Also, I think this is a very important point of view: Do you see anything like a "transaction" in human interactions?
For example, a person asks you for a favor. You grant that favor, and now this person owes you a favor in return.
This favor can be anything—help with a problem, assistance, money, etc.
Does this mean that we should view every human interaction, both our own and those directed toward us, as a transaction? Toward our kids, family, partner, friends, etc? Will this keep us genuine in the meanwhile?
In this case, we might be thinking of life as a "business of ourselves" rather than living freely based on kindness and solving problems for others.
What do you think? Sorry if I've explained this poorly, please add your POV.