It's a Fly World: Mayfly's Journal

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Been a long time since I posted anything real in-depth on here, but here we go. I am writing this journal as a testament of my approaches, life, and thoughts.

I recently moved 800 miles away from home in pursuit of my career. I moved about two months ago. I live in a small, summer resort town that dies down during the winter, so approaching may be hard, but I will give it a shot.

In the two months that I have been here, I have had sex several times with two women (not a threesome, different women a few times each).

The first, I met off of Craigslist. I really didn't care and I just wanted to get some and I am sure she felt the same. She was an HB6, nothing really special, but she had a great personality. In the first 45 minutes of meeting her, she went from timid to open to pulling me onto the bed. She knew how to fvck, which was a huge plus and we had a nice long session.

The second, I met in a local bar. It was pretty crowded and I went in there alone. I had a few drinks and I just went to enjoy the time. I saw several girls make eye contact, but I kept going, danced with a few, but I couldn't feel a connection. Eventually I was standing over near the bar and HB7 drags me onto the dance floor. No words, no nothing. Just drags me over. I barely had to do anything besides whispering the occasional nothing in her ear. On the walk back to my place, she gave me a hand job, and from there she was mine.

Recently, I have been talking to a lot of couples in the bar, and actually the women are so gravitated toward me that the boyfriends are pulling them closer. They leaned in to get a better listen and asked really good questions. The boyfriends didn't quite like it as they pulled them back. I see one couple in the local bar every now and then, and the husband hardly makes eye contact with me.

There are some cute women at work, but I am going to lay off of them because you don't want to sh!t where you eat.

My confidence is going up, which is great, and I have been cutting down my body fat. I workout a bunch so feel free to ask me any fitness questions. There are going to be pictures at the end of this post to show what I look like and what the ladies like (no homo).

Halloween is on Wednesday, and it's a pretty big bar night so we'll see how it goes.

Here are a few pics.
http://img237.imageshack.us/img237/7171/img0755ty9.jpg (I'm in the striped shirt holding the pint)

http://img165.imageshack.us/img165/9402/img07801jp8.jpg (my body - no homo)
 

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Tonight was Halloween and it went pretty well. It started out kind of slow, some approaches, saw one girl checking me out half the night, but it was going all right. I went as a generic superhero and I was dressed in real tight spandex to show off my body and I got some compliments.

Anyway...fast forward to later in the night. I talk to a 2-set of girls. One is a HB5, the other is a HB7. I open the HB5 and talk to her for a few seconds before turning to the HB7 and say something along the lines of "why haven't you said anything yet." She blushed, but she enjoyed it and she talked to me for a while. She was from abroad and was leaving the next day and she had a friend with her who wouldn't let her out of her sight. So I ejected.

At the end of the night I went outside and I saw my roommate with a chick I passed off to him earlier. He was kind of gaming her hard, and she had a friend with her. My roommate's girl was a HB5, my girl was an HB7.5. We'll call HBYoga.

I go up to the 2-set (with my roommate):

Mayfly: So I see you have met my roommate X.
HB5: Yeah, I have met him so far
HBYoga: I haven't met him yet.
Mayfly: Well he's not too important (smiling), my name's Mayfly.
HBYoga: Oh, nice to meet you.
Mayfly (turning to HB5): So is your friend so mean that she won't introduce herself to a guy?
HB5: Laughs
HBYoga: Hey, that wasn't nice, my name is XXXXX.
Mayfly: So what are you supposed to be?
HBYoga: A crow.
Mayfly: I thought you were emo. I guess I'll eat crow tonight (winks).
HBYoga: haha, what are you supposed to be?
Mayfly: Guess.
HBYoga: I don't know.
Mayfly: Girls call me Superman.

We talk for a little while longer, I learn she goes to the local college. I make her DHV to me to match mine. I am chilling back in my seat and just letting the time go by. Her hand was on my leg at points and I was returning the kino. Near the end of the conversation I wanted to close and I saw my roommate was trying to get somewhere.

Mayfly: Hey, what are you doing after this?
HBYoga: Not sure yet, we have class tomorrow.

