and intense eye contact, smile and fvck, everything!!! a 16 year old girl!!!

i ask her out with complete confidence, she say "yes", then no more than 5 min, she asks "u think im into u?", answr with "yes"...
she: uhmm, then let me tell u. i am not. i think u should think more about it, be better if u dont be confused.

SHE !!! showed all the signs of interest and fvcking more !!! what the fvck?!!! even came to me and sat beside me !!

"whats the worse that could happen?" this is the worst that can happen Luscious, it fvcking hurts. lol. dont think im going to trust u guys anymore. only got rejections until now. this is the worst of all. not chasing girls anymore, tired of all this.
So let's get this straight. You're 17, and a 16 year old girl came and sat next to you. You then proceeded to ask her out on a date, to which she replied "Yes". Not but 5 minutes passed before she changed her mind about it - and this has convinced you that you shouldn't listen to anyone on this board ever again... because in the past, the only thing you got were rejections. Of course, as we all know, rejections are so much better than getting affirmations, however brief. :rolleyes: You're right - don't listen to us... you might end up not getting rejected by a girl and it lasting for more than just 5 minutes.

By the way, have you given any thought to what it was you said or did in the 5 minutes between when you asked her out on a date and when she decided to cancel that date? Something had to have changed.. perhaps after 5 minutes of conversation she came to the conclusion you were mentally unbalanced or something else?
 

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have fun being mediocre.
 

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Re: Re: ive been played?!

Originally posted by diablo
By the way, have you given any thought to what it was you said or did in the 5 minutes between when you asked her out on a date and when she decided to cancel that date? Something had to have changed.. perhaps after 5 minutes of conversation she came to the conclusion you were mentally unbalanced or something else?
yes i did. asked her where she was going in the holidays, she says she will travell. right after that she said what was worte up there.

frankly im good looking, good shape. not retarded. but ive tryed so hard. read the bible day and night, practiced it for months... done me good. but not with girls. i approach, but only get rejection. its not only 10 or 15 rejections, but so many htat i cant remember. it has taken me to think whats wrong, but i just cant find the reason.

im so pissed off, maybe htats why i wrote the insult :( sorry
 

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Re: Re: Re: ive been played?!

Originally posted by Mizael
yes i did. asked her where she was going in the holidays, she says she will travell. right after that she said what was worte up there.

frankly im good looking, good shape. not retarded. but ive tryed so hard. read the bible day and night, practiced it for months... done me good. but not with girls. i approach, but only get rejection. its not only 10 or 15 rejections, but so many htat i cant remember. it has taken me to think whats wrong, but i just cant find the reason.

im so pissed off, maybe htats why i wrote the insult :( sorry
Dont think about whats wrong, or you'll just keep getting flustured trying to make sure you dont make any mistakes. You know what you should and shouldn't do, so just get in there and relax and let the game flow. Its something I learned bout 2 months ago and it has made a world of difference. Oh and the ***** can shove it up her ass...
 

Channel your excited feelings into positive thoughts and behaviors. You will attract women by being enthusiastic, radiating energy, and becoming someone who is fun to be around.

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If you're afraid of being rejected, you will fail.

Dating is a numbers game. For every acceptance, there will be a number of rejections. Plain and simple. Just remember that each rejection is only putting you closer to your goal. The more times you're rejected, the easier it becomes to handle it. Soon, you'll no longer be afraid of rejection, and then, you will begin to succeed beyond your wildest dreams.

It gets easier every day.
 

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This ***** DESERVES to be NEXTed. Get rid of her. Come on. Just tell her that she's not cool enough to be with you. That'll put her in her place.
 

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as said before it isnt really clear, but i think that you should've known this girl more (if u dont already), and did something else before you ask for a date. If i were you and she asked me if i thought she was intersted in me, i'd say "i donno are you"? she'd probably say no again, and id probz ask the same question and burn her.

MAYBE you couldve started some kino?

Otherwise, if you didnt do anything wrong, this girl is a slut i tell ya.

But cheer up, theres only like 1 of these kind of girls out of 1mil.

Also, if i did what you did, and she said no, i wouldve just walked away like leaving her. [Without even listening to what she has to say after the no]
 

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i dont think you got played as much as she is a stupid bltch. she probably just found another guy or some ****.
 
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