I've become a Misogynist

[AAAgent]

Born and raised in Philly/Jersey and now i live and work in New York. This is what i've grown up in so that's not my problem.

I live with 3 girls right now but i fvcking hate it. Hearing them gossip everynight drives me insane. On of the girls basically stalks the sh1t out of me and professed her love to me a few weeks ago in a very CRAZY way. I posted about it in my Approach Journal. I told the b1tch to leave me alone so many times and even talked to her 4 times to try to help her get her sh1t off her chest. B1tches just be crazy and i thinking about getting a restraining order when i move out.

 

[synergy1]

Forgot to add... The people up north, in my area, also think they know everything, speak for everyone, and that their opinion is always right. If a guy sees you get rejected ONCE, he'll come to the conclusion that you're ugly, and cant attract anyone in the history of the world. Ever. Or even through HIS view of what he THINKS women find attractive. On the same token, he'll brag about himself - even though he cant attract ****. You could have all these girls around you, and this jackass will talk **** non-stop. Always reminding you of how ugly you are, because he said so. And its always from his own worthless opinion. But he's so sexy - even though he looks like a retarded ogre with the voice of a deranged girly man.

Theyre just very aggressive, and always on the offensive, to bring others down - while simultaneously bringing themselves up in comparison. They see only what they want to see, focus on everyone else to avoid their own flaws, have excuses for everything they cant achieve (but youre just ugly and stupid), always competing with you in their "opinions"... And its all black and white..."Never, impossible, no, cant be"... I hate those ****ing people.

But even as they were talking all this **** - I had more success than they ever will. Goes to show what they know, or how much their opinion matters.

People who have the most to say often have the least to offer. I have noticed this trait amongst my social group as well; people who talk up a big game usually are insecure, and can't really back anything up. One might also speculate that they lie to themselves - but as I have mentioned before, this is normal for most men.

Or more precisely, "big hat, no cattle".

I tend to ignore people who talk a lot about how great they are.

 

[JohnChops]

Damn Floyd your making the south sound very promising for after I finish my undergrad. I can't stay up here any longer. But AAAgent why do you live with 3 girls if it annoys you? Move?

 

[Purefilth]

Born and raised in Philly/Jersey and now i live and work in New York. This is what i've grown up in so that's not my problem.

I live with 3 girls right now but i fvcking hate it. Hearing them gossip everynight drives me insane. On of the girls basically stalks the sh1t out of me and professed her love to me a few weeks ago in a very CRAZY way. I posted about it in my Approach Journal. I told the b1tch to leave me alone so many times and even talked to her 4 times to try to help her get her sh1t off her chest. B1tches just be crazy and i thinking about getting a restraining order when i move out.

:crackup: that talking will only have strengthened that "connection" she feels, she's a female AFC:crackup:

 

[Kbomb]

We all play the game. You call yourself a misogynist but in reality you hate the truth. You believe yourself above and exempt from the moral degradation that you despise. If you are truly honest with yourself, you will see that this same decrepitude exists within yourself. You might not have had the opportunity or circumstance to see it come to light, but I have no doubt that you will. This life is neither easy nor for the faint of heart.

Women live in this reality much more fiercely because they have no choice. They are ones who raise children by and large and can ill-afford to make a mistake in judging their options, because the fate of their children's lives hangs in the balance. While this does not excuse their barbarity, it does shed some light on it. Women are finicky and will act in bizarre and seemingly psychotic ways because they have not learned to control their emotions.

Hate it all you want, but they actually have the fortitude to eschew moral platitudes in favor of embracing the dizzying and awful brutality of life.

 

[AAAgent]

:crackup: that talking will only have strengthened that "connection" she feels, she's a female AFC:crackup:

I was given no choice. The b1tch sent me an email saying she wanted to talk and throw me a special good bye party when i was initially supposed to leave. I said no thanks. Every single time she kept insisting and saying sh1t like please don't say no. till it got to the point where it sounded like she might try to corner me or some sh1t. So i gave her 10 minutes at starbucks in a public place. She wanted to do lunch then and there but i said no and was busy. That was back in july/august. Now apparently she said that 10 minutes wasn't enough in this new book she wrote me by text.

I have no clue wth KBOMB is talking about but South sounds like a decent place. It just isn't the place I want to be now as NYC is the best place to jump around from jobs and make more money/move up the chain.