***I forgot this was a school night***

Mayfly: Well, how about you give me your number so we can talk later.
HBYoga: Well, how about you tell your friend to call my friend and you can get it that way.

***I tried to plow through this sh!t test, but it seemed to be pretty strong. I guessed she thought my roommate was interested in her friend and wanted to look out for her.***

Mayfly: Well, as long as I get it, I won't be mad if I see you out again.
HBYoga: I'm sure you'll get it (smile)
 

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Went out to the bars tonight. Everyone was pretty much out of town. Played darts with two girls (HB5 and HB6) for a bit. Didn't try to game them too hard. Tomorrow I heard should be good, so we'll see how it goes.

My friend called the girl from Halloween night and she didn't answer. I wonder what my chances of seeing the girl I was gaming again are. Oh well, bigger goals, more shots for success.

Any opinions on my Halloween approach and gaming?
 

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This weekend the town was pretty much dead, and I expect it to be like that over the winter. I sent 10 messages out on MySpace, and got one response. It was positive, but she has a boyfriend in the area and said "she usually doesn't give out her number to guys on MySpace, but she could make an exception in my case if she thinks more about it." We'll see.

Any thoughts on my previous approaches and what I have been talking about?
 

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You seem to be going alright, it just seems like there's a lack of sets where your at.

Did you reach the hook point with HByoga? because from the sounds of it you could've hooked her a little harder...

And possibly when you were # closing you could've framed it differently, instead of asking her for her #, give her no choice. The good old ''Your SO interesting when can we continue this?'' is surprisingly effective when used at the right time...
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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thatguyjamalx said:
You seem to be going alright, it just seems like there's a lack of sets where your at.

Did you reach the hook point with HByoga? because from the sounds of it you could've hooked her a little harder...

And possibly when you were # closing you could've framed it differently, instead of asking her for her #, give her no choice. The good old ''Your SO interesting when can we continue this?'' is surprisingly effective when used at the right time...
There is a huge lack of sets where I am right now. The hook point with HBYoga was there man, I tried to convey it in the post. I tried to grab the number but she was looking out for her friend. My friend called them but she didn't answer, so I hope to see them out some time again. My number closes need some work, I agree, but I have had success in getting numbers just by asking some ways. I may try your idea. There's a mall about an hour away, but it has a whole lot of high schoolers, and I am not trying to mess around with any of them at 22.
 

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Hey good job man you did some pretty good things! Its pretty trippy to see a guy make a Journal where the first thing post is him getting some pvssy already! lol. Good luck man and you destroyed a stereotype for me, I always thought my good looking guys always had it easy with girls I mean I'm attractive but I dont think I look as good as you(dont get a big head lol). Good luck and nice going on working out I've been working out for a while to and am loving the boost in confidence.
 

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j0n024 said:
Hey good job man you did some pretty good things! Its pretty trippy to see a guy make a Journal where the first thing post is him getting some pvssy already! lol. Good luck man and you destroyed a stereotype for me, I always thought my good looking guys always had it easy with girls I mean I'm attractive but I dont think I look as good as you(dont get a big head lol). Good luck and nice going on working out I've been working out for a while to and am loving the boost in confidence.
Thanks for the post and I appreciate your kind words. I don't get a big head from guys telling me that I'm good looking, so don't worry. I may be moving in the near future to pursue a career path, actually in Texas, so that could help a lot. I'll keep this up as long as I have people and women to approach.
 

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Hey I live in TX if you do decide to move tell me and we can sarge together , Good luck and looking foward to your FR's.
 

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Brak, I guess I'll be able to see for myself tomorrow when I head down to Texas. I'm flying into San Antonio and making my drive north. We'll see what I can get into on Friday night before I need to check into my hotel.
 

Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Ohh man good luck in SA! I would go meet up with you but I cant saving my money for a while :(. But good luck but you know what you should do!!! #close a girl at SeaWorld!!! I always wanted to do that, it would be a cool memory lol.Anyways good luck.
 

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Posted this on another web site...

