It's always the ones you don't want

Gamisch

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Anyone else find the majority of girls that you attract you just aren't interested in ?

Got one right now blonde HB 7 that's constantly blowing up my phone smashed her sex was meh at best

She's a pretty girl but i Quickly came to the conclusion I'm just not attracted to her the way she is attracted to me

I am not joking when I say I come across a girl I'm really bothered about and vibe with maybe once every couple of years and even then I have to pretend I am not that interested so not to come off to keen because we all know how much women hate keen men

IDK wtf I am doing wrong or where I need to go to find the types I want , maybe its just a case of always wanting something you can't have

Definitely find myself in a conundrum and it's annoying the fvck out of me.
https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...years-borderline-unusable.278227/post-3033544

This post seems simple but did a lot for me.

Patient. A word we dont love in manosphere. Because patient is the perfect way to sell someone snake oil. But patient and not taking women too serious might help a ton. Also goes with the cliche to make women a byproduct rather than a priority in life. Such a simle statement did a lot for me. "Aah yes treat them and JUDGE them like children ".


For reference; I'm a black ( mixed with all kinds of nationalities and races) guy . So i tend to attract Tyrone lovers. You know, the white/Asian/ Latina women who love black dudes. While my preference is petite arty farty hippie like women that like jazz music and paint with their fingers, i only attract women that can sing along with ALL of Future's songs...When you dont act the part some women already get confused haha.

I've actually rejected women because of this. I had this phase where i wanted to be more than a replaceable D. Now i realize that's what we all are.

Lastly, there's a reason why hb8,5 is also unable to find The One.
 

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Another thing that happens to me is a girl that rejected me hard back in the day now has an epiphany years later and wants to be with me. It never fails. “I’ve had years to think about this and I regret not giving you a chance back in the day, I always knew you were a great guy and I was stupid to not see it. I’d like to give us a shot if you’re interested” It’s like they read from a script cause all the messages sound that way. Problem is my brain doesn’t work like that, when I like you I like you but once I get over you I’ll never be interested ever again. I’ve never subscribed that women’s attraction never changes, it absolutely does with time, I’ve seen it happen personally.
 

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Anyone else find the majority of girls that you attract you just aren't interested in ?

Got one right now blonde HB 7 that's constantly blowing up my phone smashed her sex was meh at best

She's a pretty girl but i Quickly came to the conclusion I'm just not attracted to her the way she is attracted to me

I am not joking when I say I come across a girl I'm really bothered about and vibe with maybe once every couple of years and even then I have to pretend I am not that interested so not to come off to keen because we all know how much women hate keen men

IDK wtf I am doing wrong or where I need to go to find the types I want , maybe its just a case of always wanting something you can't have

Definitely find myself in a conundrum and it's annoying the fvck out of me.
No one said you and chicks have to be on the same wavelength mentally.

Unless the brawd is mentally utterly repulsive, then put her in your fuk-buddy drawer, and pull her out as a last resort when you need to get off.

If you have the kind of effect on her like you say you do, then she wouldn't have a problem with that.

Place her in the proper drawer and keep the rotation running strong.
 
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