 

[Kbomb]

I was given no choice. The b1tch sent me an email saying she wanted to talk and throw me a special good bye party when i was initially supposed to leave. I said no thanks. Every single time she kept insisting and saying sh1t like please don't say no. till it got to the point where it sounded like she might try to corner me or some sh1t. So i gave her 10 minutes at starbucks in a public place. She wanted to do lunch then and there but i said no and was busy. That was back in july/august. Now apparently she said that 10 minutes wasn't enough in this new book she wrote me by text.

I have no clue wth KBOMB is talking about but South sounds like a decent place. It just isn't the place I want to be now as NYC is the best place to jump around from jobs and make more money/move up the chain.

Look dude, you hate women because you feel morally superior to them. You aren't, as much as you would like to think you are. You are most likely blind to the bad things that you do just as much as the women you hate. They also have justifications in their head that assuage their egos and prevent their self-esteems from crashing through the floor.

You are using your moral superiority to prop up your ego because you need to be the hero. You aren't and life doesn't give a **** about heroes. This obviously is something you will deny but I think that's part of the whole being blind to yourself thing.

I'm not excusing ****ty women, i'm just pointing out the truth as I see it.

 

[floydb25]

One thing I learned is that life isn't fair, and sacrifices have to be made to better yourself, and get what you want. So, while the people down here are awesome, they're not very social, out-going, exciting, etc. They also dont wear flashy clothing, dress like skanks, arent aggressive or sexual, etc. The jobs are also very scarce, and dont pay **** compared to the north. People mostly stick to themselves, their families, close friends, and get married.

I think a lot of people only THINK they want different and better, but theyre talking about the status quo. They want a high paying job, flashy / exciting lifestyle, hot / wild / sexual women, cool / out-going friends, parties, clubs, drinking, and all these things - while also living a friendly environment with good-hearted, kind, genuine people, faithful women, loyal friends, etc. Doesnt work that way. Standards must be lowered, and genuine change HAS to be desired. You cant have it all.

Not a lot of people are interested in genuine change. They want hot girls to be nice, cool guys to be loyal, the party / club scene to be pleasant and friendly. Not happening.

Down here, there's a lot of plain folks. No excitement. Not much dating around. Not a big social scene at all. Not much noise or action. Not many truly "hot" girls. A lot of those southern belle women things. Churches are EVERYWHERE. A lot of religious people. Its a lot different. A complete 180 from what I'm used to. Not many people want such a genuine, drastic change.

And the pay sucks. All the businesses and corporations are up north. Not even much in the way of industrial work down here.

But its all worth it to me. Your degree might vary.

 

[C-quenced]

This isn't what I've experienced at all in the south. I been living in Florida for a decade (from New York state) and to be honest with you my stay in Florida has been miserable to say the least. I'm truly disgusted by it's existence. This barely habitable faggot peninsula would be better off incinerated and under a mushroom cloud. Someone needs to do this country and the world a favor and just wipe the ****ing thing off the map.

The people out in Florida are naturally miserable, severely lack personality, don't know the first ****ing thing about having a sense of humor, have no enjoyment or excitement for life, and are just flat out low IQ, drug addicted retards. There is a tendency for southern folks to pretend to be your friend but many times they're just fakes and two faced people that think they're outsmarting you by doing sneaky things behind your back. It's so common that you can say these acts of cowardice is just part of the southern culture. There's no other way around it.

The women on the other hand. I don't find them much different then the northern ones personally. They're as bad as society permits them to be. Matter of fact I find the southern ones to be much sluttier, and I'm not saying it like it's a bad thing But rest assured this place is even more ****ed up in it's own way in regards to women.

I can almost understand how the group think came about regarding the north being a certain way and the south being so much better and friendlier. I lived in New York City most of my life (no I'm not a New York native) and I can say it's easily one of the best times I've had in my life, and while I have met my share of psycho's, I have always found a good portion of the population to be highly intelligent, highly diverse, creative, full of life, genuinely friendly, fun as hell and energetic. It's an energy you won't find elsewhere. Now the neighboring states and cities like New Jersey, Pennsylvania, Massachusetts and other New England states I can come to agreement with all the frustrations many are expressing here. I find NJ to be New York's unwanted little sister and Jersey acts in accordance. Bostonians are on the other hand aggressive sociopaths and I could keep going.

