This is pretty sweet. We have two or three, or even four topics occuring simultaneously in the same thread. That's what I'm talking about!
C: I agree that the people down here are dumb as ****. They also dont know how to drive. I honestly dont know what theyre talking about half of the time, because in the north, I'm from the "city belt" (inbetween 5 major cities), and all they talk about up there is stupid ****. IE, gossip, criticism, who's hot, rap music, getting laid, parties, trashy women, who ****ed who, sexual conquests, fashion sense, competitive drive (WHY ARE YOU WEARING SOCKS WITH SANDLES? HA HA. I'M SO BETTER THAN YOU.), etc.
I'm not used to all of this normal, decent, respectful, humanly behavior. They say I'm mean down here - like I hate everyone, and dont have any manners or class. Which is true. The people over here actually intimidate me with their genuine nature; I dont know how to act around them. Theyre always nice; talking about normal stuff, being polite. Whereas, I'm always angry, avoiding everyone, insulting others, arguing with everyone, being sarcastic, cussing constantly. Which, from where I'm from, is considered normal. I was actually considered nice and weak up north. Down here, they act like I'm ****ing Satan. Thats how different it is.
In regards to the women - they arent into players or bad boy types at all. Nor are they this way themselves. Up north, there were bars, parties, clubs, drinking, getting high, and ****ing each other constantly. This resulted in a lot of dysfunctional families, broken homes, and worthless, irresponsible, immature, bad people. The girls were some of the worst. Not kind at all. No one cared about what they did or said - as it affected other people. Many of them were so insecure, crazy, and of low self-esteem that they didnt give a **** about anything.
This was the norm for society in that area. So, you'd have people screaming from their cars, bullying each other, insulting others, being mean, rude, and disrespectful... They werent actually tough - nor did they ever fight. They just talked a lot of ****, caused drama, made threats, and back-stabbed each other constantly. It was ****ing stupid, and occured EVERYWHERE. Wanna be bad boys, douche bags, alcoholics, fake celebrity types pretty much ruled the scene. Women were into this stuff, because they were no better.
It was very corruptive, and all the nice people either became bad, or were miserable. Lots of *****ing, hating, etc, amongst those caught in the crossfire. Many of them eventually said "**** it", and turned into worthless retards themselves. This was every day life in that environment. It was chaos, really. Very active street life.
It wasnt dangerous, criminal, gang, or drug-active bad, though. Just a bunch of spoiled, middle class, immature retards. There was no real danger or threat, but everyone acted like they were some kind of badass. They were mostly all white, as well.
None of this is happening down here. At all. On any level. All those bars are replaced with churches. People actually know who their families are, and hang out with them until they're like 45 years old. The people arent snotty, stuck up, or rude. And so on. Very pleasant, peaceful, relaxed, and friendly. No one ever does anything, but **** if I care. Better than a bunch of clowns screaming, blasting their music, talking ****, causing drama, etc. Those are the real idiots.
Women wise: they arent interested in just ****ing, and will reject you for wanting that. Theuy also get turned off by mean, ****y, selfish, aggressive behavior. It doesnt register with them, because its not how they are. Ive witnessed several acquaintances get rejected for these reasons, and the people I initially came down here to visit moved back up north, because they couldnt attract **** for women with their bad boy bull****. It isnt appealing to them. But all the immature, low self-esteem, fake skanks and *****es lap it up there.
Theyre mostly interested in relationships and marriages down here, but they fit the bill themselves. Theyre polite, caring, quiet, reserved, not obnoxious, etc. They also dress classy, act like humans, etc.
Just the other day, as an example, two young, reasonably attractive girls were at the pizza place. I asked if they were in line, and they said "oh no, you can go ahead", and immediately moved out of the way. I dropped my receipt, and they said "sir, you dropped your receipt". A little banter went on between them - something about "I'm just trying to be helpful". I got my food, and the same girl opened the door to let me out. I said "thanks", and she said, "mmhmm, have a nice day". Smiles and all.
This **** NEVER happens up north, where I was before. But its constant here - for no reason. Just the way they are. She didnt work there, either. Young girls are ****ing ****s up north. Nothing like this. If their friends are around - theyre even worse. They act like men, but not gentlemen. More like cavemen. Theyre just as shallow, rude, obnoxious, unfriendly, and for themselves as the men are. They only put on their fake charm and ACT nice when they want something, but theyre just *****es. They objectify people, and treat them like crap.
I attracted probably MORE women up north, but still hated it. They just wanted ****, drama, *****ing, etc. Dating was ****. The wome were ****. Them finding you attractive changed nothing.
Hate 'em all. Never going back.