iturbide1980
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Hello, everybody..
I just want to let everybody know how much this site has help me...
it has been two weeks since I discover this site..and everything in here is some powerful stuff...
I just want to tell you that if I can approach girls know anybody can....
this was my thing...I am a hispanic..in Nc..at first i kind felt depressed sinces there wasnt a lot of hispanic chicks to really hang around ..so really the only girls that i really hang around a lot..WERE MY COUSINS..(YOURE SOCIAL LIFE CANT GET MORE SORRY THAN THAT)
and i discover this site...(i just really recently started to go to two clubs recently...) and...at first i could get nobody to dance with me..but really i only asked like three and then kind of give up....
but since i discover this site.. and all the great tips...here...
i read an thread..saying that after the dance..youre one of those guys that fell depressed because you did not asked nobody out..well...
that was me....i was mad at myself..and i a found this great site...
and it gave me a lot of inspirations..this friday...
i went to this club...by myself...and it was kereoke night...
at first you kno the normal routine..(for a guy whose care to death..)
went to the bar grabbed me a beer..
and then..i thought to myself..youre doing the same thing you did last week..so i gather strenght inside me..and i saw this three chicks dancing by themselves in a little circle..two were fine..and one was kind of chubby ...two of them were like 30 year olds. and lucky me..the third one was 21...and well..like i said..i gather strentgh inside me..and got up and went straight to them..and i swear...just by being sincere...girls are really friendly at heart and are waiting for a hello..(well thas my perspecitve..remember i am the guy who was care to death just by approaching one..)
well i went up to them...and said hey can i dance with youll...i am not a great dancer..but i have a 100% attitude..so they dance with me like three songs...and after that..guess what to of them left...and before i knew it..i was dancing...with the 21 year old...
i dance like 3 more songs...and that was that..BUT LIKE I SAID..I WAS HYPER AFTER THAT FULL OF CONFIDENSE THAT I RETURN TO MY TABLE AGAING..AN I SAW this 5 girls...sitting, just talking..and i tried to follow all the advices that they give in this site...and i said to myself...god..if i go...and talk to them i might get rejected..buecase their in their little group...
well guess what...I DID IT AGAIN I TOLD TO MYSELF...
just go up there..and be yourself...i went to their table...
and said..hey can i sit with youll...and they said sure..i introduced myself..and so they did...
well..i just keep i lived conversation...and before i knew it..I WASNT JUST TALKING TO ONE..BUT FIVE...
then...i said to myself being a little ambitios...i saw this two hotties getting it on..so i did the same thing...that i did at the beginning i went up to them and said...hey can i dance with youll and she said sure i dont care...AND REMEMBER I WAS JUST GIVING THE FRIENDLY APPROACH..AT ALL OF THEM...
then...boy i was gettin smiles from all the girls in there...
all of them..i even had time to flirt with the bartender...
and you know i dance with more girls but why mentioned them..(hahhaha i swear i wouldnt have thought of saying that phrase 3 weeks ago..)
and the bad thing is that ...well i dont know if it was my tactic..
i know youre going to say youre so stupid..no i did not get any numbers...but you know what ...is because i did not asked for none...and i did not really wanted to hook up with nobody...
i just wanted to meet people...
and you know i swear i problably meet like 20 girls that night....and you know since i got there at 10 oclock i did not stop dancing till 2:24 am...
i am like a new person...know i say hello to everybody...mcdonalds..the mall...anywhere..i even flirt with the old ladies...jajajjajaj
ITS ALL ABOUT ATTITUDE...THAT NIGHT I FELT LIKE A MILLION BUCKS...AND I SWEAR when i was dancing and saw all of the guys with their beers in their hands just watching..i just wanted to TALK SOME SENSE IN TO THEM...BUT THEN I SAID HOLD ON A SECOND...WHY MOTIVATE THE COMPETITION...
SO BELIEVE IT OR NOT...THIS SITE HAS CHANGED MY SOCIAL LIFE..
it went from 0% to the fullest..well truthfully i have good social skills ...i can talk with anybody...EXCEPT GIRLS..NOW THAT I KNOW I CAN...well what can i say....
and i know i still need a lot of worked..on my moves..but hey the hard part was starting the conversation..and that i can do...
well...i just wanted to share this with ALL OF YOULL....
I KNOW I SOUND CORNY SAYING ALL OF THIS..BUT THERES A LOT OF GUYS LIKE ME OUTTHERE...
WELL..LIKE I SAID...
LIVE YOUR LIFE, LIKE TODAY WAS YOUR LAST DAY AND IF YOU REALLY TAKE THAT PHARESE TO THE HEARTH I SWEAR YOU WILL BE A DIFFRENT PERSON..