The point I'm trying to make is to please not make the mistake of assuming the south is a paradise and things will be so much better when you escape the northern states. My experience has shown otherwise and I actually made plenty of unsuccessful efforts to try and like this place. I'm now making the effort to get the hell out and let this place annihilate itself like it was inevitably destined to do.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Any Misogynist on here in SS and have you guys tried to overcome this?

I don't think you are being a misogynist. In fact, "misogyny" is one of those vaguely-defined, ultimately meaningless terms invented by feminists to shame men who try to hold women accountable for their bad behavior.

Your experience is more accurately described as alienation from modern inter-gender dynamics. You are repulsed by the way many modern females behave, so you choose to withdraw rather than accept. It's a pretty normal reaction, which shows that you are not willing to compromise on your principles. This is nothing to be ashamed of.

 

[st_99]

imo its actually impossible to be a misogynst because adverse female behavior is simply a manifistation of beta men conditioning them to act retarted. in other words, men created this monster.

Females are naturally the weaker of the sexes, they are made to submit, to follow, to morph and take on the mans values and what not.

So when you say you hate women, who you really hate is the douchebag men (ill admit, that was me) that enable stupid behavior.

this is all philosphical of course as I play plato on the internet.

 

[C-quenced]

I don't think you are being a misogynist. In fact, "misogyny" is one of those vaguely-defined, ultimately meaningless terms invented by feminists to shame men who try to hold women accountable for their bad behavior.

Your experience is more accurately described as alienation from modern inter-gender dynamics. You are repulsed by the way many modern females behave, so you choose to withdraw rather than accept. It's a pretty normal reaction, which shows that you are not willing to compromise on your principles. This is nothing to be ashamed of.

To steer the conversation back to it's intended topic (I apologize for getting carried away) I have to say I'm in total agreement with this. It's very unfortunate to see a society that is far too short sighted to see it for what it is.

 

[Packers2010]

what do you want though? women are creatures of EMOTION they live in the present.

 

[spang]

its true most people are more friendly here in the south, but the thing is most women here are the redneck/cowgirl types. they like the country a$$ dudes with huge jacked up trucks and big belt buckles... the real "badass" cowboy types. you know the ones who get drunk and beat the shiat outta their girlfriend/wife. usually the ones with money. same crap applies.

im not that type and not much into that stuff so that limited me here. it depends on where you are. i live in a rural area but i drive to school in the city...when you are there its an urban area and people act very different. in urban areas people are less kind. makes approaching women even worse.
i have never been to new york but i imagine i would hate it.
some women here are raised in more conservative households and dont have this feminism crap in their head. they actually respect people. but this is becoming wayyyy harder to find.

 

[Darth]

these Midwestern rust belt guys are the biggest pu$$ies you'll ever meet. I was shocked when I met some of them and got exactly the "treatment" you described.

In my opinion they're worse than northeasterners who are at least up front about it. No one ever stabbed me in the back.

You are so right about this. I hail from the northeast- we busted each other's balls all the time and gave each other a bunch of sh!t, but underneath it all those guys were softies and they had good hearts.

Now I'm in Ohio and these guys act so tough, but they are such pu$$ies and they think they are better than you when they talk behind your back. What they don't realize is that to guys from other parts of the country, that doesn't make us feel bad about ourselves- it just makes them look pathetic that they can't say anything to my face. As long as they can live with themselves....

EDIT: Another thing about Ohio is that I have never seen such a bunch of followers with a lack of ambition or boring personalities anywhere in my life. It is like they are trained to be AFC from birth. Everybody conforms or else they are ridiculed. what a pathetic culture. Sorry, I just really think the place sucks

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Misogyny exists in China, India and some Middle Eastern countries like Saudi Arabia. That's about it.

There is no such thing as misogyny in north america and europe for the most part.

"Misogyny" and countries like Canada/USA where:

1) Women have first dibs on jobs versus an equally qualified males due to "affirmative action" type programs. This trend is simply socially justified discrimination and nobody bats an eye. Incredible.

2) Women are shown as the level-headed ones in virtually every media outlet, while the man is a bumbling idiot (funny how men are stupid, yet virtually every scientific discovery and invention were made by men)

3) You always hear "behind every great man is a better woman", but you never hear the reverse. And you never hear about the serial killers and war mongers like Adolph Hitler who had "better women" like Eva Brown cheering them on to murder. Of course women are never responsible in participating in anything evil or unsettling right?

4) Although prostate cancer kills as many men as breast cancer kills women proportionally speaking, research and funding for breast cancer blows prostate cancer out of the water. Who cares about men anyway right? Let them die.

