If I had a daughter, I would let her
date anybody she wants to date.
Black, Asian, Caucasian, Latino, Indian, Mid Easterners, you name it. As long as the guy is a great person, successful with his life, doesn't do drugs, isn't a thug, educated, ambitious, did I mention being successful?... Guess you get the picture.
Racism sucks!
But again, I can understand many parents not wanting their daughters to date "stereotypical" black guys. Like the kind that's like "yeah, I'm tough, I'm ghetto, I'm thug, I dress gangsta I talk ebonics, got no education but I play football, plus we black guys have the bigger d*cks..."
Although it's not necessarily the norm, but from my minuscule two year stay in the US, sadly the majority of black guys seem to fit into this kind. They are NOT necessarily really into this lifestyle, but many try to give out this impression as if it's something to be proud of.
Sure we all know that women like bad boys, and many times at the local clubs, the guys who got the most success are exactly those thuggish looking black gangsta style dressed black guys.
Once one black guy like that even threatened to beat the sh*t out of me
with his football player friends (all blacks of course, and how brave is it against one guy? ) out of nowhere, just because I was too good of a dancer and maybe he didn't like it. Sure his attitude got major approval from their blonde airhead bimbo...
If this is how they work the clubs, don't get mad if the same tactic works against them when there's a serious relationship on the line.
Chosen1:
I don't know want "kind" of black guy you are, so I'm NOT saying that you are like the ones that I just mentioned.
If you are truely a great guy, try to work the other angles a little, actually backbreaker talked about this issue already in one of his posts, basically, you need to show them and show her that you are a black guy, a
greatblack guy, not the "stereotypical" black guy.