A $100,000 salary means nothing in a bigger city now. That won't attract women.
$150,000-$175,000 might start to impress some women, but I think it's getting to the point where men are needing a $200,000 annual salary to start to impress women with their money/lifestyle.
200k is the entry level for which you say that you are doing decent from a money/career perspective
The rule of thumb is like 2 times the average salary in that city, as a starting point
if you do 5-6 times the average salary in that city is the starting point of being rich
if you do less than 2 times the average salary in that city and you think that you can impress women with your money then it means that you are delusional
for example in London the average salary is 3.2k per month ( that is like 50k a year more or less ). Starting 100k a year you can say that you do alright there ( which is like 6k )
starting 250k ( which is like 11-12k a month ) ,that is the starting point of securing an entry level position for Being “rich” or better a guy that does quite well financially
100k is like a middle manager position ( senior manager / head of in a big organization )
200-250k is like a director salary in a big organization
and most importantly to spend at those levels
if you are less than 200k in London it should be no surprise that women are not impressed about your financial power