5) Women are encouraged to take on typically male dominated careers like engineering with incentives like female-only scholarships. The idea is somehow, by some magic, "diversity" in the gender mix will make the field of engineering stronger. Oh really? Then why are men not encouraged to become nurses and teachers with special incentives? Those are female dominated professions. Why is it only better when women join a male dominated profession, but the topic of diversity becomes a moot point when it is the male gender being added to the mix? Because women are better than men. That is the message that socially is selling.

6) There are nearly 3 times as many women's shelter's as men's shelters. Yes, women are more likely to suffer physical abuse. But when there are about 5 homeless men for every homeless woman, you begin to wonder if funding is a little biased.....

7) If a woman cheats on you and carries someone else's baby, you better hope that you didn't sign the birth certificate. Even if you can prove with a DNA test that the baby isn't yours, prepare to pay several years of child support or jail time until you can finally clear your name. Remember, DNA is only relevant when the court ORDERS a DNA test. You can't just walk up to a court and say "Here! Look! I'm not the father!". The DNA test is not admissible if the court did not order it. Remember that. And courts virtually always side with women. That's the bottom line. Tell your friends.

I could go on and on and on.

The reality is, that at least in North America and Europe, these days it is a Utopia for women.

Anyone referring to our society as "misogynist" is most likely a man-hating feminist who needs to take a coach class flight to Saudi Arabia or India. Then they will learn what misogyny truly is like and shut up.

 

[( . )( . )]

I don't think you are being a misogynist. In fact, "misogyny" is one of those vaguely-defined, ultimately meaningless terms invented by feminists to shame men who try to hold women accountable for their bad behavior.

Your experience is more accurately described as alienation from modern inter-gender dynamics. You are repulsed by the way many modern females behave, so you choose to withdraw rather than accept. It's a pretty normal reaction, which shows that you are not willing to compromise on your principles. This is nothing to be ashamed of.

Winner

You can pretty much add "misogynist" to all those other throwaway fem-centric meaningless words now.

* I have a stalker (Some ugly guy may or may not have dared to hold eye contact, see how much I'm desired)

* I have a career ( 9to5 cubicle drone in HR is now a "career")

* I was raped (without broken bones or bruises? Of course)

* I have a degree ( in sociology)

* She's independant and empowered ( She's got a job and rides the carousel)

* He's a commitment phobe ( I'm a modern woman with nothing to offer but my slogged out clunge )

* Your a misogynist ( Another one who's figured me out. I wonder if he's interested? )

 

[spang]

Misogyny exists in China, India and some Middle Eastern countries like Saudi Arabia. That's about it.

There is no such thing as misogyny in north america and europe for the most part.

The reality is, that at least in North America and Europe, these days it is a Utopia for women.

Anyone referring to our society as "misogynist" is most likely a man-hating feminist who needs to take a coach class flight to Saudi Arabia or India. Then they will learn what misogyny truly is like and shut up.

countries like that must keep their women down for a reason. perhaps in ancient times they realized that women were not men, not fit to be leaders or make decisions in society. they were only fit to take care of children and cook. in the old days women had no say in anything, they did as their husband/lord told them.
i understand its partly to do with religious reasons. even in the english bible it says women are not to have any say in church or the home.
not saying i believe in all that, but there must be a reason for their misogyny. todays world is very different though.

 

[C-quenced]

You are so right about this. I hail from the northeast- we busted each other's balls all the time and gave each other a bunch of sh!t, but underneath it all those guys were softies and they had good hearts.

Now I'm in Ohio and these guys act so tough, but they are such pu$$ies and they think they are better than you when they talk behind your back. What they don't realize is that to guys from other parts of the country, that doesn't make us feel bad about ourselves- it just makes them look pathetic that they can't say anything to my face. As long as they can live with themselves....

EDIT: Another thing about Ohio is that I have never seen such a bunch of followers with a lack of ambition or boring personalities anywhere in my life. It is like they are trained to be AFC from birth. Everybody conforms or else they are ridiculed. what a pathetic culture. Sorry, I just really think the place sucks

Sounds like Florida and the rest of the southeast. Lets try to stay on topic though.

 

[floydb25]

Anti-south man: We'll just have to agree to disagree. Not a lot of what you say is accurate - for this area, at least. I guess it depends on where you live. Oh well. I love it here.