It's the Holidays - STOP PICKING UP WOMEN

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Man, this thread almost comes off as superstitious. "Don't go for anyone during this time! Mars is in retrograde so that means its a bad time to pick up women!"

Also...would like to point out that not everyone celebrates Christmas.
 

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It's New Year's Eve! Time to (start) picking up women (again)!

But seriously, women are more down on NYE than even Halloween because of that ticking time bomb. No one wants to be alone come midnight.

Happy hunting y'all.
 

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Just thought I would add this is terrible advice. Hope nobody actually took it to heart. You can meet lots of new girls at parties and clubs during this time.
 

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Better avoid picking up women for Valentine's Day because that is a holiday. They might have a new toilet to install or something.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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This thread is ridiculous!!

The OP is doing a terrible job of trying to get his wrong point across.....because he is just making up "what ifs" to support his "argument".....you can't do that!!

As a DJ, you should never just stop picking up women for any reason.....no matter the time of day, year, or event you are at....if you have a chance of getting the job done....then you do it.....everything is else is just being apprehensive, passive, and being weak with a beta mind set.

Are you going to set up a date on Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, New Years Eve, or New Years Day? No...of course not....That is just common sense!!

There is no reason why you can't meet new women or get new numbers during the Holiday Season.....of course chicks are going to want to meet you if they think you are hot....are they just going to go on a "2 week hiatus" from meeting guys because of the Holidays? LOL....C'mon man...get with it!!

Not everybody has the luxury of having a nice little 2 week vacation during the Holidays....most people have a Christmas, and then they are back at work the very next day or two days after it is over....they go right back to their everyday lives after Christmas Day is over.....they don't take two weeks off to hibernate from their everyday lives.

A lot of chicks dump their boyfriends around this time of year to start the new year off fresh....they want to go out and have fun .....they want the old relationship over... they want to start the new year off with a bang......and if you're smart, you would be banging them instead of circling your calendar and waiting for Jan 2 like an idiot.

The end of the year is a time for chicks to have fun and to be in the party mode....this is the time of year when chicks are the most receptive to hooking up.....they are out drinking and want to have a good time...so why the hell would you not want to take advantage of that?

Chicks don't like being alone during the end of the year....especially if their girlfriends have a guy....they want one too....they also want a New Years kiss....again, the perfect time to get with a chick because they are the most open to making out and having sex.

Do you honestly think a chick is going to be spending a lonely night at home measuring drapes or doing home renovations when she can be riding a hard c@ck? if you think that, then you are nuts!!

When a chick has interest and attraction, she will make time for you, regardless of what time of the year it is.

Christmas Eve and Day is the time for family and friends.....but from the 27th on....chicks are gearing up to have fun for the New Year.....they are in party mode...you should take advantage of that!!

A lot of chicks don't even have great plans around this time of year....they just tag along with friends so they are not alone....so if they meet a guy who they like....they will be more than willing to go out and have fun...because that is what this time of year is supposed to be.....fun!!

So, don't miss out on any opportunities that you might have just because someone tells you "not to do something" .....that is just being ignorant and stupid.

This is terrible advice, and more than one poster has agreed that it is as well

Go out, hook up, and have fun.....don't wait until Jan 2 like an idiot because all the fun will be over!!
 
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OP is right. From late November to end of December is pretty tough to go out on dates on women you picked up or met online. I met three girls before Thanksgiving and I'm yet to go out on a date with any of them! My busy schedule (school and work) and the fact that they have busy schedules as well. When school is out, they're going home which is out of state so we aren't meeting up till next year guaranteed.

You can still approach and pick up women at this time but nailing a date will be pretty tough unless you happen to have all the free time in the world and she has a lot of free time as well.

My advice is to get phone numbers and wait till next year or just wait till next year before picking up numbers. Just don't expect too many dates around this time.
 
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I actually just came back from LA for my first time out there. Let me say this - the options out there are infinite. If I was living out there, I would be taking a break just out of principal. However you have to consider that for many of us in areas not like LA ( neither the quality or the quantity), you really have to keep your eyes open. I usually seem to do my best work around these last two weeks because sometimes you can meet some different women at different parties.
 

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The week between Xmas and new years is so depressing.

Then all of a sudden on NYE, bam everyone is in fierce party mode!

I'd say save it for the new year and focus on friends and family. Not a lot of prospects these next two weeks. I'm going to work out a lot and try to set good base for 2014.
 

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DonGorgon said:
after xmas the cheating and dumping goes into full swing an the hos start hoping heavy
^^^This

Is the real truth! Period.

Spot on man!

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And about all this crap, I could not care less. Living in Brazil it is basically always summer, and this specific time of the year it is summer indeed.

There ain't no better time to hook up with girls than in summer, and that is a fact! So f*ck all that! I'm going to the beach!
 

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Lotus Effect said:
^^^This

Is the real truth! Period.

Spot on man!

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And about all this crap, I could not care less. Living in Brazil it is basically always summer, and this specific time of the year it is summer indeed.

There ain't no better time to hook up with girls than in summer, and that is a fact! So f*ck all that! I'm going to the beach!

lol Brazil.
My friend said "chicks in Brazil have sex for breakfast". if that's true I'm getting on a plane!
 

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WOW, funny to see this up on the post heap a year later! I just did a podcast show about NOT starting relationships during the holidays, which you can listen to HERE.

I will say this, though: at the end of the day, I'm an odds maker. So, while you can, in fact, go out there and try to meet women and start dating them during this time of year, if we're looking at this from a "Vegas odds" perspective, the odds of you being able to make a relationship with a newbie work is more successful during any other part of the year BUT the holiday season. I went into this in my original post as well as the podcast so I won't repeat myself here, but situationally it's just a horrible time of year to start dating new girls, or expecting them to respond to you as well as they would once the holidays are over. Have two people, in the history of forever, been able to meet during the holidays and have it work out? Of course! But again, if we're looking at odds, it's less than likely to happen, and/or more likely to happen AFTER the holidays are over.

But hey - try it at your own risk!

-Harry Wilmington
 

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Well my night last night officially proved Harry Wilmington wrong. I went out with an HB 8 latina with fake tits (they look really good tho). We had been texting back and forth for two weeks, and in fact she flaked on me a week ago but I hung in there. She was talking about how she attracts "jerks" and wanted someone different. Overall we had a really great night…she came over to my place afterwards and BANG.
 

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skinnyguy said:
Well my night last night officially proved Harry Wilmington wrong. I went out with an HB 8 latina with fake tits (they look really good tho). We had been texting back and forth for two weeks, and in fact she flaked on me a week ago but I hung in there. She was talking about how she attracts "jerks" and wanted someone different. Overall we had a really great night…she came over to my place afterwards and BANG.
Damn way to GO skinnydude! Latinas can be a fvckin blast, watch out for the nasty side tho. Now forget about her for a couple days & go get you another plate! :up:
 

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Harry's advice is for the guys wondering why the hell some broad isn't rushing to go on dates with them.
If you get laid on the holidays, good for you! But if some chick is acting flakey, apart from the fact she just isn't interested, she probably has other shyt on her mind.
 
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