I just want to let everybody know how much this site has help me...
it has been two weeks since I discover this site..and everything in here is some powerful stuff...
I just want to tell you that if I can approach girls know anybody can....
this was my thing...I am a hispanic..in Nc..at first i kind felt depressed sinces there wasnt a lot of hispanic chicks to really hang around ..so really the only girls that i really hang around a lot..WERE MY COUSINS..(YOURE SOCIAL LIFE CANT GET MORE SORRY THAN THAT)
and i discover this site...(i just really recently started to go to two clubs recently...) and...at first i could get nobody to dance with me..but really i only asked like three and then kind of give up....
but since i discover this site.. and all the great tips...here...
i read an thread..saying that after the dance..youre one of those guys that fell depressed because you did not asked nobody out..well...
that was me....i was mad at myself..and i a found this great site...
and it gave me a lot of inspirations..this friday...
i went to this club...by myself...and it was kereoke night...
at first you kno the normal routine..(for a guy whose care to death..)
went to the bar grabbed me a beer..
and then..i thought to myself..youre doing the same thing you did last week..so i gather strenght inside me..and i saw this three chicks dancing by themselves in a little circle..two were fine..and one was kind of chubby ...two of them were like 30 year olds. and lucky me..the third one was 21...and well..like i said..i gather strentgh inside me..and got up and went straight to them..and i swear...just by being sincere...girls are really friendly at heart and are waiting for a hello..(well thas my perspecitve..remember i am the guy who was care to death just by approaching one..)
well i went up to them...and said hey can i dance with youll...i am not a great dancer..but i have a 100% attitude..so they dance with me like three songs...and after that..guess what to of them left...and before i knew it..i was dancing...with the 21 year old...
i dance like 3 more songs...and that was that..BUT LIKE I SAID..I WAS HYPER AFTER THAT FULL OF CONFIDENSE THAT I RETURN TO MY TABLE AGAING..AN I SAW this 5 girls...sitting, just talking..and i tried to follow all the advices that they give in this site...and i said to myself...god..if i go...and talk to them i might get rejected..buecase their in their little group...
well guess what...I DID IT AGAIN I TOLD TO MYSELF...
just go up there..and be yourself...i went to their table...
and said..hey can i sit with youll...and they said sure..i introduced myself..and so they did...
well..i just keep i lived conversation...and before i knew it..I WASNT JUST TALKING TO ONE..BUT FIVE...
then...i said to myself being a little ambitios...i saw this two hotties getting it on..so i did the same thing...that i did at the beginning i went up to them and said...hey can i dance with youll and she said sure i dont care...AND REMEMBER I WAS JUST GIVING THE FRIENDLY APPROACH..AT ALL OF THEM...
then...boy i was gettin smiles from all the girls in there...
all of them..i even had time to flirt with the bartender...
and you know i dance with more girls but why mentioned them..(hahhaha i swear i wouldnt have thought of saying that phrase 3 weeks ago..)
and the bad thing is that ...well i dont know if it was my tactic..
i know youre going to say youre so stupid..no i did not get any numbers...but you know what ...is because i did not asked for none...and i did not really wanted to hook up with nobody...
i just wanted to meet people...
and you know i swear i problably meet like 20 girls that night....and you know since i got there at 10 oclock i did not stop dancing till 2:24 am...
i am like a new person...know i say hello to everybody...mcdonalds..the mall...anywhere..i even flirt with the old ladies...jajajjajaj
ITS ALL ABOUT ATTITUDE...THAT NIGHT I FELT LIKE A MILLION BUCKS...AND I SWEAR when i was dancing and saw all of the guys with their beers in their hands just watching..i just wanted to TALK SOME SENSE IN TO THEM...BUT THEN I SAID HOLD ON A SECOND...WHY MOTIVATE THE COMPETITION...
SO BELIEVE IT OR NOT...THIS SITE HAS CHANGED MY SOCIAL LIFE..
it went from 0% to the fullest..well truthfully i have good social skills ...i can talk with anybody...EXCEPT GIRLS..NOW THAT I KNOW I CAN...well what can i say....
and i know i still need a lot of worked..on my moves..but hey the hard part was starting the conversation..and that i can do...
well...i just wanted to share this with ALL OF YOULL....
I KNOW I SOUND CORNY SAYING ALL OF THIS..BUT THERES A LOT OF GUYS LIKE ME OUTTHERE...
WELL..LIKE I SAID...
LIVE YOUR LIFE, LIKE TODAY WAS YOUR LAST DAY AND IF YOU REALLY TAKE THAT PHARESE TO THE HEARTH I SWEAR YOU WILL BE A DIFFRENT PERSON..
