It seems to me that from your perspective, the division between what is rational and what isn't is unclear.
Yes, it is unclear. And, yes, the model makes no distinctions between what is rational and what is irrational. It takes them, what everthey maybe as given.
The entire model is based on only one rational behavior. That women attempt to satisfy their wants. It does not proclaim to predict how or why women do what they do.
What's rational to her may be irrational to us.
Agreed.
Much of economics is about explaining human behavior, but when we cannot discern a certain type of behavior as rational or not, that framework you've tried to ["understand the magnitude at which women value what the value."] is useless bc its inacurate to what the real world tells us.[I/]
I have made one assumption about rational behavior as stated above. The rest of the model is based on this assumed foudation but the assumptioin is very generic. Please post another example of where I assumed a behavior to be rational.
This may sound logical & good, but it isn't absolute. This is the case of maximizing one's happyness for a certain thing or person. In economics, maximizing behavior is not always possible and not always attainable given certain constraints, and even if maximizing one's happyness is possible, a person may not do it.
I have to disagree here once more. Maximizing behavior IS always possible in economics. What the outcome of this behavior is does depend on constraints. But take any set of constraints, and there is always a maximizing behavior given those constraints. Now agents might not know what 'the' maximizing behavior is, but they will in their mind attempt to preform this behavior what ever it may be based on their knowledge, their nature, the constrainsts, and their knowledge of the constraints.
(Refer to the ditch example below.)
You said that ["If a woman likes you she will persue you with great magnitude and force!!! How she will persue you God only knows!!!"], this seems very plausible, if she does persue with great magnitude & force, hence maximizing her happiness, then your constant holds, but what if she doesn't? Your argument might be, well she doesn't like the guy enough to persue him with such tenacity.
Exactly. However I would say "attempting to maximize her happiness." And if she doens't then we go back to the equation: how much someone wants what you have=how much they will work/give/tade for it.
Look at it this way, lets assume that she likes him enough, but she faces many constraints that hinder her from persuing with such force.
Ok, I need to make a clear distinction here. When I'm talking about great force I should have said great force in terms of herself. Which means great effort.
The amount of effort one is capable of putting out is not directly effected by any constraints.
It is like saying there are two men that want to dig a ditch. One has a backhoe and one has a shovel. They have diffrent constrains but each can put forth the same ammount of effort.