Hey everyone..thanks for all the input! I think there is a lot of good advice on this thread, and I appreciate everyone's thoughts.
Wyldfire is right on the money with this one and was able to quickly get to the root of the issues. To put a long story short, it has been a big power struggle from the start with this girl...on all levels. I know the best advise is to get out and not waste any more time, but I must say, I have never met anyone that I have more in common with. So, why even bother? I guess it was the whole challenge of it all. It's like the cowboy that chooses the toughest horse to break in the herd, because he knows if he can break that horse in, he will have the strongest, healthiest, quickest one. I figured it was a great way to improve my game so to speak, and if I could even the playing field, I could end up with a confident loyal gal with her head on straight. Furthermore, as Wyldfire said, we have the same career, and not to give too much info, but for what we do, quitting is not an option and you have to be extremely determined. So..in my mind, if I simply next this gal, I'll have quit and not lived up to her standards.
That was my thinking, up until, as Joekerr eloquently pointed out, I got b!tch slapped...hard. I don't care if it was my brother, a friend, or a wife of 10 years..if you are at a restuarant eating dinner with someone, it is a complete lack of respect to open a magazine and ignore the person you are with. Actions always speak louder than words. At the time it sucked, but I'm actually laughing about it now...in a way, it was a good wake up call.
So..anyway, she called twice today and I didn't answer. The first time she left a message as if nothing had happened. I'm realizing she is unattainable and not worth my time anymore. The truth is, never respect someone that doesn't respect you back.
On a positive note, dealing with your average woman is a lot easier for me now! I'm not spinning plates, though I do have one other plate spinning.
Thanks agian everone..