Most men live boring lives... A fun Social life makes it very easy to meet women. It's not about partying but putting yourself out there
I agree with the idea that most men live boring lives. These boring lives are not designed well for meeting women.
Plenty of men lose themselves with a lot of hours spent playing video games, randomly on the internet, and possibly using internet porn.
Most men work some sort of mediocre at best job. As a white collar professional, I've seen plenty of boring white collar men and I know there are plenty of boring white collar men. Besides boring white collar men, there are also plenty of boring men with blue collar jobs or with McJobs.
A common activity for many men is going to the gym. Going to the gym is generally good and I recommend men do it. However, few men meet women at the gym. Most men are invisible to most women on the general gym floor. Most women are wearing earbuds/headphones at the gym and not giving off good body language. A woman wearing earbuds might notice a 6'0"+, fit/muscular guy but that's about it. The majority of men will go unnoticed at the gym. While fitness classes (either at a gym or a standalone brand facility) offer better ratios and a solution to the earbud problem, most women are not sociable after classes even without their earbuds in place.
Most single men's lives are about their work, watching internet porn/mbating, watching spectator sports, and maybe a sausage fest type hobby. They are also using swipe apps and/or sending DMs. That's not a great life for meeting women and there's also not a lot to talk about with women on dates if they can arrange dates.