You are wrong in the fact that my "methods" only work in picking up women in the bar or in a one night stand situation (in which I have only had one in my life). I have had more success outside of the bar scene in the past year than I have had in there. I have had more success in a mall, class, or other gathering places, than parties. Honestly, one word matters with how you pick-up or talk to women, or whatever have you: CONFIDENCE.

For those people that don't have that confidence, need to find a way to try to get it. Maybe it's because you feel you are overweight. Then go out and workout, find time in your busy schedule to get to the gym and do 30 minutes of cardio or 100 sit-ups a day. Maybe it's because you don't think you are stylish enough to get noticed. Go out, buy one or two nice shirts and change your wardrobe that way. I don't know what it is, but you need to find that one thing or few things that are holding your confidence back from showing your TRUE self, and change it.

There's no magical formula in talking to women, but they can tell when you have no confidence. Whatever attraction they had to you at that moment is gone once they find out you have no confidence in yourself and your abilities. That goes for any age of women, no matter the situation.
 

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j0n024 said:
Ohh man good luck in SA! I would go meet up with you but I cant saving my money for a while :(. But good luck but you know what you should do!!! #close a girl at SeaWorld!!! I always wanted to do that, it would be a cool memory lol.Anyways good luck.
I'm not going to have too much time for sightseeing, as this is a straight business trip. How old are you j0n? I may have time to try to get some numbers, but we'll see.
 

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heheh 20 why do I sound like a child still? I think I could pull of a SeaWorld pickup.
 

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j0n024 said:
heheh 20 why do I sound like a child still? I think I could pull of a SeaWorld pickup.
Nah man, just don't know how we could test out the bar scene with you still being underage (unless you have one of those fakes: which I don't condone for you youngsters)...just kidding.
 

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hehe ya we can say your my older bro and I should be able to go in with you sorta like StripClubs, I would just have to pay cover lol.
 

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Well I am down in Austin, Texas right now and I'm sarging with a fellow SoSuave member. I will post FRs and pictures when I get a chance tomorrow. Wish us luck.
 

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On Friday at the airport before my flight down to Texas, I saw a chick waiting in the bus terminal where I would be going as well. I just opened up with "how are you doing today." She was very receptive (HB7) and said she was fine even though it was cold. She was wearing all black, so I said "Isn't black supposed to absorb heat?" She laughed and we fluffed for a little while longer. We got on the bus and other people came on, so we fell out of a little bit on contact. I got into the airport and walked around since I was there forever before my flight. I saw her sitting at her gate, and sat beside her. We talked some more, I got her number, but I doubt we are going to get to hang out since she lives 5 hours away.

I'll add more as I absorb it all.
 

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It was posted in the "Frat Parties FR", but here's the number close that I got with that chick when I was sarging down there too.

**She walks out of her dorm and is coming near us. I ask someone in the group of three to give me a line to use and the best thing that they said was 24th street**

Mayfly: Excuse me, do you know where 24th street is?
HB8: No, I'm sorry. I just started here so I really don't know the area.
Mayfly: Well that kind of sucks. I guess we're just going to wander in the streets of Austin then.
HB8: Well I can't have that.
Mayfly: What CD is that (seeing her holding a CD)
HB8: Britney Spears' new one
Mayfly: Well, I just lost all respect for you (turning around)
HB8: Hey, she has some good songs on there.
Mayfly: I guess, and you are even wearing a Britney like hat (reaching out and taking the hat off of her)
HB8: Hey, give that back
Mayfly: It looks better on me anyway.
HB8: I don't know about all that.
Mayfly: Yeah, it's not stylish enough for me.

We talk for a little while longer.

HB8: Look, my friends are going to get mad at me if I don't get to this party.
Mayfly: Well, how about you give me your number so we can meet up a little later at a better party?
HB8: I don't even know you. How do I know you're not some creepy guy.
Mayfly: You just gotta take that chance.
HB8: Well, here it is, XXX-XXX-XXXX.
 

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I am going to Boston this weekend to wing with Brak, but can I have any comments or critiques on my gaming so far?
 
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